Men o.O
Ah...
How should I say this... Men confuse me.
I love men (just see my profile). I hate men.
I'm terrified of men. I've NEVER had a proper conversation with a guy my age. Oh, except on the internet. And yes, I am 19 years old. My lack of social skills would amaze you. I can't say anything smart when I talk to people, I only say stupid shit. And because of this, I'm terrified to talk to people. Even more terrified to talk to -or generally just be around- guys.
I have a good excuse for this though... My excuse is not having a dad. Since I was a child I was totally, completely terrified of all men except my grandpa. I'm still terrified of most men... in real life.
How am I ever suppose to have a relationships of any kind (again, except on the internet) when I'm so damn freaked out about guys? Why do you men make me so nervous? How can I get over this? Also, I'm kinda doubting that anyone would really like to be with me anyway. I'm not attractive person and I'm quite difficult to be with in general.
It's also weird that most people I look up to are men (again, just see my profile).
Well, I obviously like guys, I'm a female. But I also hate a lot of things about them. I hate how some men think they're superior. I hate men that are too much into sports. I hate that testosterone shit. What is it with that anyway? Why do men always have to win? Why do they always have to be competitive and show off? Pathetic.
I like guys who have the guts to be soft. To say "Aww, I love kittens" or "Hey, animal abuse is wrong, I'm against it."
I hate guys who think killing animals or raping women makes them more men o.O
Let me quote Sick Of It All here...
"Desperate fool - unforgivable - Your kind won't stand a chance
You call yourself a man? Let's leave your fate up to those who've been raped."
Well anyways, I could go on and on about this, but I decided to stop so I wont bore you to death...
Btw, could someone tell me why can't guys call other guys hot? Are they so afraid that saying it would make 'em look gay? That's so uptight.
Are you a man? Please comment.
Are you not a man? Comment also please.
How should I say this... Men confuse me.
I love men (just see my profile). I hate men.
I'm terrified of men. I've NEVER had a proper conversation with a guy my age. Oh, except on the internet. And yes, I am 19 years old. My lack of social skills would amaze you. I can't say anything smart when I talk to people, I only say stupid shit. And because of this, I'm terrified to talk to people. Even more terrified to talk to -or generally just be around- guys.
I have a good excuse for this though... My excuse is not having a dad. Since I was a child I was totally, completely terrified of all men except my grandpa. I'm still terrified of most men... in real life.
How am I ever suppose to have a relationships of any kind (again, except on the internet) when I'm so damn freaked out about guys? Why do you men make me so nervous? How can I get over this? Also, I'm kinda doubting that anyone would really like to be with me anyway. I'm not attractive person and I'm quite difficult to be with in general.
It's also weird that most people I look up to are men (again, just see my profile).
Well, I obviously like guys, I'm a female. But I also hate a lot of things about them. I hate how some men think they're superior. I hate men that are too much into sports. I hate that testosterone shit. What is it with that anyway? Why do men always have to win? Why do they always have to be competitive and show off? Pathetic.
I like guys who have the guts to be soft. To say "Aww, I love kittens" or "Hey, animal abuse is wrong, I'm against it."
I hate guys who think killing animals or raping women makes them more men o.O
Let me quote Sick Of It All here...
"Desperate fool - unforgivable - Your kind won't stand a chance
You call yourself a man? Let's leave your fate up to those who've been raped."
Well anyways, I could go on and on about this, but I decided to stop so I wont bore you to death...
Btw, could someone tell me why can't guys call other guys hot? Are they so afraid that saying it would make 'em look gay? That's so uptight.
Are you a man? Please comment.
Are you not a man? Comment also please.
well like dude, one of my best friends on here said that the members of A7X were hot. of course he is Bi, but you know? he doesnt care. i think its weird that guys dont say that guys are hot, but like football players hit each others butts and shower together! WTF?!
but yeah,. guys confuse me too.
It wasnt boring! it was really good, i was planning on writing one about this at some point, but you beat me to it.
Me being Bi and a Chick, I get that both women and men are confusing but i think guys are worse. LOL
thank you for your intuitive blog.
Mechanical Animals, July 3rd, 2008 at 06:53:03pm
I'm a guy.
Just defending my sex here, women are much more confusing than us xD
For the most part we're straight forward about our thoughts and feelings. Well I am anyways, I'm one the softer types, perhaps even a bit nerdy, and I used to feel the same way about being around girls. Then I got into a relationship (it was actually a bad one), and that gave me some self confidence.
But yeah, this is all personality. I go to an all-guys school, and 90% of them are the stereotypical guy who's into sports and disrespecting women. But there are ones out there like me who actually show compassion, love and honesty. You just either gotta get lucky or go looking really really hard
Dean Peen, June 16th, 2008 at 05:56:05pm
Woman can rape men.
Fast And The Furious, June 16th, 2008 at 02:46:11am
Yea i know
but hey its just opinions right
^^
Rain, June 15th, 2008 at 11:55:05pm
My purpose wasn't to mock guys. This blog was suppose to be about how I have mixed feelings... heh.
And excuse me, when do women rape men??? I mean, wtf??
Miss Neurotic, June 15th, 2008 at 11:52:16pm
Yea but Girls arent all that better either
you guys beat down guys. But girls are much worse. They dont appericate what they have in front of them and will do anything to get what they want. Girls can rape guys too, dont forget that u just dont hear about it like to do when Guys rape girls.
Also Girls dont care most of the time if they hurt guys or not.
Idk but girls can be worse then guys.
Rain, June 15th, 2008 at 11:04:22pm
I know what you're talking about. I like guys too even though I'm having sexuality problems at the moment. But yeah, I get really sick of the way they treat girls and are so shallow and all the other sh*t. And I hate the kinda guys that are attracted to me; absolute pond-life
I'm steering well clear of them all for now, my life is so nearly perfect. I don't need them crapping on about utter sh*te to me 
EDIT:
"Its just another thing to add to your list of things you may not ever understand. For me, I'll never understand why girls always travel in packs. They go to the bathroom togeather, they walk in the halls togeather, they get on the lunch line togeather. I don't know why, and I doubt I ever will. Thats just 1 example."
It's simply a girl-thing.. I think we just enjoy each others company alot and I mean ALOT of the time. I also think we talk more with and see our closest friends more than guys do.. we're more sociable.
Trusty Chords., June 15th, 2008 at 09:51:31pm
Just to get this out, I'm a guy, and I very much love kittens (hence the icon)...
You think we're so uptight? You're kidding right? I think guys are pretty strait-forward. Ask a question and chances are you'll get an honest answer. Unless its an akward question or you're dealing with a lieing dirtbag.
Its just another thing to add to your list of things you may not ever understand. For me, I'll never understand why girls always travel in packs. They go to the bathroom togeather, they walk in the halls togeather, they get on the lunch line togeather. I don't know why, and I doubt I ever will. Thats just 1 example.
About guys who are too into sprots, and are obsessed with winning and showing off. Well I know guys and girls who are like that. It has nothing to do with gender, just persionality. And that whole thing about guys calling eachother "hot", you may as well just add that to the list of things you may not ever understand. We just don't
Blarg!, June 15th, 2008 at 09:26:21pm
I know what you mean. I don't like most men...even though I haven't really been treated badly by one, I just watch how they treat others sometimes or act or whatever, and I don't like it. I especially ahve a problem with guys who treat women as pieces of meat and who think that they're the best. I hate womanizers and stuff like that. Or perverts. I hate it all.
Yeah, it would be cool to finally see a normal guy for once haha. It's almost hard to imagine that there is one out there...
Haha guys calling other guys "hot." Um, well I don't know. I think they just naturally feel awkward saying that sometimes for several reasons. One of the reasons could be that it may make them look silly or gay. Hehe, I don't know. I think that sometimes they just don't think about those things, and so when they do, they're not used to it so they think it's a little weird.
Flan, June 15th, 2008 at 03:38:31pm
I know how you feel, I've never known my father, and i don't want to.
My ex step dad sexually harassed me, when I was very young and I haven't gotten over it, I am afraid of men, so very much.
Even when they just come up to and ask me a question I will flinch and freak out but i do try to stay calm But it's very hard.
And my ex Boyfriend kind of .... almost raped me...
So It's very hard.
I'm very paranoid.
And I hate the way men are as well...
"Real men don't rape"
I like the kind softy's, and sweet men.
Uncle Silas, June 14th, 2008 at 10:05:29pm