So it is. And for the record, i admire you're strong-mindedness. It was fun arguing/debating with you.
Yeah, it was fun. I'm glad it's over though. I take it all to close to heart, it's driving me crazy.
And thanks for the compliment, I appreciate it. You're a great apponent and I love your diction. It was an awesome fight, we both rocked. Lets never do it again!
Matt Smith Admin Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 31134
November 11th, 2005 at 05:08pm
A word of advice: Don't take anything i say too seriously 'cause its mostly opinionated. Its not worth getting hung up over. I vow that i will never argue with you again!, or at least i'll try not to.
I take everything close to heart. That's why some topics I don't even look into. I know it's gonna kill me to argue about homosexuality, for example. I have enough trying to prove to my mother that it's not a desease...
Someone very very close to me (my mother in fact) committed suicide about a year ago, which has greatly changed my view of the act. Before that happened, I myself was considering to take my own life. I was so sick of it all and I just wanted to end it. But then my mother actually did it and that made me realise it's really not the way to go. Her death hurt me so much, I never want to inflict that kind of emotional pain on anyone. Despite everything, I know my father and my sister and my friends love me and I know they would be badly hurt if I did something to myself. That's why I think suicide often is a pretty selfish act (not in all cases though). My mother's death has made me quite depressed and stressed, but I will never ever kill myself because of it, for reasons stated above.
Nine_Inch_Nails Falling In Love With The Board Age: 35 Gender: Female Posts: 8334
November 16th, 2005 at 03:44pm
Snow White:
Someone very very close to me (my mother in fact) committed suicide about a year ago, which has greatly changed my view of the act. Before that happened, I myself was considering to take my own life. I was so sick of it all and I just wanted to end it. But then my mother actually did it and that made me realise it's really not the way to go. Her death hurt me so much, I never want to inflict that kind of emotional pain on anyone. Despite everything, I know my father and my sister and my friends love me and I know they would be badly hurt if I did something to myself. That's why I think suicide often is a pretty selfish act (not in all cases though). My mother's death has made me quite depressed and stressed, but I will never ever kill myself because of it, for reasons stated above.
I think the age is getting younger for suicide victims too. Teen suicide is very common these days. I have been in a treatment facility at a hospital for suicidal thoughts, and there were kids in the same program as me as young as 6 years old who also wanted to kill themselves. It's really quite heartbreaking.
franzi Falling In Love With The Board Age: - Gender: - Posts: 6076
November 19th, 2005 at 01:50pm
man.. i just got back from a 'youth shelter' a few days ago.. they think im suicidal and are putting me on medications.. i think its really dumb. >_<
Kitti Falling In Love With The Board Age: 34 Gender: Female Posts: 5688
November 19th, 2005 at 10:16pm
smile kids. "remember that no man is a failure who has friends." "you really do have a wonderful life."
Someone very very close to me (my mother in fact) committed suicide about a year ago, which has greatly changed my view of the act. Before that happened, I myself was considering to take my own life. I was so sick of it all and I just wanted to end it. But then my mother actually did it and that made me realise it's really not the way to go. Her death hurt me so much, I never want to inflict that kind of emotional pain on anyone. Despite everything, I know my father and my sister and my friends love me and I know they would be badly hurt if I did something to myself. That's why I think suicide often is a pretty selfish act (not in all cases though). My mother's death has made me quite depressed and stressed, but I will never ever kill myself because of it, for reasons stated above.
But seriously, if you do cut, and really cut, you don't come on a website and just say "i haven't cut in ten days", because it's not even giving a reason or anything.
Almost like you're showing off or something... because it's hard to admit it when you really cut.
saying "i havent cut in 10 days" does sound like showing off.
Baguelle King For A Couple Of Days Age: - Gender: - Posts: 2727
November 20th, 2005 at 01:28am
People shouldn't do it because life is too important to waste it and hurt the people that love you but I understand if a person is in that much pain, why they do it. I just wish people could find another way to solve their problems.
_rehabreject_ King For A Couple Of Days Age: - Gender: - Posts: 3763
November 20th, 2005 at 10:48am
I had a really long conversation with my friends about suicide and self harm and all this sort of thing the other day.
And basically, people who do self harm or want to commit suicide aren't public about it. They'll pretend everything is fine for as long as they can, and don't want everyone to know. They keep the self harm a secret, and they manage to do it well.
I know, because my friend admitted she'd tried to OD twice before, and we didn't have any idea. They had no idea I'd been cutting for about a year. We had no idea that either of the three of us had any depression at all, because we'd all tried to hde it.
But if you are like it, and the chance comes to talk about it - even if it's not in a personal way about your experience, but just about it, then do. It actually makes you feel better.
smile kids. "remember that no man is a failure who has friends." "you really do have a wonderful life."
lol what if you don't have friends?
*theoretical question*
robotchicken. Falling In Love With The Board Age: 34 Gender: Female Posts: 8423
November 20th, 2005 at 10:13pm
People at my school cut. I know for sure my friend Ashley does. Or so she says. They say it so casually though "I cut." "If you pick on me I'll go cut." Its a not trend or anything they're really doing it. ._.
i cut and my scars are a permanent reminder of how stupid i am!!!!! i dint even know why i do it, my mind just gets so clouded and i feel numb and yes i have contemplated suicide but i dont think i would got that far
paper shoes This Board Is My Home Age: 34 Gender: Female Posts: 34269
November 21st, 2005 at 12:58pm
s0dapop_and_ritalin:
paradoxical:
smile kids. "remember that no man is a failure who has friends." "you really do have a wonderful life."
Yeah, it was fun. I'm glad it's over though. I take it all to close to heart, it's driving me crazy. 
'cause its mostly opinionated. Its not worth getting hung up over. I vow that i will never argue with you again!, or at least i'll try not to.
