Are girls growing up too fast?

zaikrafu:

yea well it aint just girl like me growing up 2 fast its boys 2. My freind anna has a 5 yr old brother and he has a cell/mobile phone and wtf is going on! hu is he gonna call nd txt common. even though quite a lot of girls r growing up fast and acting really adult like well most of them r sluts *shudders* BUT NOT ALL GIRLS ARE GROWING UP FAST COZ I AM A 13 YR OLD GIRL AND I DIND GET A PHONE TILL I WAS 12, I DO NO NOT ACT LIKE AN ADULT, I AM NOT SLUTTY, AND I DO NOT SLOBBER MYSELF WIV MAKE UP!!! [/b]I say i'm quite not grown up and immature but i do not care!! ITS FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

exactly, not all girls are like it, but a lot are and it's just really stupid, they're acting like they're older but they're not and it really shows

im 14 and i act my age.........hmm acually i dont cause im really immature and act like a 5 year old but i look back on my first yr at secondary school and i think to myself dam wat a idiot i was who was i trying to impress ....cause i used to want to try be pretty and stuff and i wanted to be popular but the girls i were trying to be mates wid really were not nice people i regret doing all those things those girls now hate me i cnt believe how stupid i was trying to be someone im not but now i am someone i am........if that makes sense and although im not too happy and often get depressed..........maby this is who i am i dont want to be one of those girls ive got myself mixed in with the wrong crowd twice at school but now i finally think ive found who i am and i love it

being who you are is much better than
trying to be someone your not ....or someone other ppl want u to be

hmm alot of that didnt make sense but thats just my life ........... ....................................

im 15 and i dont have a cell phone. and guess what? i dont care. i have plenty of other ways to communicate with my friends...besides, absense makes the heart grow fonder ^.^ lol...i come by my maturity honestly...ive seen quite a lot of the ways of the world and i suppose it shows in a lot of things...but i dont go out of my way to "act adult" cuz im not an adult! im still just a kid. and that shows too...i know i can be really immature, but i know that there is a line between acting like an insane teenager and acting like im 5, and i think people too often choose one extreme or the other...MODERATION!!!! act your age, not older or younger! JEEZ!

Warning:

im 14 and i act my age.........hmm acually i dont cause im really immature and act like a 5 year old but i look back on my first yr at secondary school and i think to myself dam wat a idiot i was who was i trying to impress ....cause i used to want to try be pretty and stuff and i wanted to be popular but the girls i were trying to be mates wid really were not nice people i regret doing all those things those girls now hate me i cnt believe how stupid i was trying to be someone im not but now i am someone i am........if that makes sense and although im not too happy and often get depressed..........maby this is who i am i dont want to be one of those girls ive got myself mixed in with the wrong crowd twice at school but now i finally think ive found who i am and i love it

being who you are is much better than
trying to be someone your not ....or someone other ppl want u to be

hmm alot of that didnt make sense but thats just my life ........... ....................................

I know how you feel, in my fisrt year at sencondary school I was obsessed with who was popular and always wanting to be part of the popular crowd.... Now I can see that it's not a great place to be in, because they're not nice and can be really bitchy. And not many people like them, except themselves. I think we should all just hang around with people who we can be ourselves with, and don't always have to act a certain way to please people.

sorry guys, but could you try and stay on-topic, it seems your more reminising about personal experiences than actually debating the topic. thanks.

Well... to go back to the topic
Are girls growing up to fast?
Well, yes they are.
And it't the fault of the fucking media.
They let it seem that beign older and all grown up is so much fun...
But they never show how much fun it is to be a kid

I'm a 16 year old girl and I can;t stand all the girls who pretend to be 20. They walk around with their purses of louis vuiton and they wearing highheels.
I think I'm sticking to my eastpack and my allstars.
Beign all mature isn;t fun.

just_another_girl:

Well... to go back to the topic
Are girls growing up to fast?
Well, yes they are.
And it't the fault of the fucking media.
They let it seem that beign older and all grown up is so much fun...
But they never show how much fun it is to be a kid

I'm a 16 year old girl and I can;t stand all the girls who pretend to be 20. They walk around with their purses of louis vuiton and they wearing highheels.
I think I'm sticking to my eastpack and my allstars.
Beign all mature isn;t fun.

yea i agree wid u
girls shld be comftable in wat there wearing

there are alway differences.. like in my class there are tons of bimbos trying to be older then they are.. and there are also people that doesn't care that much..
I never wear make-up, I don't have any high-heeled shoes, not any pair of tight jeans or anything like that..

well the make and cell phones are A-OK, but geeze, i don't know about some of the clothes i've seen them wear.

The girls in my school are terrible as well. We're going into 8th grade so we're going to be turning 14 but they act as if they're 20 year old hookers. Everyone wears the shortest skirt they could find and wear high heels. After school everyone is one their $100+ cell phone. It sickens me. Kids need to live out they're life because they won't be like that for long. Also when I was in 6th grade a girl told everyone she was going to be a prostitute when she grew up, and I'm thinking what a slut. You shouldn't be thinking these thoughts at the tender age of 12. It sickens me when they think they're in "meaningful" relationships. It's never going to last, in the end a guy wants someone real, not a fake. These relationships are constructed with nothing. It's all a big joke.

ya htats totally true im also goin in grade 8 and there is gurls that wear mini skits and pull there thongs up so everyone can c like i wear thongs but not all the time and if i do i dont pull it up so everyone can c like wth there r gurls i no in my school that have already had sex like wth they act way older and im like wth get a life and b urself

i know a girl who is pretty much a free prostitute shes a total whore, and her little is taking after her shes in 5th grade, and shes had 8 boyfriends since KINDERGARTEN

No they aren't. It's just a trend. A fad and it will pass.

it seems people are just going over the same points over and over. could you please actually debate, or i might aswell lock it seeing as you all seem to agree on the issue.

i fink its ok bringinn a cell fone in or what eva valubles as long as u can contact ur parents . a lil bit ov makeup is kk just lyk eyeliner an lipgloss

Bamboozler:

The girls in my school are terrible as well. We're going into 8th grade so we're going to be turning 14 but they act as if they're 20 year old hookers. Everyone wears the shortest skirt they could find and wear high heels. After school everyone is one their $100+ cell phone. It sickens me. Kids need to live out they're life because they won't be like that for long. Also when I was in 6th grade a girl told everyone she was going to be a prostitute when she grew up, and I'm thinking what a slut. You shouldn't be thinking these thoughts at the tender age of 12. It sickens me when they think they're in "meaningful" relationships. It's never going to last, in the end a guy wants someone real, not a fake. These relationships are constructed with nothing. It's all a big joke.

OMG do you go to my school, cuz this one time an 8th grader said she was gonna be a crack whore when she grew up. and another girl i know, (she's going into 8th grade with me in september) is already rumored to have had 3 abortions with the guy. and i know this one little bitchy girl who sucked a guys *ahem* when he was in 7th grade and she was in 5th. it disgusts me. and her mom hardly even cares.

Cheesy_Poof:

Bamboozler:

The girls in my school are terrible as well. We're going into 8th grade so we're going to be turning 14 but they act as if they're 20 year old hookers. Everyone wears the shortest skirt they could find and wear high heels. After school everyone is one their $100+ cell phone. It sickens me. Kids need to live out they're life because they won't be like that for long. Also when I was in 6th grade a girl told everyone she was going to be a prostitute when she grew up, and I'm thinking what a slut. You shouldn't be thinking these thoughts at the tender age of 12. It sickens me when they think they're in "meaningful" relationships. It's never going to last, in the end a guy wants someone real, not a fake. These relationships are constructed with nothing. It's all a big joke.

OMG do you go to my school, cuz this one time an 8th grader said she was gonna be a crack whore when she grew up. and another girl i know, (she's going into 8th grade with me in september) is already rumored to have had 3 abortions with the guy. and i know this one little bitchy girl who sucked a guys *ahem* when he was in 7th grade and she was in 5th. it disgusts me. and her mom hardly even cares.

omg, is 5th grade when they're 10-11, like year 6? coz that's rly bad

your straying off topic again..........

whatsername***:

Cheesy_Poof:

Bamboozler:

The girls in my school are terrible as well. We're going into 8th grade so we're going to be turning 14 but they act as if they're 20 year old hookers. Everyone wears the shortest skirt they could find and wear high heels. After school everyone is one their $100+ cell phone. It sickens me. Kids need to live out they're life because they won't be like that for long. Also when I was in 6th grade a girl told everyone she was going to be a prostitute when she grew up, and I'm thinking what a slut. You shouldn't be thinking these thoughts at the tender age of 12. It sickens me when they think they're in "meaningful" relationships. It's never going to last, in the end a guy wants someone real, not a fake. These relationships are constructed with nothing. It's all a big joke.

OMG do you go to my school, cuz this one time an 8th grader said she was gonna be a crack whore when she grew up. and another girl i know, (she's going into 8th grade with me in september) is already rumored to have had 3 abortions with the guy. and i know this one little bitchy girl who sucked a guys *ahem* when he was in 7th grade and she was in 5th. it disgusts me. and her mom hardly even cares.

omg, is 5th grade when they're 10-11, like year 6? coz that's rly bad

unfortunatly yes.

Cheesy_Poof:

whatsername***:

Cheesy_Poof:

Bamboozler:

The girls in my school are terrible as well. We're going into 8th grade so we're going to be turning 14 but they act as if they're 20 year old hookers. Everyone wears the shortest skirt they could find and wear high heels. After school everyone is one their $100+ cell phone. It sickens me. Kids need to live out they're life because they won't be like that for long. Also when I was in 6th grade a girl told everyone she was going to be a prostitute when she grew up, and I'm thinking what a slut. You shouldn't be thinking these thoughts at the tender age of 12. It sickens me when they think they're in "meaningful" relationships. It's never going to last, in the end a guy wants someone real, not a fake. These relationships are constructed with nothing. It's all a big joke.

OMG do you go to my school, cuz this one time an 8th grader said she was gonna be a crack whore when she grew up. and another girl i know, (she's going into 8th grade with me in september) is already rumored to have had 3 abortions with the guy. and i know this one little bitchy girl who sucked a guys *ahem* when he was in 7th grade and she was in 5th. it disgusts me. and her mom hardly even cares.

omg, is 5th grade when they're 10-11, like year 6? coz that's rly bad

unfortunatly yes.

Oh dear. The sluts are getting younger and younger...