Are girls growing up too fast?

no, you missed the point...i mean the important one...cuz you got the obvious one. I FEEL VIOLATED. being female and having to come into contact with that in the media...its...frustrating...i cant get over the fact that people (guys...no offense, but its true) are talking to my breasts and not ME. my opinions mean nothing, and my body is whats important. I FEEL VIOLATED. i do have eyes, you know. and a brain for that matter.

Most of them are. Most girls at my school have boyfriends, and hats just because they want to have boyfriends they can maek out with, not because they like them. And they dont need to have only one boyfriend either. And, my friends tries to fix me up with guys I dont even know -_- Why just not live their childhood, and start with that when theyre 15, atleast. And, yes, everyone dresses too slutty.

well i think as a counter attack on the media...i shoudl start dressing in shirts that barely cover my boobs and skirts so short they are almost tube tops...i say this as a counter attack because i will be the first to admit to the fact that my body has some excess fat on it...and im fine with that....a good share of ppl arent thoguh...they see it as...icky....well i wanna see how quickt he styles change when they see this body (as happy as i am with it) in the cloths that they design to fit twigs and sluts...i think all of the 'bigger' girls shoudl ban together and do this....i think the cloths will literally fall back on these girls/women

you shouldnt have to do something like that to make that point though! that just furthers the whole idea that we have to show EVERYTHING to get the attention we need to make a point and create change...i really think that girls need to be taught that they should respect themselves and that they dont have to show every inch of their bodies to be heard...everyone needs to learn that...its not right to tell us otherwise. im so TIRED of it...!

of course girls should learn to respect themselves! of course! but what i think is so annoying is when these magazines that are constantly showing these skinny little things and telling how to lose 2o lbs in a month get on their high horses and have an entire magazine that is all about how girls shoudlnt give in to negative pressure about their body image....it is so...frustrating...cause if they didnt have all these skinny twigs plastered all over their magazines and stuff, then these girls wouldnt think they needed to resort to shoving their fingers down thier throats adn starving themselves to be attractive to guys...which is a whole other story so i wont even go there...but yeah the magazines piss me off...if u couldnt tell...

i like that this went from the media sucks to guys suck...yep...but yeah...every teen magazine...EVERY SINGLE ONE promotes the same hypocritical thing...its not worth it...jeez...theyre like "be happy with what you look like" and in the same issue "the perfect jeans for your body" and its a series of twiggy models and celebrities. the most recent issue of teen people for example...it runs articles on how we should embrace our body types AND tips for flirting with guys who dont care what you think, but what you look like...it drives me nuts!!!!!

i'm only 10 and i have a cell phone
but it's for safety so...

man, you know what,

this thread is old, its getting old, and i think it sucks. it IS the spam thread of specific discussion.

zdf_jammin:

man, you know what,

this thread is old, its getting old, and i think it sucks. it IS the spam thread of specific discussion.

I agree. My final point is, yes, girls are growing up too quickly.

if any of u ppl are from england then u might have seen the recent video for united nations( crappy music ) it has girls who are working in the office with half there clothes off sitting at there desks sucking the end of there pen and glassses to make them look sexy loads of make up on there faces and the guy is singing then later on in the music video there in this confrence room and he looks like he is telling them bout the job and stuff and there sitting there being pretty acting all dumb stupid and sexy and then after taht all the girls go in the lift and give the guy a lap dance one at a time i think this is discraceful this is not only showing half way up the girls skirts but showing young kids that what you do at work is not work but dance around you bosses have sex with them to get a higher promotion and dress very slutty this is out of order but it is reality and what kids are going ot be growing up to think its allright to act this way and let guys touch you and treat you this way when its NOT !!!!!!!!!!!

i hate all those videos, all they are are half naked girls dancing around. I don't think it pormotes the best message for girls

whatsername***:

i hate all those videos, all they are are half naked girls dancing around. I don't think it pormotes the best message for girls

the videos are anoying i really am getting sick of them they show girls its ok to go around having sex wid any guy and that you should wear next to nothing around some rich guys house ...ok so not everyone knows someone rich but its just that kids think they have to live up to this
its how there suposed to be

You can't blame them...
The are made to grow up fast!
Kids don't have time for just beïng a kid anymore..

Blame the parents..
Blame the schools..
Blame the nations..
Blame the whole f*cking world..

LesbianGreenDayLover:

You can't blame them...
The are made to grow up fast!
Kids don't have time for just beïng a kid anymore..

Blame the parents..
Blame the schools..
Blame the nations..
Blame the whole f*cking world..

oh yea so the parents force make up on there children

i was talking bout this to my mate earlier and she was telling me that once wen they had non uniform day at there skwl sumone she knew came to skwl in a mini skirt and high boots and stuff and was dancing in there forum room to some music and she was showing all the guys up her skirt and stuff .

my mate said that this girls MOTHER is afraid of her own daughter

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LesbianGreenDayLover:

You can't blame them...
The are made to grow up fast!
Kids don't have time for just beïng a kid anymore..

Blame the parents..
Blame the schools..
Blame the nations..
Blame the whole f*cking world..

oh yea so the parents force make up on there children

i was talking bout this to my mate earlier and she was telling me that once wen they had non uniform day at there skwl sumone she knew came to skwl in a mini skirt and high boots and stuff and was dancing in there forum room to some music and she was showing all the guys up her skirt and stuff .

my mate said that this girls MOTHER is afraid of her own daughter

Well a mother who's afraid of her own daughter doest seem to have very much controle, does she?! So... where dit it start to go wrong? If parents dont teach them anything? How are they supposed to learn?

meh well it aint all the parents fault
some young teenage girls are very controlling over there parents .....maby the ones youv seen arnt but it isnt just the parents fault girls seem to go out in waht they like now and dont seem to care wat there parents think

im not sayign it aint the parents fault
coz i know if my daughter went out looking like some of the girls that go around these days then id bluddy well slap her

not that i have a daughter....im only 14 myself lol
.........although there are quite alot of 14 year olds getting knocked up

i am only in my teens and i see people either trying to grow up fast and people who are trying not to grow up as fast. there is one girl who is only 12 years old in my school who has already had a abortion. he boyfriend is a boy who has already lefthe school and who has dated someone i know well and i do find it shocking that the whole school knows as well as my mother who works at my school, i personaly think that she is trying to grow up a bit fast.

chelseyxbilliejoe:

i am only in my teens and i see people either trying to grow up fast and people who are trying not to grow up as fast. there is one girl who is only 12 years old in my school who has already had a abortion. he boyfriend is a boy who has already lefthe school and who has dated someone i know well and i do find it shocking that the whole school knows as well as my mother who works at my school, i personaly think that she is trying to grow up a bit fast.

that is young bluddy hell




ha ha i do find ur avata very amusing thou lmao

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chelseyxbilliejoe:

i am only in my teens and i see people either trying to grow up fast and people who are trying not to grow up as fast. there is one girl who is only 12 years old in my school who has already had a abortion. he boyfriend is a boy who has already lefthe school and who has dated someone i know well and i do find it shocking that the whole school knows as well as my mother who works at my school, i personaly think that she is trying to grow up a bit fast.

that is young bluddy hell




ha ha i do find ur avata very amusing thou lmao

yea i think thats young too..... im just shocked that everyone knows

i love my avatar too

theres a guy in my class...hes 15 hes daddy.

Girls have growen up to fast.

Im sick of seeing 8 year old kids dressed in boots mini skirts and a tank top at the supermarket...shopping with there parents bloddy disgusting.

would you dress your 8 year old girl up like that?

Remember it all starting with Britney Spears. Remember the used to be some ones little girl!