Are girls growing up too fast?

bah. i know this girl, she's only like.. 11 or 12, and she wants a louis vuitton bag o_o

i'm 15 and i don't even carry around a bag or purse with me
i just shove things in my pockets.
what would an 11 year old put in their purse anyways?
condoms?

This girl that goes to church with my friend is 10 and she has a camera flip phone... thats no really here growing up too fast thats poor parenting. 10 y.o. don't need cell phones cause they really shouldn't be out of adult supervision unless there in a house, which would have a phone.

i was 13 when i started actually talking on the phone

10 year olds and cellphones o_o
like seriously. it's so stupid
who do they need to call anyways? their friends? what are they gonna talk about? their little crushes or something?
the first time i got a cellphone, was when i was 13 or something, and my parents just bought it for emergencies, and stuff like that, if i went to hang out with friends, i didn't even think of having a cellphone
and i just got a new cellphone from my brother (its actually his old phone, he bought a new one), a few days ago, i'm still trying to figure out how to work all this crap i don;t need on it like the calender, camera, organizer thingy, and all that other stuff

My friend has been carrying condoms in her bag since she was 13.
She uses them too. She's done everything but full sex, and we're 14
It's ridiculous, everyone seems to think that to be cool you need to be a slut. And the media doesn't help either...

They do not need cell phones! If my school didnt have such a strict dress code, I kno that all the younger girls would dress all slutty, and some do anyway! They think theyre so hot, but theyre not! I don't have a cell phone and i'm 14!

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My friend has been carrying condoms in her bag since she was 13.
She uses them too. She's done everything but full sex, and we're 14
It's ridiculous, everyone seems to think that to be cool you need to be a slut. And the media doesn't help either...

I love your ava... like i ♥♥love♥♥ it ^-^ Yeah but a 13 y.o. carrying around condoms is a little extreme. Is she doing it because her parents gave them to her or "all the cool kids were doing it?" Well i guess the up side is that she's useing them

rehab~reject:

My friend has been carrying condoms in her bag since she was 13.
She uses them too. She's done everything but full sex, and we're 14
It's ridiculous, everyone seems to think that to be cool you need to be a slut. And the media doesn't help either...

Really.. this is CRAZY!!

She did it because she thinks it makes her seem cool, I guess. Or older.
I don't know

Also, all over the media there are these slutty anorexic girls wearing just about nothing! And now all the 10-11 year olds think that this is cool! Not right, I say!

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She did it because she thinks it makes her seem cool, I guess. Or older.
I don't know

You should tell her she's a loser for not being herself and one thing i've learned is that you can seem alot older if you don't act like a raging hormonal slut. If your all over every guy you meet, if you end up hooking up with a guy he's not going to take you seriously and he's gonna ditch you after he's had his fun (and this works both ways, so I'm not being sexist).

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rehab~reject:

She did it because she thinks it makes her seem cool, I guess. Or older.
I don't know

You should tell her she's a loser for not being herself and one thing i've learned is that you can seem alot older if you don't act like a raging hormonal slut. If your all over every guy you meet, if you end up hooking up with a guy he's not going to take you seriously and he's gonna ditch you after he's had his fun (and this works both ways, so I'm not being sexist).

Yeah I know, I try and tell her but she doesn't listen.
It makes me laugh because she always thinks it makes her seem older, and on msn guys always guess her age right and think i'm older because I don't act like a slut

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kaleidoscope_eyes:

rehab~reject:

She did it because she thinks it makes her seem cool, I guess. Or older.
I don't know

You should tell her she's a loser for not being herself and one thing i've learned is that you can seem alot older if you don't act like a raging hormonal slut. If your all over every guy you meet, if you end up hooking up with a guy he's not going to take you seriously and he's gonna ditch you after he's had his fun (and this works both ways, so I'm not being sexist).

Yeah I know, I try and tell her but she doesn't listen.
It makes me laugh because she always thinks it makes her seem older, and on msn guys always guess her age right and think i'm older because I don't act like a slut

If she wants to act like a slut, why couldn't she?

Just like as if:

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kaleidoscope_eyes:

rehab~reject:

She did it because she thinks it makes her seem cool, I guess. Or older.
I don't know

You should tell her she's a loser for not being herself and one thing i've learned is that you can seem alot older if you don't act like a raging hormonal slut. If your all over every guy you meet, if you end up hooking up with a guy he's not going to take you seriously and he's gonna ditch you after he's had his fun (and this works both ways, so I'm not being sexist).

Yeah I know, I try and tell her but she doesn't listen.
It makes me laugh because she always thinks it makes her seem older, and on msn guys always guess her age right and think i'm older because I don't act like a slut

If she wants to act like a slut, why couldn't she?

I'm not saying she can't. I'm just saying she does it to seem cooler/older and it doesn't work

Well I'm 14, yeah? And ALOT of people tell me that I act older than I am, but isn't that just being called "mature?" But then again sometimes when I'm out with friends, I act like a 4 yr old

yea im gettin told that i look older than i am but then again that is wot ppl called "mature for ur age" isnt it
i no this 8yr old ( the son of my mums mate) and he has a mobile and goes out with his "g/f" but at the age of 8 honestly wot is this nation comin to

I'm told I'm very mature and that I look it aswell but I'm not about to walk around wearing really short skirts and playboy. I think that is just a sign of immaturity it proves you feel the need to make yourself older and that you are stupid enough to care what ppeople think. Sometimes I do act like a little kid but that's just fun!

in one word YES some of them r

I think some girls do def.

I know at 13 I was still playing with my Teenage Mutant Hero Turtle figures. I'd still be playing with them now if I could find them.

It's a shame girls think they have to grow up so fast.

Why doesn't anyone enjoy being a kid anymore?

okay... from an 11 year old girls point of view:
I wear make-up
I don't wear slutty clothes
I don't have a cell but I want one

I think that the make up and cell phone are fine because your in middle school and your starting to grow up and not just physically. I only wear eye make-up but not like foundation or blsh or any of that crap. But I do wear cover-up when I have a pimple or something. A cell phone is fine because girls are starting to become more social and like to gossip and talk about guys and all that. But dressing slutty is just wrong and stupid. No one I am friends with does that, but a lot of 8th graders do.

I am done