Love...
Love, in no matter what form. In my opinion, has the right to live on.
There have been ideas that i have heard over the past years. Most coming from my own father about how Colored people should not ever have children with White people, and how one races should stay separate. He had also said that Gays and Lesbians should not ever have the right to marry, and that the whole idea of the same sex, actually having sex was totally appualing to him. When i would bring it to his attention that there was nothing he could do about the marriage laws, and peoples free will, he would get outraged. Saying things like i was as bad as them for not agreeing with him right off the bat. and it was god awful when i told him about me being Bi Sexual. He could not believe that i would commit such an act of treachery. So obviously, when i had my first, and last Girlfriend. he all but disowned me. He has loosened up a bit. but i dont think he could ever fully get over what he was told as a child. I blame this on the Close Minded generations before us. Honestly i dont think they had a right to try and force people to be someone they were not. If you are gay, you are gay. thats just who you are.
I have a lot of gay and bi sexual friends, and frankly, i love them for who they are. i would never try and change them. And i don't understand those who do.
Sorry about the rant dears, I just needed to write this. My father sent me an email about this.... and frankly. i cant stand it anymore.
There have been ideas that i have heard over the past years. Most coming from my own father about how Colored people should not ever have children with White people, and how one races should stay separate. He had also said that Gays and Lesbians should not ever have the right to marry, and that the whole idea of the same sex, actually having sex was totally appualing to him. When i would bring it to his attention that there was nothing he could do about the marriage laws, and peoples free will, he would get outraged. Saying things like i was as bad as them for not agreeing with him right off the bat. and it was god awful when i told him about me being Bi Sexual. He could not believe that i would commit such an act of treachery. So obviously, when i had my first, and last Girlfriend. he all but disowned me. He has loosened up a bit. but i dont think he could ever fully get over what he was told as a child. I blame this on the Close Minded generations before us. Honestly i dont think they had a right to try and force people to be someone they were not. If you are gay, you are gay. thats just who you are.
I have a lot of gay and bi sexual friends, and frankly, i love them for who they are. i would never try and change them. And i don't understand those who do.
Sorry about the rant dears, I just needed to write this. My father sent me an email about this.... and frankly. i cant stand it anymore.
you know what... i blame religion.
princess consuela, January 1st, 2009 at 06:11:12am
Love is the worst thing to live for
Love is an misunderstood word and is misused badly.
I think everone should aim to live for love, because when you find it, it's the most heart warming thing you'll ever experience. Just that sheer feeling of want, comfort and adoration that radiates form both people, is enough to render anyone into a state of comfort. I love love!
Yeah, love can be over used to get things for bad reasons. But I feel everyone has someone and you just have to search for your someone, no one is going to hand them to you on a silver platter.
Dr.Hymen, December 31st, 2008 at 10:24:22pm
Love is the worst thing to live for
Love is an misunderstood word and is misused badly.
Rain, December 31st, 2008 at 10:13:33pm
Love, in no matter what form. In my opinion, has the right to live on.
i disagree with that part a bit. but all in all, good blog. [: it angers me when people don't support gay rights. this is what the blog is about, so i'll stop. and i'm really glad people of different races have babies because i'm a proud product of interracial relationships. D:
get famous, December 31st, 2008 at 08:37:47pm
:file: Fionn is one of them friends and I would purposly have sex infront of anyone who told me it was nasty
:coffee: You makefabbity Blogs, Nina, I love reading them.
Dr.Hymen, December 31st, 2008 at 08:02:09pm
well ily :)<3
ty loves Sam, December 31st, 2008 at 07:57:45pm
See. My mother's always taught me to be accepting of differences because he father is racist. My step father is racist and homophobic. Personally, I can't stand it because I know for a fact he's never met a gay person that he knew they were gay. Although he says that every man on earth save himself is gay. So. He's a moron. I can't stand stuff like that.
Sorry your dad isn't so accepting. He'll get over it eventually. You're still his daughter after all.
Emily., December 31st, 2008 at 02:41:03pm
I agree with you, orientation and colour, beliefs ect. shouldn't matter and stand in the way of love and I think its wrong personally to say that they do matter. It doesn't change a person if they have a different skin colour or like people who are the same gender as themselves we are all the same inside.
Devils wear Givenchy, December 31st, 2008 at 02:33:28pm
oh.
ha.
Tyler Durden, December 31st, 2008 at 02:32:16pm
lol thank you Mindy. actually i don't have to live with that any longer, my mother and i moved away from him.... there was more going on that what was seen on the surface i guess.
but all is good now. ^^
thank you for reading.
Pretty Rave Girl, December 31st, 2008 at 02:31:00pm
I hate it when people are like that. It makes me so angry how Closed Minded some people can be. For reasons like that, I don't tell my parents I'm bisexual. Yet.
I'm so sorry you have to live with that. But he'll accept you, he still loves you and always will. Best of luck to you.
When people called me a freak for being bi, I just stuck to that quote I heard somewhere, "Those who matter, don't mind. And those who mind, don't matter."
I think that was Doctor Seuss... but i dunno.
Tyler Durden, December 31st, 2008 at 02:23:09pm