Suicide and self harm!

rock00chick:

xaGIRLcalledKILLx:

rock00chick:

well it has officially exceeded 10 pages...so yeh back to talking about different hairstyles...

MY FRIEND HAS AN EMU FARM! I SWEAR!!! theyre sooo cool!

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rock00chick:

xaGIRLcalledKILLx:

rock00chick:

well it has officially exceeded 10 pages...so yeh back to talking about different hairstyles...

MY FRIEND HAS AN EMU FARM! I SWEAR!!! theyre sooo cool!

whoaaaa....dude...emu farms...that's wicked!!!!!!!!!

i wanna see that

XelmoX:

ok i was on a forum recently and there was a poll about suicide and more than half of the ppl that voted have considered it at one stage or another! i really want to hear ppls views on it bcos this was only irish ppl that voted! and maybe irish ppl are just extremely depressed ppl! so let me no wat ur views on it are please!

whatsername4490:

i used 2 be suicidal, then i started pullin out my eyelashes rather than sliting my wrists. lots of pain, but no impnding death.
luckily i'm ok now and they are almost grown back, there's just a big hole in the middle where they should b.

whothefckistrecool?:

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i never said that it was.

i'm simply saying, that telling people that their pain simply does not compare to somebody else's pain is not a viable form of solving a problem. i personally think that you need to feel your own hurt to see how good you have it.

take a situation where somebody is constantly ... lets say, molested? nothingness or continued molesting?

although for you, obviously someone who isn't suicidal, pain does not take away pain, it does not mean that that is so for everyone else. again, comparing your feelings to others isn't answering any questions.

i find that many people cut themselves, burn themselves, hit themselves, etc. because they are A) punishishing themselves B) needing to see that though they feel numb and dead inside, they truly are living or C) find that when hurting themselves, they are not dwelling over everything else. they only feel the pain.

okay, you compared nothingness to molestation, but I'll say it again there is obviusly something you can do besides suicide. Okay, I want to adreess your reasons. Wjhat exactly do you mean by punishing themselves? If they did something bad then they should come clean or if they lied. Or if they did something that can't be fixed they should talk about to someone. B is just plain bull to me. I sort of understand C that they do not have to think about all their other stresses but...Also i do think comparing yourself to someone can solve some problems. I mean obviusly it won't stop you from getting molested, but I still say tha you can realize that you have a lot to be thankful for....

you entirely missed the point. i was saying that were one put in a situation where they were constantly..say...molested...they could commit suicide to find nothingness. i'm attempting to make you understand why some people do this...how it can be logically better than staying her on earth. the three reasons i gave for self harm are true ones that i have encountered in my life. whether or not you understand them, or find them "plain bull" is a matter of diverse opinions. A) punishing themselves not necessarily for doing something wrong, but for not being there for someone when they needed them. ironically, for cutting, etc. when they know they're life is "okay" but they can't stop cutting, they often punish themselves for being selfish. its simple for you to say that they need to come clean, when you've never felt it. its PSYCHOLOGICAL. you can not dumb the problem down to the level of simplicity that you have. B) complete bull, eh? if you're reducing yourself to that simple of a judgement, i find it not worth explaining again. C) i'm glad that you "kind of understand" this one.