ive been talking to my sister about this, alot of people do it because they say they want to take away the pain, i mean if you really want to go, cut down not across, because in some ways you would think that the people that go across are trying to get attention, just go down the center, and then you'll be gone! But seriously, its sad and i think its suddenly become a new trend (for some people it may not be this) try not to try to get attention so much(you know who you are), i did it i admit its sad it wasn't for attention me and my friend were out of it and did it for the spur of the moment to get tattoos and crap...seriously it won't make people run up to you and notice you and say im sorry, its not there fault.
I think suicide isn’t a solution or something, some day you will feel better and be happy again, but you will never be happy again if you commit suicide.. Well I tried to commit suicide once, I don’t understand how stupid I could be..!! No ones life is just happiness and stuff, but no reason to kill yourself.. Self harm won’t help you or something, you’ll only feel worse and worse.. I have respect for people who live hard lifes and don’t (try to) commit suicide or cut their arms open or something.. I kinda understand if people do, I did those things a while ago.. But how down and lost you feel, self harm will only make it worse.
Sorry, I’m dutch, my English isn’t good..
11th Street Kid King For A Couple Of Days Age: - Gender: - Posts: 3645
August 1st, 2006 at 05:39pm
frizzle:
some day you will feel better and be happy again, but you will never be happy again if you commit suicide..
How can you be so sure? There isn't a solution to everything. Not everyone's problems go away eventually. Some problems stay there and don't ever go away. You can't guarantee people will definitely feel better and be happy someday. Plus, how do you know people won't be happy after they've died? You never know... there might be a place that our souls go to and some people may feel relieved there. Or we might just stay numb which, in my opinion, is better than feeling like miserable shit.
frizzle:
Self harm won’t help you or something, you’ll only feel worse and worse..
It may not have helped YOU but some people might really think it does. Speak for yourself. How can you say it makes peoples lives worse when you haven't met anyone..? Reading this bit felt like... you were dictating everyone's lives or something...
I think suicide isn’t a solution or something, some day you will feel better and be happy again, but you will never be happy again if you commit suicide.. Well I tried to commit suicide once, I don’t understand how stupid I could be..!! No ones life is just happiness and stuff, but no reason to kill yourself.. Self harm won’t help you or something, you’ll only feel worse and worse.. I have respect for people who live hard lifes and don’t (try to) commit suicide or cut their arms open or something.. I kinda understand if people do, I did those things a while ago.. But how down and lost you feel, self harm will only make it worse.
Sorry, I’m dutch, my English isn’t good..
How can you be so sure?
robotchicken. Falling In Love With The Board Age: 34 Gender: Female Posts: 8423
August 2nd, 2006 at 02:26am
Viv.:
frizzle:
some day you will feel better and be happy again, but you will never be happy again if you commit suicide..
How can you be so sure? There isn't a solution to everything. Not everyone's problems go away eventually. Some problems stay there and don't ever go away. You can't guarantee people will definitely feel better and be happy someday. Plus, how do you know people won't be happy after they've died? You never know... there might be a place that our souls go to and some people may feel relieved there. Or we might just stay numb which, in my opinion, is better than feeling like miserable shit.
frizzle:
Self harm won’t help you or something, you’ll only feel worse and worse..
It may not have helped YOU but some people might really think it does. Speak for yourself. How can you say it makes peoples lives worse when you haven't met anyone..? Reading this bit felt like... you were dictating everyone's lives or something...
im tired of people saying that. "I guess I cant say anything unless its directed to myself" She might have said they'll never be happy again if they commit suicide because of some religious basis. You never know either :/
I just recently lost two of my friends to suicide, it's not that fun to lose somebody when you where hanging out the day before having a blast, then the next day something goes wrong, or there was something wrong before and their gone. it sucks im against suicide and I dont know why so many people think its the easiest way out when its not, it just causes more pain for their loved ones. and now im gonna start crying...again...great...
Self harm, i've done it...it causes more trouble then you began with, I quit cutting three months ago, and its great. But it's not that cool. I mean theres alot of people who do it because they think its a trend. Then theres the people who really have problems and do it, and dont know how or when they should stop so it becomes a habit, and shit like that. And it hurts to see/know people who do and wonder why they do it, and then you talk to them about it and its like, "wow, I didn't know things could get that bad." But I think those who do it should seek help from a friend, a family member, a teacher, hell from a random person on the street, as long as they learn its not the right thing to do, and they quit.
How can you be so sure? There isn't a solution to everything. Not everyone's problems go away eventually. Some problems stay there and don't ever go away. You can't guarantee people will definitely feel better and be happy someday. Plus, how do you know people won't be happy after they've died? You never know... there might be a place that our souls go to and some people may feel relieved there. Or we might just stay numb which, in my opinion, is better than feeling like miserable shit.
It may not have helped YOU but some people might really think it does. Speak for yourself. How can you say it makes peoples lives worse when you haven't met anyone..? Reading this bit felt like... you were dictating everyone's lives or something...
I'm not, but i don't think it will help.. okay, speaking for myself uh.. I did it and i feel stupid about it, when i did i just hated myself for doing it, i just felt worse than i ever did before. I'm just trying to help and maybe can you, because i don't know what problems it solve.. Are you saying that if people feel bad, they must cut their arms and they'll feel better? Or when people are depressed just commit suicide, because they'll feel better when they are dead? Well sorry, because i think i'm wrong now, but reading that felt like.. youre saying it's good or something.. If people want to commit suicide or cut their arms, okay, i'm just saying what i'm thinking.. If i'm dictating someones life, sorry, i didn't ment to. Maybe some will think i'm a stupid asshole, sorry again.. I'm not trying to piss people off or hurt people..
When i read it back, it sounds stupid, so i'm writing a new reply.. I still hate myself for doing it, i want to stop, but it isn't easy.. I'm just trying to say that i understand if people do such things.. But it's better when you don't, maybe your life will get better, but i cant guarantee.. I tried to commit suicide a couple of times, it hurts me when i look back.. I just want people to feel good, to be happy, and i felt worse doing it, maybe people will feel better, i don't. But maybe there is an other solution.. I don't know.. I can understand if people commit suicide, really, because life can be very hard and people can feel very lost.
When i read it back, it sounds stupid, so i'm writing a new reply.. I still hate myself for doing it, i want to stop, but it isn't easy.. I'm just trying to say that i understand if people do such things.. But it's better when you don't, maybe your life will get better, but i cant guarantee.. I tried to commit suicide a couple of times, it hurts me when i look back.. I just want people to feel good, to be happy, and i felt worse doing it, maybe people will feel better, i don't. But maybe there is an other solution.. I don't know.. I can understand if people commit suicide, really, because life can be very hard and people can feel very lost.
That was a much better post, very honest and objective. You convey your thoughts better that way, good job.
11th Street Kid King For A Couple Of Days Age: - Gender: - Posts: 3645
August 2nd, 2006 at 01:30pm
Sheepo@_@:
Viv.:
frizzle:
some day you will feel better and be happy again, but you will never be happy again if you commit suicide..
How can you be so sure? There isn't a solution to everything. Not everyone's problems go away eventually. Some problems stay there and don't ever go away. You can't guarantee people will definitely feel better and be happy someday. Plus, how do you know people won't be happy after they've died? You never know... there might be a place that our souls go to and some people may feel relieved there. Or we might just stay numb which, in my opinion, is better than feeling like miserable shit.
frizzle:
Self harm won’t help you or something, you’ll only feel worse and worse..
It may not have helped YOU but some people might really think it does. Speak for yourself. How can you say it makes peoples lives worse when you haven't met anyone..? Reading this bit felt like... you were dictating everyone's lives or something...
im tired of people saying that. "I guess I cant say anything unless its directed to myself" She might have said they'll never be happy again if they commit suicide because of some religious basis. You never know either :/
True, that..
Yes I Am God Basket Case Age: 34 Gender: Female Posts: 15946
August 10th, 2006 at 04:05am
I'm bumping this thread.
Since.
One of our GSBians just committed suicide.
I'd like to talk about it.
Plug In Baby. Addict Age: 34 Gender: Female Posts: 11334
August 10th, 2006 at 05:31am
Who was it?
If its alright to tell me.
newagecarny Was Here Two Weeks Ago Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 42495
There isn't a solution to everything. Not everyone's problems go away eventually. Some problems stay there and don't ever go away. You can't guarantee people will definitely feel better and be happy someday. Plus, how do you know people won't be happy after they've died? You never know... there might be a place that our souls go to and some people may feel relieved there. Or we might just stay numb which, in my opinion, is better than feeling like miserable shit. 
