I think that's one o the saddest kinds of suicide. I mean, when people do it for attenetion, people always jump to conclusions and think they are just stupid, they aren't. Just pretend that you are so desperate and starving for attention, that you would make people think you're killing yourself, just so they would acknowledge the fact that you were there. Then, you think about them not even intending to end their life, and it happens. Thats more like murdering yourself, and that's just sad.
I say this over and over: it's not that simple
there are more reasons than just attention, don't think that you can understand the mind of a suicidal person....suicidal person
their thought process is more complex than yours, it's not that easy to understand, don't think you've got it yet, keep thinking
I was talking about when people do it for attention, I never said that was the only reason people commit suicide.
I've stopped cutting myself and having suicidal thoughts ever since my best friend tried to kill herself. She nearly bled to death on her bedroom floor...But they stuck her in a mental home awhile ago so she could recover, and I realized that she'll need me.
If I can't live for living, I'll live for her
SorryMa King For A Couple Of Days Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 2126
June 14th, 2006 at 12:06pm
sometimes if you cut yourself i relieves stress. and my friend has found it stops her from crying so much
Lucifers Angel King For A Couple Of Days Age: - Gender: Female Posts: 4751
June 15th, 2006 at 12:35pm
My grandma was a wise old soul
Took me by the hand not long ago
Said, "Son, what's your hurry, boy slow it down
Taste the wild honey, listen to the sound
Of the wind that's blowin' through the trees
Rivers flowin' to the sea
Yeah they're all headin' home just like you and me
Life's for livin' child, can't you see?"
These are the days we will remember
These are the times that won't come again
The highest of flames become an ember
And you gotta live 'em while you can
These are the days we will remember
These are the days we will remember
These are the days we will remember
These are the days we will remember
So take 'em by the hand, they're yours and mine
Take 'em by the hand and live your life
Take 'em by the hand don't let 'em all fly by
C'mon, C'mon now
Ooo days go by
Yeah, just like a hand out the window wavin' in the wind as the cars go by
Days go by
This is for a particullar person i hope she reads this.
Yeah, so if life doesnt go your way kill yourself.
If people pick on you and call you names and beat the living shit out of you kill yourself.
If your parents beat you and make you eat shit kill yourself because nobody loves you anyway.
If your not popular kill yourself.
If your bored and nothings on TV kill yourself.
If your fat you might have already killed yourself.
If your 15 and that boy dont like you kill
The starving kids in Africa should also kill themselves because no ones gonna feed them anyway.
People who commit suicide are selfish in my eyes [thats my opinion for those of you who didnt get it] Why get rid of your life instead of making it better? Even fucking homeless people on streets begging for quarters are out there fighting.
But oh well....if you wanna die...then die. Its your life, like someone said up there ^^^
That was one of the most insensative statments made in this entire thread. Did you ever think that maybe they can't make their life better? maybe whats making lose their will to live is out of their control? You just made all suicidal people sound like they fit a few stereotypes, when it is nowhere near that simple.
Do you think name calling drives people to suicide? No, being continually harrassed and tortured every damn day of your life causes suicide. Why would anyone in their right mind want to wake up in the morning so they can walk straight into hell and live it yet again?" Oh Jee! I get to have my ribs cracked from being kicked today, how lucky am I!" Mentally stable kids don'y have the same peppy atitude you think they do, maybe you're selfish for assuming they should.
How can someone make their parents stop beating them and actually love them? You can't make someone love you dearest, it doesnt work that easyily. "Hey Dad, your being a real prick, can you please stop bashing my head into a wall?" I don't think that would go over so well. Now you're going to say"Well if they wanted to fix it, they could tell someone". True, they could tell someone, but who? Do you think they are going to open up to some child welfare person who they don't even know and tell them their life is horrible and they don't want to live it anymore? No. You're selfish for wanting someone else to do what you think is acceptable.
If you're not popular, you wouldnt kill yourself. If you felt like you must be invisible crammed under a rock somewhere because no one on this entire Earth knew you existed, life might not seem worth living anymore. You have no idea what it's like to feel that you're nothing and no one wants you. You don't know what goes on inside their head. You have no idea what their life is like, because guess what! You didnt live it, so quit being selfish and acting like you did.
Do you know what it's like to go to school and constatly, every day, to be teased for being overweight? Have you walked in those shoes? Have people came up to you and asked why Shamoo left seaworld? Do other people harass you for not fitting into size two jeans? What if they have a medical disorder and their weight is out of their control and they can't help anything about the situation, how would they make their life better then? They can't. All they can do is be ridiculed and demeaded because of insensative people to the point where they want to shoot themselves. You have no idea what it feels like to realize that you can't fix the problems in your life anymore, so quit being selfish and assuming that everyone can fix all their problems.
Maybe you should rethink that statment. Who is to assume everyone likes boys? Will just use that as a hypotheitcal statement. You do know about mental fixations that are out of peoples control. They can't help that they feel like they need someone so much, they can't. Without that person, they don't think their lie is worth living. MAybe they have an inferiority complex and think if that person can't love them, no one can and they are worthless. Why would anyone feeling worthless all the time want to live? "Oh Yes! I get to go waste more air today and take up space!" Not everyone has the same optoimistic attitude as you, so quit being selfish and thinking they do.
The starving Kids in Africa was the most ignorant part of that whole post, it basically mocked them. Do you have any idea what they are going through? You know, they don't have a chance to commit suicide, all the diseases and famine gets to them first.
So, maybe you should take into consideration that you're not living their life, you don't know what's going on in it and you don't have a clue. Think about how much misery it takes to end your life. it is their life, and only theirs. You have no say in what they do at all, it's their life. I don't direct you around in your life and tell you how to live it, what makes it ok for you to call them selfish for wanting to end it. Do you really think the people around them had a clue as to what was going on? If they did, they were selfish for sitting by and letting it happen. Maybe you're the selfish one for trying to tell them how to live their lives.
SorryMa King For A Couple Of Days Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 2126
June 16th, 2006 at 01:21pm
Magne:
My grandma was a wise old soul
Took me by the hand not long ago
Said, "Son, what's your hurry, boy slow it down
Taste the wild honey, listen to the sound
Of the wind that's blowin' through the trees
Rivers flowin' to the sea
Yeah they're all headin' home just like you and me
Life's for livin' child, can't you see?"
These are the days we will remember
These are the times that won't come again
The highest of flames become an ember
And you gotta live 'em while you can
These are the days we will remember
These are the days we will remember
These are the days we will remember
These are the days we will remember
So take 'em by the hand, they're yours and mine
Take 'em by the hand and live your life
Take 'em by the hand don't let 'em all fly by
C'mon, C'mon now
Ooo days go by
Yeah, just like a hand out the window wavin' in the wind as the cars go by
Days go by
This is for a particullar person i hope she reads this.
hmm. what has that got to do with cuts? ooh, like..nevermind
cabot gal GSBitch Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 76863
June 16th, 2006 at 01:25pm
TOODLIE:
sometimes if you cut yourself i relieves stress. and my friend has found it stops her from crying so much
How is slicing your wrist open better then crying?
sometimes if you cut yourself i relieves stress. and my friend has found it stops her from crying so much
How is slicing your wrist open better then crying?
Crying is a good stress reliver, I do it all the time, but thats because Im a giant panzie.
I don't think crying and cutting are the same though.
spill_no_sick Falling In Love With The Board Age: 31 Gender: - Posts: 8588
June 16th, 2006 at 08:48pm
I_worship_tre_Cool:
Action Han:
TOODLIE:
sometimes if you cut yourself i relieves stress. and my friend has found it stops her from crying so much
How is slicing your wrist open better then crying?
Crying is a good stress reliver, I do it all the time, but thats because Im a giant panzie.
I don't think crying and cutting are the same though.
it's not
cutting is some sort of brownie badge now
"I cope with being sad by cutting myself, because you aren't truely sad if you just cry"
come on, you know it's for a brownie badge, they don't do anything like cut where you won't see it, they cut right on their wrist (or fake cut, that's very easy) so you can see it
Kitti Falling In Love With The Board Age: 34 Gender: Female Posts: 5688
June 16th, 2006 at 09:36pm
I_worship_tre_Cool:
Action Han:
TOODLIE:
sometimes if you cut yourself i relieves stress. and my friend has found it stops her from crying so much
How is slicing your wrist open better then crying?
Crying is a good stress reliver, I do it all the time, but thats because Im a giant panzie.
I don't think crying and cutting are the same though.
Yes and no.
Cutting is more destructive.
Cutting is unhealthy.
But they release the same endorphins.
...
I cry a lot sometimes...
spill_no_sick Falling In Love With The Board Age: 31 Gender: - Posts: 8588
June 16th, 2006 at 10:29pm
Kitti:
I_worship_tre_Cool:
Action Han:
TOODLIE:
sometimes if you cut yourself i relieves stress. and my friend has found it stops her from crying so much
How is slicing your wrist open better then crying?
Crying is a good stress reliver, I do it all the time, but thats because Im a giant panzie.
I don't think crying and cutting are the same though.
Yes and no.
Cutting is more destructive.
Cutting is unhealthy.
But they release the same endorphins.
...
I cry a lot sometimes...
they release the same chemicals but only one seems cool enough
whether people want to admit it or not, there is a cool factor to it
I think whatever makes you feel better is cool enough.
robotchicken. Falling In Love With The Board Age: 34 Gender: Female Posts: 8423
June 16th, 2006 at 11:03pm
I_worship_tre_Cool:
mollerbates:
Yeah, so if life doesnt go your way kill yourself.
If people pick on you and call you names and beat the living shit out of you kill yourself.
If your parents beat you and make you eat shit kill yourself because nobody loves you anyway.
If your not popular kill yourself.
If your bored and nothings on TV kill yourself.
If your fat you might have already killed yourself.
If your 15 and that boy dont like you kill
The starving kids in Africa should also kill themselves because no ones gonna feed them anyway.
People who commit suicide are selfish in my eyes [thats my opinion for those of you who didnt get it] Why get rid of your life instead of making it better? Even fucking homeless people on streets begging for quarters are out there fighting.
But oh well....if you wanna die...then die. Its your life, like someone said up there ^^^
That was one of the most insensative statments made in this entire thread. Did you ever think that maybe they can't make their life better? maybe whats making lose their will to live is out of their control? You just made all suicidal people sound like they fit a few stereotypes, when it is nowhere near that simple.
Do you think name calling drives people to suicide? No, being continually harrassed and tortured every damn day of your life causes suicide. Why would anyone in their right mind want to wake up in the morning so they can walk straight into hell and live it yet again?" Oh Jee! I get to have my ribs cracked from being kicked today, how lucky am I!" Mentally stable kids don'y have the same peppy atitude you think they do, maybe you're selfish for assuming they should.
How can someone make their parents stop beating them and actually love them? You can't make someone love you dearest, it doesnt work that easyily. "Hey Dad, your being a real prick, can you please stop bashing my head into a wall?" I don't think that would go over so well. Now you're going to say"Well if they wanted to fix it, they could tell someone". True, they could tell someone, but who? Do you think they are going to open up to some child welfare person who they don't even know and tell them their life is horrible and they don't want to live it anymore? No. You're selfish for wanting someone else to do what you think is acceptable.
If you're not popular, you wouldnt kill yourself. If you felt like you must be invisible crammed under a rock somewhere because no one on this entire Earth knew you existed, life might not seem worth living anymore. You have no idea what it's like to feel that you're nothing and no one wants you. You don't know what goes on inside their head. You have no idea what their life is like, because guess what! You didnt live it, so quit being selfish and acting like you did.
Do you know what it's like to go to school and constatly, every day, to be teased for being overweight? Have you walked in those shoes? Have people came up to you and asked why Shamoo left seaworld? Do other people harass you for not fitting into size two jeans? What if they have a medical disorder and their weight is out of their control and they can't help anything about the situation, how would they make their life better then? They can't. All they can do is be ridiculed and demeaded because of insensative people to the point where they want to shoot themselves. You have no idea what it feels like to realize that you can't fix the problems in your life anymore, so quit being selfish and assuming that everyone can fix all their problems.
Maybe you should rethink that statment. Who is to assume everyone likes boys? Will just use that as a hypotheitcal statement. You do know about mental fixations that are out of peoples control. They can't help that they feel like they need someone so much, they can't. Without that person, they don't think their lie is worth living. MAybe they have an inferiority complex and think if that person can't love them, no one can and they are worthless. Why would anyone feeling worthless all the time want to live? "Oh Yes! I get to go waste more air today and take up space!" Not everyone has the same optoimistic attitude as you, so quit being selfish and thinking they do.
The starving Kids in Africa was the most ignorant part of that whole post, it basically mocked them. Do you have any idea what they are going through? You know, they don't have a chance to commit suicide, all the diseases and famine gets to them first.
So, maybe you should take into consideration that you're not living their life, you don't know what's going on in it and you don't have a clue. Think about how much misery it takes to end your life. it is their life, and only theirs. You have no say in what they do at all, it's their life. I don't direct you around in your life and tell you how to live it, what makes it ok for you to call them selfish for wanting to end it. Do you really think the people around them had a clue as to what was going on? If they did, they were selfish for sitting by and letting it happen. Maybe you're the selfish one for trying to tell them how to live their lives.
So is it still okay for them to kill themselves? Because everything you said ment nothing because we dont know each other. How do you know I didnt base all that stuff around myself and what Ive seen? hmmmm And yeah your right I am selfish for saying all that stuff. I still think people who commit suicide are selfish. Thanks for making look homophobic too
Yeah, so if life doesnt go your way kill yourself.
If people pick on you and call you names and beat the living shit out of you kill yourself.
If your parents beat you and make you eat shit kill yourself because nobody loves you anyway.
If your not popular kill yourself.
If your bored and nothings on TV kill yourself.
If your fat you might have already killed yourself.
If your 15 and that boy dont like you kill
The starving kids in Africa should also kill themselves because no ones gonna feed them anyway.
People who commit suicide are selfish in my eyes [thats my opinion for those of you who didnt get it] Why get rid of your life instead of making it better? Even fucking homeless people on streets begging for quarters are out there fighting.
But oh well....if you wanna die...then die. Its your life, like someone said up there ^^^
That was one of the most insensative statments made in this entire thread. Did you ever think that maybe they can't make their life better? maybe whats making lose their will to live is out of their control? You just made all suicidal people sound like they fit a few stereotypes, when it is nowhere near that simple.
Do you think name calling drives people to suicide? No, being continually harrassed and tortured every damn day of your life causes suicide. Why would anyone in their right mind want to wake up in the morning so they can walk straight into hell and live it yet again?" Oh Jee! I get to have my ribs cracked from being kicked today, how lucky am I!" Mentally stable kids don'y have the same peppy atitude you think they do, maybe you're selfish for assuming they should.
How can someone make their parents stop beating them and actually love them? You can't make someone love you dearest, it doesnt work that easyily. "Hey Dad, your being a real prick, can you please stop bashing my head into a wall?" I don't think that would go over so well. Now you're going to say"Well if they wanted to fix it, they could tell someone". True, they could tell someone, but who? Do you think they are going to open up to some child welfare person who they don't even know and tell them their life is horrible and they don't want to live it anymore? No. You're selfish for wanting someone else to do what you think is acceptable.
If you're not popular, you wouldnt kill yourself. If you felt like you must be invisible crammed under a rock somewhere because no one on this entire Earth knew you existed, life might not seem worth living anymore. You have no idea what it's like to feel that you're nothing and no one wants you. You don't know what goes on inside their head. You have no idea what their life is like, because guess what! You didnt live it, so quit being selfish and acting like you did.
Do you know what it's like to go to school and constatly, every day, to be teased for being overweight? Have you walked in those shoes? Have people came up to you and asked why Shamoo left seaworld? Do other people harass you for not fitting into size two jeans? What if they have a medical disorder and their weight is out of their control and they can't help anything about the situation, how would they make their life better then? They can't. All they can do is be ridiculed and demeaded because of insensative people to the point where they want to shoot themselves. You have no idea what it feels like to realize that you can't fix the problems in your life anymore, so quit being selfish and assuming that everyone can fix all their problems.
Maybe you should rethink that statment. Who is to assume everyone likes boys? Will just use that as a hypotheitcal statement. You do know about mental fixations that are out of peoples control. They can't help that they feel like they need someone so much, they can't. Without that person, they don't think their lie is worth living. MAybe they have an inferiority complex and think if that person can't love them, no one can and they are worthless. Why would anyone feeling worthless all the time want to live? "Oh Yes! I get to go waste more air today and take up space!" Not everyone has the same optoimistic attitude as you, so quit being selfish and thinking they do.
The starving Kids in Africa was the most ignorant part of that whole post, it basically mocked them. Do you have any idea what they are going through? You know, they don't have a chance to commit suicide, all the diseases and famine gets to them first.
So, maybe you should take into consideration that you're not living their life, you don't know what's going on in it and you don't have a clue. Think about how much misery it takes to end your life. it is their life, and only theirs. You have no say in what they do at all, it's their life. I don't direct you around in your life and tell you how to live it, what makes it ok for you to call them selfish for wanting to end it. Do you really think the people around them had a clue as to what was going on? If they did, they were selfish for sitting by and letting it happen. Maybe you're the selfish one for trying to tell them how to live their lives.
So is it still okay for them to kill themselves? Because everything you said ment nothing because we dont know each other. How do you know I didnt base all that stuff around myself and what Ive seen? hmmmm And yeah your right I am selfish for saying all that stuff. I still think people who commit suicide are selfish. Thanks for making look homophobic too
Thats exactly what you did, you based it on things you knew, You have no clue what their life is like and what things they know, so don't pretend you do.
And I didn't make you look homophobic, narrowminded is the word I would have used, and you said it, not me.
robotchicken. Falling In Love With The Board Age: 34 Gender: Female Posts: 8423
June 16th, 2006 at 11:09pm
You didnt get what I was saying
Nevermind, cant talk with someone who is like my mom.
You didnt get what I was saying
Nevermind, cant talk with someone who is like my mom.
Damn, I feel sorry for your mom...That's the one time you try to raise a good kid, but some circumstances or genes or some other shit just stands in your way...