Okay now she is getting out of hand.
My Mom was spazzing at me because I was a little late. She was so angry that was two minutes late that she came at picked me up half way from my friend Cali's house, which is only a little ways. It normally takes about 15 minutes to get home. I made sure that we left her house at quarter till to make sure we were home in time and this is what happens when im 2 blocks away from my house and im 2 minutes late.
"I think I deserve to be upset since you can't even handle time correctly young lady"
"Mom, I watched it and we left at quarter till and it’s hard walking with a pillow and a purse home really fast. I'm taking the blame for this but you have no right to be angry at me"
"Oh yes I do young lady. If you are home like that one more time I’m never letting you go out again and you'll never see those rotten friends of yours again. "
She thinks I’m turning this imaginary "emo" and she thinks I’m on drugs. Wtf? What else do you want mom? Want me to be the ultimate prep and cost you tons and tons of money? No I didn’t think so and you know what?...I’m fucking tired of it. I should have to be afraid to be myself in my own house. I shouldn't have to ask to wear eyeliner because I want to feel beautiful. I shouldn't have to follow these stupid rules like "no black, no skulls, no chains, no makeup, and no boys" I’m tired of it. I'm 14 years old and I'm not an adult. But nor am I a child. So you know what? Treat me like a teenager.
Just tell her to back off and leave you alone or she will drive you to join some dangerous cult that sacrifises evil mothers!
Meerkat, August 5th, 2007 at 06:07:48pm
hmmmm sounds like my mom. it's so annoying. anytime i do something with my friends she's like "i know your up to no good..." anyways i can relate.
insomniac<3333, August 5th, 2007 at 07:05:14am
My mum wants me to spend loads and loads of her money!
banquo, August 5th, 2007 at 06:39:44am
I'm not lazy, I just sleep alot during the summer to make up the lost hours in school :]
TheHobostacheSheriff, August 5th, 2007 at 05:55:26am
I've been dealing with this for a year now. It's like "Oh My Gosh Mom, just leave me alone. I'm not this "emo" you think of and I can't breathe. It's like you put me in a bubble. You need to pop it before I suffocate to death"
TheHobostacheSheriff, August 5th, 2007 at 05:54:31am
*has read this on myspazz*
Your parents need to learn to trust you more.
Do some stuff around the house.
Unless you want to be lazy.
Like me!
WE ARE THE LAZY GENERATION!
captain america, August 5th, 2007 at 05:53:22am
She does that because she cares. I think she just needs to learn to trust you a little more. Is there a way you can gain her trust? You also need your privacy. Let her know that you need your space and you want some privacy between the two of you. There are probably a lot of things you don't know about her which she doesn't want to share with you for the same reason you wouldn't want to do the same. Just try your best to cope with it and cooperate with each other. In time she'll understand.
threeam., August 5th, 2007 at 05:42:58am
i do talk to her calmly. All the time. I even have my therapist she got me, talk to her about it. Its just stupid how she wants to know everything in my life to the people i hang out to the clothes i buy and what i talk about with my friends.
TheHobostacheSheriff, August 5th, 2007 at 05:29:00am
I know you're against her but maybe just try talking to her calmly?
Or try to explain to her that you are not on drugs and stuff.
It seems as though she's a little over protective but I'm sure she has good intentions.You do deserve a right amount of respect, freedom and space though.
threeam., August 5th, 2007 at 05:26:04am