Suicide and self harm!

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July 1st, 2005 at 03:07pm
*_GrEEndAy<3RoxMy_SoX_>>i think you have the wrong idea about cutting.. yes a lot of people do it.. but in the long run cutting doesnt do anything.. yes i do it myself.. but.. its only temporary emotional pain relief.. its not an ok thing to do..
and about the suicide... sometimes life may be so painful you might ponder why you live it through day by day.. it gets better.. whenever you feel upset/depressive it always gets better.. the next day you wont feel like you did the day before.. and if you take the inniciative to kill yourself you can certainly take the inniciative to get help..

yah.. alls i got to say...
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July 1st, 2005 at 04:49pm
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*_GrEEndAy<3RoxMy_SoX_>>i think you have the wrong idea about cutting.. yes a lot of people do it.. but in the long run cutting doesnt do anything.. yes i do it myself.. but.. its only temporary emotional pain relief.. its not an ok thing to do..
and about the suicide... sometimes life may be so painful you might ponder why you live it through day by day.. it gets better.. whenever you feel upset/depressive it always gets better.. the next day you wont feel like you did the day before.. and if you take the inniciative to kill yourself you can certainly take the inniciative to get help..

yah.. alls i got to say...


no things don't nessesaraly (sp?) get better life doesn't always work the way you want and things don't always get better life just isn't that perfect!!!!
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July 1st, 2005 at 08:47pm
I have heard that the most suicidal group is not actually teens. It is mostly the elderly. o_0. I was surprized too.

But I can't see why you'd throw it all away. I sometimes feel like shit and like nothing is worth it, but then I look outside. Do you really want to leave EVERYTHING?!? Think about it. It's always just so beautiful outside. Even on stormy days and clowdy days. Just take a walk or something. clear the mind. Man, I want to do that. No fuckin time.
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July 2nd, 2005 at 11:12am
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I have heard that the most suicidal group is not actually teens. It is mostly the elderly. o_0. I was surprized too.


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July 2nd, 2005 at 11:56am
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my dad is a jerk, he left when i was like 2 months old adn has never once tried to contact me, never, i have know for a while but i guess now that im older its really been bugging me, i mean what the hell could i have done? i wasnt even 1 yet. i thought about suicide and i was very depressed, i quit eating and sleeping so even when i wanted to eat it made me sick, my life was falling apart and im olny 13, but then i realized it was him who was missing out, its his loss he hasnt been here, not mine. My moms bf is a toatal jerk so that doesnt really help the situation. by commiting suisice i would be letting him win so i get pretty upset sometimes but suicide is never ever then answer, you have your whole life ahead of you no matter how bad things seem. if you know things couldnt possiably get any worse things can only get better.


the way i see it, if someone's parent left them or something, they're probably better off without them in their life. i mean, if they're the type of person who would leave, how good of a parent do you really think they would have been?
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July 4th, 2005 at 01:51pm
i get depressed some times but i dont consider suicide i just know ill be happy soon i normally just sit in my bedroom listen to music and i later might think happy about my self
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July 4th, 2005 at 03:50pm
once i say something it all goes quiet all the time Sad
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July 6th, 2005 at 02:04pm
Suicide is the trend. We are a band of marching assholes, and we all think our lives are terrible, so terrible that we must compete on it.
We all seem to think that if we cut, we will gain pitty, and everybody will pay attention to you since you're such a little outcast.
No!
If you cut, don't say you didn't know it was a trend, cause if you didn't, you wouldn't be doing it. Nobody wants to pay attention to a moron who made a little mark on their skin, and says it's cause they want to die.

If you cut to try to die, you are kidding yourself.
If you cut, you are probably not even depressed, you know it wont kill you.It is EXTREMLY difficult to be able to get in a state of mind, of which you can not feel the pain, or where you can push yourself through it, and it is absoloutly not easy to get to the vein.

Suicide and self harm is often mis judged.
If you cut, stop now, because some families have lost their children/siblings and close relitives due to severe cutting, while you are out here making a mochary of it.
There is my opinion.
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July 7th, 2005 at 10:32am
ive done it.
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July 8th, 2005 at 02:03pm
I always click on these topics instinctively, but I really have nothing to add anymore. I really think that while there are a few people who are serious about things like this (myself being one of them), the majority is just wanting attention or being stupid. That's my piece, really.
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July 8th, 2005 at 03:05pm
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I always click on these topics instinctively, but I really have nothing to add anymore. I really think that while there are a few people who are serious about things like this (myself being one of them), the majority is just wanting attention or being stupid. That's my piece, really.


That's pretty damn good.

See, what I have to ask is why? That's it. Why do you HAVE to do it. But things will get better ONLY if you make them better. And Cutting and suicide is not 'making things better'. Definately not. It makes things worse. I have to admit, I have let myself, only ofr a second, think about it, but I stopped myself from thinking it anymore. I mean, it may not seem like it now, but there is always some people who really care. So, what I have to ask, is why throw that all away??

Oh yeah and I figured out the reason why it's the elderly with the highest suiciadal rates. They just want to end their life because they feel useless now. Some who are like disabled and stuff. Weird huh?
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July 9th, 2005 at 04:07pm
self harm surely is wrong, but it does help...
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July 10th, 2005 at 01:02am
One of my best friends used to cut cuz her dad was emotionally and mentally abusive.. In a way, I think people that do that kind of stuff are looking for attention but not the kind like "look at me, im so depressed and suicidal" but more like.. "acknowledge me, pretend you care about me" because they don't feel cared about. That same friend was about to hang herself when she saw pics of me and some of our other friends on the wall. It's amazing how healing friendship can be. But if you don't understand what people really have to go through to consider that kind of stuff, I don't think it's fair of you to judge it. But I agree that it's a scary trend, maybe we just have more to be sad about?? Turn on the TV and it's impossibly beautiful people. Turn on the radio, it's impossibly perfect voices singing words that don't mean a thing. It's fucked.
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July 10th, 2005 at 01:04am
wow that was long. and it kinda sounded harsh about the not knowing what you're talking about. I'm not trying to be harsh, but I get enough of people talking about things they don't fully comprehend at home. So sorry if I offended anyone I do that sometimes. Embarassed
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July 10th, 2005 at 05:40pm
It's a difficult subject. I used to self harm but then a boyfriend I had at the time drove me to it. When you are alone and a victim and cannot get help or talk to anyone then these things happen. I have to admit now though that the scars are not good, it's not something I did for attention and I go on the belief now that I was given a body and I've got to take care of it because you only live once.
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July 10th, 2005 at 12:18pm
i have never hurt myself or considered suicide, i have although wished myself dead in down parts in my life
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July 11th, 2005 at 01:58pm
i think suicides dumb i was goin through some shit earlier in the year like teachers sayin shit about me my dad hitting me people saying i was gonna blow up the school being poor living in my grandmas house having to sleep on the floor of the living room with my dad and my brother,and many times i thought i should go to my uncles closet grab the .38 and shoot myself at one point i had up under my chin but i didnt i saw some good still in life i went on school got better i got a guitar were renting a house now my dad dont get mad and hit me no more and i want to continue i want to get married and have kids...so fuck sucide plus if we killed ourselves who would keep the scene alive?
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July 11th, 2005 at 06:16pm
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July 15th, 2005 at 09:05pm
I've just had a very annoying text from someone that said they wanted to meet up with me and at the time i couldn't .Next text i get is that he has cut himself and is at the hospital getting eight stitches.
Cue me feeling very bad.
The next day I see him and find out it was all a lie. Why pretend to do something like that. How stupid.
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July 16th, 2005 at 09:15am
probably to make you feel guilty.
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