Kill me, kill me not.
No, this is not about suicide.
Anyway, my grandpa joined eharmony, because of his loneliness, and on his profile put how much money he has. He got this lady Mary for a girlfriend, and I've found out she's been married three times before, and when she divorced, she sued them all out of every cent. Now, she's been asking for mani/pedis weekly, fancy restaurants every night, she prefers staying at 5 start hotels, and makes my grandpa pay for it all. I think she's out for his money, and that's all.
Now, she wants to sell the house I'm living in, for the money. We've re-painted all the walls three times, built a shed, put in new floors, and re-landscaped, and it all came out of our money. Now, we're asking my grandpa to pay us back for all that stuff, and he won't, so we can't afford a new home. And any place to rent isn't in our town. Meaning new jobs, new school, and many problems. We might have to sell our only dog, and my dad's motorcycle just to afford it.
My life has been officially ruined, and I can't do anything about it. I haven't even meet Mary and I already hate her. I've lost all respect for my grandpa, and so have my parents.
I'm not looking for sympathy, but hope to find a happier time in the future.
Anyway, my grandpa joined eharmony, because of his loneliness, and on his profile put how much money he has. He got this lady Mary for a girlfriend, and I've found out she's been married three times before, and when she divorced, she sued them all out of every cent. Now, she's been asking for mani/pedis weekly, fancy restaurants every night, she prefers staying at 5 start hotels, and makes my grandpa pay for it all. I think she's out for his money, and that's all.
Now, she wants to sell the house I'm living in, for the money. We've re-painted all the walls three times, built a shed, put in new floors, and re-landscaped, and it all came out of our money. Now, we're asking my grandpa to pay us back for all that stuff, and he won't, so we can't afford a new home. And any place to rent isn't in our town. Meaning new jobs, new school, and many problems. We might have to sell our only dog, and my dad's motorcycle just to afford it.
My life has been officially ruined, and I can't do anything about it. I haven't even meet Mary and I already hate her. I've lost all respect for my grandpa, and so have my parents.
I'm not looking for sympathy, but hope to find a happier time in the future.
wow. that is so sad. *hugs* i think the only way your grandfather is going to find out who she really is, is if he learns the hard way. i'm so sorry to say that, but sometimes that's what people need. right now it seems that he's blind because he thinks he's found this great person, but the outside looking in are usually right. i wish your family the best of luck in everything. and i'm here if you ever want to talk.
a.n.d.i.e., July 1st, 2008 at 09:49:36pm
Aww. That stinks! I'm sorry. Maybe you could talk to your mom, dad or grandpa about how you feel. Just tell them that you don't want to move and sell your house after all the work that your family put into it, not to mention the money. Plus, tell them you don't want to sell your dog! It's not fair to you that this woman has so much control over your life, which takes so much away from your life that you have now. Just try talking to someone... that can help!
Rambling Rose, July 1st, 2008 at 09:46:44pm
the same thing happened to me and my grandmother, i hate her boyfriend... met online, because he is killing her bank account... she no longer talks to me. bacause i cussed him out about it.
Nina Bear's Chainsaw, July 1st, 2008 at 09:16:23pm