Suicide and self harm!

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October 21st, 2005 at 11:05pm
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why do ppl want others to feel sorry for them and why do they want to get attention?

is it because they have no friends or something?
You know what, your really stupid asking those commen sense questions T_T
IT CAUSE THEY ARE IGNORED
they want people to interact with.


lol yes i know they are stupid questions but in gr 9 i was very much ignored by the majority of the school.. and i never did such things as cut myself. i never even thought of it.
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October 21st, 2005 at 11:07pm
by the way extraordinarygirl.. OMG I LOVE THAT DISPLAY PIC! LMAO OMGGGG
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October 21st, 2005 at 11:07pm
Sheepo@_@:
s0dapop_and_ritalin:
why do ppl want others to feel sorry for them and why do they want to get attention?

is it because they have no friends or something?
You know what, your really stupid asking those commen sense questions T_T
IT CAUSE THEY ARE IGNORED
they want people to interact with.


not all the time. a lot of times the attention whores have always been that way and therefore have always had lots of attention. they just want to create a false image of themselves to make themselves seem more interesting.
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October 21st, 2005 at 11:09pm
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Sheepo@_@:
s0dapop_and_ritalin:
why do ppl want others to feel sorry for them and why do they want to get attention?

is it because they have no friends or something?
You know what, your really stupid asking those commen sense questions T_T
IT CAUSE THEY ARE IGNORED
they want people to interact with.


not all the time. a lot of times the attention whores have always been that way and therefore have always had lots of attention. they just want to create a false image of themselves to make themselves seem more interesting.
that too. -sigh- Thank God, I dont have the guts. T_T
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October 21st, 2005 at 11:10pm
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Sheepo@_@:
s0dapop_and_ritalin:
why do ppl want others to feel sorry for them and why do they want to get attention?

is it because they have no friends or something?
You know what, your really stupid asking those commen sense questions T_T
IT CAUSE THEY ARE IGNORED
they want people to interact with.


not all the time. a lot of times the attention whores have always been that way and therefore have always had lots of attention. they just want to create a false image of themselves to make themselves seem more interesting.


what the hell. thats so stupid.
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October 21st, 2005 at 11:19pm
s0dapop_and_ritalin:
xAnarchy4theUSAx:
Sheepo@_@:
s0dapop_and_ritalin:
why do ppl want others to feel sorry for them and why do they want to get attention?

is it because they have no friends or something?
You know what, your really stupid asking those commen sense questions T_T
IT CAUSE THEY ARE IGNORED
they want people to interact with.


not all the time. a lot of times the attention whores have always been that way and therefore have always had lots of attention. they just want to create a false image of themselves to make themselves seem more interesting.


what the hell. thats so stupid.


yea. incase you couldnt tell, i've spent a lot of time with attention driven, trend whores and other different sorts of incredibly transparent people. that's where i'm getting all this from.
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October 21st, 2005 at 11:19pm
not everybody cuts because they want attention. only the people who cut and then go TELL everyone that they did or let people know somehow are, i think. some people cut because they really just feel like dying or are depressed. i used to cut and be suicidal all the time and i kind of still am depressed, but i dont go around telling everyone. nobody knows and i dont do it for attention. i do it because i hate my life and i feel alone. and i have other reasons too.

sorry i just had to clear it up that not everyone does it for attention.
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October 21st, 2005 at 11:22pm
so it can be called masochism..
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October 21st, 2005 at 11:23pm
princess byxdawn:
not everybody cuts because they want attention. only the people who cut and then go TELL everyone that they did or let people know somehow are, i think. some people cut because they really just feel like dying or are depressed. i used to cut and be suicidal all the time and i kind of still am depressed, but i dont go around telling everyone. nobody knows and i dont do it for attention. i do it because i hate my life and i feel alone. and i have other reasons too.

sorry i just had to clear it up that not everyone does it for attention.


Nobody said everyone who cuts does it for attention. We were just saying the people who do it in public and/or make it obvious do it for attention.
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October 21st, 2005 at 11:23pm
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not everybody cuts because they want attention. only the people who cut and then go TELL everyone that they did or let people know somehow are, i think. some people cut because they really just feel like dying or are depressed. i used to cut and be suicidal all the time and i kind of still am depressed, but i dont go around telling everyone. nobody knows and i dont do it for attention. i do it because i hate my life and i feel alone. and i have other reasons too.

sorry i just had to clear it up that not everyone does it for attention.


yea, i know not everyone does it for attention. we (or me at least) were just talking about the ones who DO do it for attention.

though i must say, in this day and age, i think a lot more people are just doing it for attention then are actually incredibly depressed and truely are finding relief in it.
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October 21st, 2005 at 11:38pm
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princess byxdawn:
not everybody cuts because they want attention. only the people who cut and then go TELL everyone that they did or let people know somehow are, i think. some people cut because they really just feel like dying or are depressed. i used to cut and be suicidal all the time and i kind of still am depressed, but i dont go around telling everyone. nobody knows and i dont do it for attention. i do it because i hate my life and i feel alone. and i have other reasons too.

sorry i just had to clear it up that not everyone does it for attention.


yea, i know not everyone does it for attention. we (or me at least) were just talking about the ones who DO do it for attention.

though i must say, in this day and age, i think a lot more people are just doing it for attention then are actually incredibly depressed and truely are finding relief in it.


that sucks. people should stop.

its not good for them.
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October 22nd, 2005 at 12:20am
i've thought about suicide, but i've never cut myself. and besides, i'm too much of a wuss to do anything painful.

i mean, the most damaging thing i've done to myself was cut out a chunk of my hair Rolling Eyes
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October 22nd, 2005 at 07:41am
s0dapop_and_ritalin:
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princess byxdawn:
not everybody cuts because they want attention. only the people who cut and then go TELL everyone that they did or let people know somehow are, i think. some people cut because they really just feel like dying or are depressed. i used to cut and be suicidal all the time and i kind of still am depressed, but i dont go around telling everyone. nobody knows and i dont do it for attention. i do it because i hate my life and i feel alone. and i have other reasons too.

sorry i just had to clear it up that not everyone does it for attention.


yea, i know not everyone does it for attention. we (or me at least) were just talking about the ones who DO do it for attention.

though i must say, in this day and age, i think a lot more people are just doing it for attention then are actually incredibly depressed and truely are finding relief in it.


that sucks. people should stop.

its not good for them.


lmfao No shit Einstein.
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October 22nd, 2005 at 10:22am
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s0dapop_and_ritalin:
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princess byxdawn:
not everybody cuts because they want attention. only the people who cut and then go TELL everyone that they did or let people know somehow are, i think. some people cut because they really just feel like dying or are depressed. i used to cut and be suicidal all the time and i kind of still am depressed, but i dont go around telling everyone. nobody knows and i dont do it for attention. i do it because i hate my life and i feel alone. and i have other reasons too.

sorry i just had to clear it up that not everyone does it for attention.


yea, i know not everyone does it for attention. we (or me at least) were just talking about the ones who DO do it for attention.

though i must say, in this day and age, i think a lot more people are just doing it for attention then are actually incredibly depressed and truely are finding relief in it.


that sucks. people should stop.

its not good for them.


lmfao No shit Einstein.

hahaha, yea. i dont think they're too concerned with their health, just as long as they feel "scene" or "cool" enough.
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October 22nd, 2005 at 12:03pm
hi again:
i dont get why people say that real cutters dont do it for attention.. people that harm themselves like that for attention are just as bad as the ones that do it 'for real' i mean.. it obviosly shows that they do not get enough attention from parents/friends/teachers and they need to harm themselves to get it..
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October 22nd, 2005 at 12:05pm
hi again:
hi again:
i dont get why people say that real cutters dont do it for attention.. people that harm themselves like that for attention are just as bad as the ones that do it 'for real' i mean.. it obviosly shows that they do not get enough attention from parents/friends/teachers and they need to harm themselves to get it..


Yeah..
But real cutters aren't actually in their right minds at the time. It's called depression m'dear.
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October 22nd, 2005 at 12:49pm
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hi again:
hi again:
i dont get why people say that real cutters dont do it for attention.. people that harm themselves like that for attention are just as bad as the ones that do it 'for real' i mean.. it obviosly shows that they do not get enough attention from parents/friends/teachers and they need to harm themselves to get it..


Yeah..
But real cutters aren't actually in their right minds at the time. It's called depression m'dear.


i say, at least 90% of people with "depression" are full of shit.
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October 22nd, 2005 at 12:53pm
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hi again:
hi again:
i dont get why people say that real cutters dont do it for attention.. people that harm themselves like that for attention are just as bad as the ones that do it 'for real' i mean.. it obviosly shows that they do not get enough attention from parents/friends/teachers and they need to harm themselves to get it..


Yeah..
But real cutters aren't actually in their right minds at the time. It's called depression m'dear.


i say, at least 90% of people with "depression" are full of shit.


Yup. It's a sad fact of life. Apparently depression is "cool". Rolling Eyes
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October 22nd, 2005 at 01:22pm
meh i started cutting in about febuary just small harmless cuts and yes i admit i did it for attention i wanted people to notice i was hurting and i wanted people to pay attention to me and notice i was alive but soon i relised that cutting was acually what i needed and i stoped doing it for attention i hid everything i felt and just never talked to anyone . i bottled up all my emotions and became really depressed and shit. a while ago i did a deep cut and it scared the shit out of me and stuff and i swore i would never do it again but i just oculdnt stop it was like there was a part inside of me that was just desperate to cut i couldnt believe what id turned into id became obssessed with cutting up my arms ..and i wanted to stop but i couldnt control how i felt . ... about two weeks ago i told a guy at my school that i cut and ..i wasnt trying to get attention off him ....i was crying out for help ...i want someone to be able to help me stop ..and now he knows hes trying so hard to get me to stop and im trying hard too ...ive been clean for about a week and im feeling pretty good because of it

alot of you might say cuttings attention seeking and yep i admit it is ... in ways i say its just a cry for help a way to be noticed ...my mate does it for attention and i hate how he shows it off ..but sometimes i look at him and he just looks so upset i really think he needs help because he is trying to get people to notice that hes suffering cause he wants help ..

i advise anyone to stop before it goes to far but its not as easy to just stop it takes time ... and it stresses you out but in the end it will make you alot happier
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October 22nd, 2005 at 02:15pm
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meh i started cutting in about febuary just small harmless cuts and yes i admit i did it for attention i wanted people to notice i was hurting and i wanted people to pay attention to me and notice i was alive but soon i relised that cutting was acually what i needed and i stoped doing it for attention i hid everything i felt and just never talked to anyone . i bottled up all my emotions and became really depressed and shit. a while ago i did a deep cut and it scared the shit out of me and stuff and i swore i would never do it again but i just oculdnt stop it was like there was a part inside of me that was just desperate to cut i couldnt believe what id turned into id became obssessed with cutting up my arms ..and i wanted to stop but i couldnt control how i felt . ... about two weeks ago i told a guy at my school that i cut and ..i wasnt trying to get attention off him ....i was crying out for help ...i want someone to be able to help me stop ..and now he knows hes trying so hard to get me to stop and im trying hard too ...ive been clean for about a week and im feeling pretty good because of it

alot of you might say cuttings attention seeking and yep i admit it is ... in ways i say its just a cry for help a way to be noticed ...my mate does it for attention and i hate how he shows it off ..but sometimes i look at him and he just looks so upset i really think he needs help because he is trying to get people to notice that hes suffering cause he wants help ..

i advise anyone to stop before it goes to far but its not as easy to just stop it takes time ... and it stresses you out but in the end it will make you alot happier
That is exactly the same as me, I started and admit it was for attention, then I hid itall the time but carried on, because it is addictive and hard to stop, and I really thought it was helping me at the time.

But then someone close to me foudn out and it was hard to talk about it and everything but it really does make me feel better, and has really helped me stop
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