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November 3rd, 2005 at 06:42pm
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My mom even said, "It was such a waste..." It just proves suicide is not the answer. I don't blame him though I just wish he didn't...


No offence, but just because your mother said "It's such a waste", it's not proving that suicide is not an answer. I personally think that suicide is God's decision and just one of the ways to end someone's life, a part of someone's fate (if fate exists). Even if you don't believe in that, still, if someone wants to end their life, I think they have a right to do it. It might be selfish or stupid, but 65% of things we do in life are selfish or stupid.
No she meant such a waste he had to kill himself.
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November 3rd, 2005 at 07:17pm
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My mom even said, "It was such a waste..." It just proves suicide is not the answer. I don't blame him though I just wish he didn't...


No offence, but just because your mother said "It's such a waste", it's not proving that suicide is not an answer. I personally think that suicide is God's decision and just one of the ways to end someone's life, a part of someone's fate (if fate exists). Even if you don't believe in that, still, if someone wants to end their life, I think they have a right to do it. It might be selfish or stupid, but 65% of things we do in life are selfish or stupid.
No she meant such a waste he had to kill himself.


Okay... Confused Then what was the prase "It just proves suicide is not the answer" referring to..?
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November 3rd, 2005 at 07:21pm
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My mom even said, "It was such a waste..." It just proves suicide is not the answer. I don't blame him though I just wish he didn't...


No offence, but just because your mother said "It's such a waste", it's not proving that suicide is not an answer. I personally think that suicide is God's decision and just one of the ways to end someone's life, a part of someone's fate (if fate exists). Even if you don't believe in that, still, if someone wants to end their life, I think they have a right to do it. It might be selfish or stupid, but 65% of things we do in life are selfish or stupid.
No she meant such a waste he had to kill himself.


Okay... Confused Then what was the prase "It just proves suicide is not the answer" referring to..?

I just don't think killing yourself solves your problems.
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November 3rd, 2005 at 07:24pm
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My mom even said, "It was such a waste..." It just proves suicide is not the answer. I don't blame him though I just wish he didn't...


No offence, but just because your mother said "It's such a waste", it's not proving that suicide is not an answer. I personally think that suicide is God's decision and just one of the ways to end someone's life, a part of someone's fate (if fate exists). Even if you don't believe in that, still, if someone wants to end their life, I think they have a right to do it. It might be selfish or stupid, but 65% of things we do in life are selfish or stupid.
No she meant such a waste he had to kill himself.


Okay... Confused Then what was the prase "It just proves suicide is not the answer" referring to..?

I just don't think killing yourself solves your problems.


Okay, well, don't mean to be rude or anything, but then you should just say "I think", not "It proves"
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November 3rd, 2005 at 07:35pm
hows this: truth is relative, you cant actually prove anything, evidence is only circumstantial.
you cant prove anything about death, except to say that it is, and its a part of life.
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November 3rd, 2005 at 08:12pm
paradoxical:
hows this: truth is relative, you cant actually prove anything, evidence is only circumstantial.
you cant prove anything about death, except to say that it is, and its a part of life.


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November 4th, 2005 at 12:18am
I don't think suicide is a very good way to go out.Not offending those who have chosen to take their own lives, but I just think it's lazy.And really, it is the laziest thing a person could ever do.By killing themselves, and ending all their problems consequently, the person has given up. A less expidiant person would just live life out till the natural end rather than BAM and dead. Hehehe.
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November 4th, 2005 at 07:13am
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I don't think suicide is a very good way to go out.Not offending those who have chosen to take their own lives, but I just think it's lazy.And really, it is the laziest thing a person could ever do.By killing themselves, and ending all their problems consequently, the person has given up. A less expidiant person would just live life out till the natural end rather than BAM and dead. Hehehe.
suicide is not lazy ... its not the cowards way out or what any of you may say. ..personally i think to kill your self you would need alot of fucking guts to do something like that ... but thats just my opinion

...last night my mate told me that the night before she had tried to kill herself , the tears started coming down my eyes and i dont know what id have done if id lost her ...she is just someone i talk to online but she means alot to me and shes helped me so much ..but when she told me that i just felt so empty and if she had of died i would have never forgiven myself ...i would have always wanted to go back to that night and ACUALLY go online that night and talk her out of it ....now every night i am going to lay awake wondering where she is at that moment and just hope that she is not about to take her own life
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November 4th, 2005 at 07:58am
Teh Awesomeo.:
I don't think suicide is a very good way to go out.Not offending those who have chosen to take their own lives, but I just think it's lazy.And really, it is the laziest thing a person could ever do.By killing themselves, and ending all their problems consequently, the person has given up. A less expidiant person would just live life out till the natural end rather than BAM and dead. Hehehe.
Maybe lazy, yes, but at least it's a solution.
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November 4th, 2005 at 09:19am
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Teh Awesomeo.:
I don't think suicide is a very good way to go out.Not offending those who have chosen to take their own lives, but I just think it's lazy.And really, it is the laziest thing a person could ever do.By killing themselves, and ending all their problems consequently, the person has given up. A less expidiant person would just live life out till the natural end rather than BAM and dead. Hehehe.
Maybe lazy, yes, but at least it's a solution.
indeedo, Ive said that so many times before...and so has Emmi...
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November 4th, 2005 at 09:26am
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Teh Awesomeo.:
I don't think suicide is a very good way to go out.Not offending those who have chosen to take their own lives, but I just think it's lazy.And really, it is the laziest thing a person could ever do.By killing themselves, and ending all their problems consequently, the person has given up. A less expidiant person would just live life out till the natural end rather than BAM and dead. Hehehe.
suicide is not lazy ... its not the cowards way out or what any of you may say. ..personally i think to kill your self you would need alot of fucking guts to do something like that ... but thats just my opinion

I agree, you would have to be so sure that you hated life to take your own. But that's also why I think it's lazy. You could just sit and wait through life until things got all better, but you'd rather just kill yourself instead of trying to succeed?
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November 4th, 2005 at 09:37am
Teh Awesomeo.:

I agree, you would have to be so sure that you hated life to take your own. But that's also why I think it's lazy. You could just sit and wait through life until things got all better, but you'd rather just kill yourself instead of trying to succeed?
Things don't tend to get better by just sitting and waiting. Sometimes the problem is that there's nothing to do but to sit and wait.

If sitting and waiting isn't lazy, then what is? You kind of denyed yourself what you said in the sentence before.
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November 4th, 2005 at 10:13am
kaelen's nana on suicide: "it's a permanent solution to a temperary problem."
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November 4th, 2005 at 10:34am
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kaelen's nana on suicide: "it's a permanent solution to a temperary problem."
What's better than a permanent solution? Otherwise it would be very temperary.
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November 4th, 2005 at 10:37am
i would like to tell you all that i suffered from depression for a few years and yes i did try and kill myself and i am so glad that it didnt work, i went onto medication for the ILLNESS, and now i realise that it's a cowards way out and that life is not to be thrown away and that it is a gift to be cherished and nurtured into the beautiful thing it is. I spend most of my spare time now going to concerts and enjoying what i have.
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November 4th, 2005 at 12:51pm
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i would like to tell you all that i suffered from depression for a few years and yes i did try and kill myself and i am so glad that it didnt work, i went onto medication for the ILLNESS, and now i realise that it's a cowards way out and that life is not to be thrown away and that it is a gift to be cherished and nurtured into the beautiful thing it is. I spend most of my spare time now going to concerts and enjoying what i have.


Awwweh ;_;
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November 4th, 2005 at 01:02pm
junerae:
i would like to tell you all that i suffered from depression for a few years and yes i did try and kill myself and i am so glad that it didnt work, i went onto medication for the ILLNESS, and now i realise that it's a cowards way out and that life is not to be thrown away and that it is a gift to be cherished and nurtured into the beautiful thing it is. I spend most of my spare time now going to concerts and enjoying what i have.

Agreed. For those people who say it takes guts to commit suicide, well quite frankly, it doesnt. They're throwing away their lives because they're too afraid to live, too afraid of trying to get better. Theres nothing poetic or special about it.
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November 4th, 2005 at 01:19pm
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Agreed. For those people who say it takes guts to commit suicide, well quite frankly, it doesnt. They're throwing away their lives because they're too afraid to live, too afraid of trying to get better. Theres nothing poetic or special about it.
They're throwing away their lives, yeah, and? That's what they want to do. If there's nothing for them here, then why be here.
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November 4th, 2005 at 01:34pm
In a way it could be considered a cowards way out.... But really, to kill yourself you do have to have guts, even it is just for a while to actually do it.
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November 4th, 2005 at 03:16pm
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In a way it could be considered a cowards way out.... But really, to kill yourself you do have to have guts, even it is just for a while to actually do it.


it takes more guts to stand up andfce the problems.
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