Are girls growing up too fast?

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Lemme tell a story:
This girl I know, [shes about 22 years old] her mother had her at the age of 13 years old.
And she tells me how neglected she was when she was little. How her father didnt want to be in her life, how her stepfather doesnt like her either. She said she used to be in basket ball when in highschool and one time she came home late from a game and her stepfather wouldnt go pick her up. He kept her mother from picking her up. He claimed that " she came home to late and it was her responsibility to find her own way home" She waited a good 3 hours and still no one showed up. She called home crying and begging for them to get her. They never came, so she started to walk [note she live 20 miles away] She said she walked about half way before her mom came. Also when she was about 8 years old her uncle molested her and she told her parents. They didnt do a thing! They just ignored the uncle. I think this is one of the results of growing up to fast and getting pregnant. ;;_;;

Tahts' so sad. It made my eyes water.

It is sad. ;;_;;

It sounds like one of those stories parent's tell their kids to get them not to do something. But the point that that sotry is true.....oi.

Yeah, the girl im talking about also got pregnant young like 18 I think...Shes ok shes real nice and pretty I know her cause shes my brother girlfriend..

Oh, that's cool.

Im 13 and some girls from my class and school are wearing make-up and i dont coz i dont want to.they say I need to wear make-up coz Im 13.dumb people.and they look like whores.but I dont know I dont wont to wear make-up.once we were going to the cinema with our teacher and one girl like put make-upand no one else did and everybody was staring at her.ne guy even told her like why did you put make-up?and they wont me to wera it to and Im like fuck off for god sake!!!ahhhhhhhhhh...I have a cell but just coz I have some lessons after school so I can tell my parents and I contact my friend coz she moved house...people stay out to 11 p.m. like they are older and they wont to look older but they look sluty not grown up!

Bittersweet:

Im 13 and some girls from my class and school are wearing make-up and i dont coz i dont want to.they say I need to wear make-up coz Im 13.dumb people.and they look like whores.but I dont know I dont wont to wear make-up.once we were going to the cinema with our teacher and one girl like put make-upand no one else did and everybody was staring at her.ne guy even told her like why did you put make-up?and they wont me to wera it to and Im like fuck off for god sake!!!ahhhhhhhhhh...I have a cell but just coz I have some lessons after school so I can tell my parents and I contact my friend coz she moved house...people stay out to 11 p.m. like they are older and they wont to look older but they look sluty not grown up!

I had a hard time reading that. But anyway some girls can put on make up and not look slutty. Its just the girls where you live prolly dont know how to put it on O_O Make up is good. Eye make up only Id say.

I see this in my school too.

I'm 12 (13 in April) and all I see are girls wearingtiny little tops that barely get by with the dress code and skirts that are exactly four inches above the knee (Our school limit.) I can't rant about the playboy stuff, because I own some of their jeans (They're not slutty though, they're actually quite comfy. They just have the logo stitched on the pocket.)

Another trend I see is the 'OmGz I'm So GanGSTerRRRRRRrrr yOz!!!1d36eleventytwo! LykE OMGZ I'm goNnA Gat Yo AsS MuthaF-er!' thing. Don't these people know that 'gangsters' get shot and killed? 'Oh, well I live in the ghetto, it's natural to me.' No. You don't live in the fucking ghetto, you live in a little tree-filled town near a big city called fucking TAMPA. NOT THE FUCKING GHETTO.

Also, I do own a lot of makeup. I like makeup. But most of the girls wear it like clowns. They have no idea how to put it on, whatsoever. The most popular look, of course, is the dark blue eyeshadow up to your eyebrows with a point about an inch off to the side, dark red lipstick, blush so dark it looks like you're sunburnt, and don't forget the fucking glitter that makes you look oh-so-totalllllllllly gangstaaaaaaaaaaah.

EDIT: Oh, and I have a cell, but it's pay-as-you-go. I use about five to ten minutes a month. It's virgin mobile. I know a girl whohas a 1,500 min. a month plan, and got grounded becaude seh went over a thousand minutes.

I wear A LITTLE eyeliner and blue jeans and t-shirts, my ex bff/ULTIMATE POSER is like "oh im Green Days #1 fan!" Heck no, were 13 and she wore a thong to school O_o How do i know oh well in Gym class she belts out "hey every1 lookie at my thongie!"x( and she wears mini skirts & halter tops...under those mini jackets...blec....yes girls grow up WAAY to fast
Because of me and my bff (who is kool and we are 'true punks' so ever1 is like oh lets be kool like ronni and sam der...ahuhuhuh) being who were were since first grade (our parents were big metallica freaks since ...and justice for all) now every one is like "oh im punk" and wears mini skirts
and cells....i got to football games and im very involed in the nieghbor hood so my mom wants to keep up with me...we have 1000 minutes SHARED between us (my mom and I)

Tre_Bangs_Hard:

I wear A LITTLE eyeliner and blue jeans and t-shirts, my ex bff/ULTIMATE POSER is like "oh im Green Days #1 fan!" Heck no, were 13 and she wore a thong to school O_o How do i know oh well in Gym class she belts out "hey every1 lookie at my thongie!"x( and she wears mini skirts & halter tops...under those mini jackets...blec....yes girls grow up WAAY to fast
Because of me and my bff (who is kool and we are 'true punks' so ever1 is like oh lets be kool like ronni and sam der...ahuhuhuh) being who were were since first grade (our parents were big metallica freaks since ...and justice for all) now every one is like "oh im punk" and wears mini skirts
and cells....i got to football games and im very involed in the nieghbor hood so my mom wants to keep up with me...we have 1000 minutes SHARED between us (my mom and I)

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What the hell did that have to do with anything?

The fact that some people dont act like who they are...and cell phones are okay for young people if your a busy person in life...

Tre_Bangs_Hard:

The fact that some people dont act like who they are...and cell phones are okay for young people if your a busy person in life...

I actually heard something that children who have cell phones are most likely to get into smoking/drugs/drinking

wtf..........um.......ok O_o thats sooooo SCREWED UP!

why
WHY HUH WHY WOULD THEY SMOKE/DRINK/DO DRUGS be cause they own a cell phone????

Tre_Bangs_Hard:

why
WHY HUH WHY WOULD THEY SMOKE/DRINK/DO DRUGS be cause they own a cell phone????

Because they're all rebels.

Tre_Bangs_Hard:

I wear A LITTLE eyeliner and blue jeans and t-shirts, my ex bff/ULTIMATE POSER is like "oh im Green Days #1 fan!" Heck no, were 13 and #1she wore a thong to school O_o How do i know oh well in Gym class she belts out#2 "hey every1 lookie at my thongie!"x( and she wears mini skirts & halter tops...under those mini jackets...blec....yes girls grow up WAAY to fast
Because of me and my bff (who is kool and we are 'true punks' so ever1 is like oh lets be kool like ronni and sam der...ahuhuhuh) being who were were since first grade (our parents were big metallica freaks since ...and justice for all) now every one is like "oh im punk" and wears mini skirts
and cells....i got to football games and im very involed in the nieghbor hood so my mom wants to keep up with me...we have 1000 minutes SHARED between us (my mom and I)

#1 Thongs are just underwear, o_o not that big of a deal. Just cause you think they're all sexual doesnt mean they are. #2 She was just showing off Ive heard waywaywaywayway worse things come from girls.

Nine_Inch_Nails:

Tre_Bangs_Hard:

why
WHY HUH WHY WOULD THEY SMOKE/DRINK/DO DRUGS be cause they own a cell phone????

Because they're all rebels.

I don't know. Maybe because if they have a cell phone, it show independence and.... yeah, I'm not making sense.

I heard it on the radio and they said it could be proven.

the schools should have more control over what girls wear to school, when i take my kids to school i see hoards of young girls wearing skirts up to they're arm pits and looking like marilyn manson clones, if the schools had more say and told these girls that NO you have to dress correctly then perhaps we wouldn't have all the underage pregenancies, (of course there will allways be a few girls who just can't wait) And perhaps if the council stopped giving houses to these young girls and made them say at home with mum and dad then they wouldnt want to grow up fast. Harsh i know but i hate seeing young girls as young has 13 some times getting knocked up and also perhaps if they were forced to give birth the natural way then they would change they're minds (unless of course mum and baby are in danger) Harsh yes i know but that is how i feal.

all the slutty girls at my school get all the guys to sit on their laps. And all of them have their 'seat' that no one else can sit on, so one day we sat there and they kept making up all these lame insults to get us to move...
pathetic.

and me and most of my friends have what we call mobile phones here, but we're nothing like that, at all.

lostandconfuzzled:

all the slutty girls at my school get all the guys to sit on their laps. And all of them have their 'seat' that no one else can sit on, so one day we sat there and they kept making up all these lame insults to get us to move...
pathetic.

and me and most of my friends have what we call mobile phones here, but we're nothing like that, at all.

O.o I have guys sitting on my knee...
I'm such a slut

Naah, not really, I'm just good mates with a lot of guys.

tre_cool_is_god:

the schools should have more control over what girls wear to school, when i take my kids to school i see hoards of young girls wearing skirts up to they're arm pits and looking like marilyn manson clones, if the schools had more say and told these girls that NO you have to dress correctly then perhaps we wouldn't have all the underage pregenancies, (of course there will allways be a few girls who just can't wait) And perhaps if the council stopped giving houses to these young girls and made them say at home with mum and dad then they wouldnt want to grow up fast. Harsh i know but i hate seeing young girls as young has 13 some times getting knocked up and also perhaps if they were forced to give birth the natural way then they would change they're minds (unless of course mum and baby are in danger) Harsh yes i know but that is how i feal.

Please God don't tell me you're one of those people who blames Manson for everything that is wrong with today's youth.

I'd also like to point out that Manson is a man...

And you can't really blame dress code for teenage pregnancies, either. I mean, really, its more to do with the person themselves and their situation than their dress.

I'm head girl of an all girl RC school, i spent my entire three period going around, taking down the posters of a guy in 6th form who had been having sex with younger girls in my schools, seeking revenge the girls put up posters of him naked.

I now have to decide if he should be transferred to a different school, because he's 18 and what he's doing is illegal.

Yet part of me has to see from his perspectives, some of these girls look, act and after today i believe them to be sluts.

tre_cool_is_god:

the schools should have more control over what girls wear to school, when i take my kids to school i see hoards of young girls wearing skirts up to they're arm pits and looking like marilyn manson clones, if the schools had more say and told these girls that NO you have to dress correctly then perhaps we wouldn't have all the underage pregenancies, (of course there will allways be a few girls who just can't wait) And perhaps if the council stopped giving houses to these young girls and made them say at home with mum and dad then they wouldnt want to grow up fast. Harsh i know but i hate seeing young girls as young has 13 some times getting knocked up and also perhaps if they were forced to give birth the natural way then they would change they're minds (unless of course mum and baby are in danger) Harsh yes i know but that is how i feal.

Dress codes have nothing to do with teenage pregenancies, my school is incredible strict, we have a uniform code and we get in shit if we don't follow it, but as soon as they get out of school girls just change their clothes. In fact they dress even worse than the girls from non uniformed schools because they're sick of being told what to wear so they rebel against it any chance they get.
One of my best friends dresses like a total slut but it doesn't mean she's gonna go off and get pregant, she's smarter than that. In all I'd say drinking has more to do with under age pregananices than anything else, after all slutty clothes don't effect your judgement, alcohol does.

yeah i think its horrible how all these like 11 year old girls act like that.. and they think there soo fucking awesome. thats how it is at my school