Are girls growing up too fast?

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June 3rd, 2006 at 04:46pm
I was going to post a new topic but i think what I'm going to say sort of fits in here.

I think alot of girls do try to hard to be grown up.

And it must be hard for men to decifer an age of a girl.
And this is where a whole new topic comes in.
What about the case of Statutory Rape.
I mean alot of men will find it hard to know how old a girl is.
At the moment this is a huge case in Ireland because a man accused of Statutory Rape was allowed walk free.

For those wondering abouth what statutory rape is it's when someone of or over the age of consent has sex with someone below the age of consent.

In other words, if you are over the age of consent and you have sex with a girl who is under the age of consent, even though she willingly has sex with you, you are guilty of statutory rape.


So what are men supposed to do.
And if a young girl is willing to have sex with a guy I don't think she will be willing to tell him her real age if questioned.
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June 3rd, 2006 at 07:55pm
That happened to my sister. She was 13, and told a 20 year old she was 16, and he believed her because of the way she dresses and acts.
I think it's disgusting because she lied, and now he looks like the bad guy.
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June 3rd, 2006 at 08:06pm
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Girls are growing up way too fast. I agree. Im 13 and girls in my school get drunk and smoke weed. Some stuff I don't want to know about.
That's not that much of a big deal to me now. I'm 14 and kids in my grade are doing cocaine.
But i guess that's what happens when you're stuck in the suburbs...
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June 3rd, 2006 at 08:48pm
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Girls are growing up way too fast. I agree. Im 13 and girls in my school get drunk and smoke weed. Some stuff I don't want to know about.
That's not that much of a big deal to me now. I'm 14 and kids in my grade are doing cocaine.
But i guess that's what happens when you're stuck in the suburbs...

:hand Im 14 and I have kids in my grade in rehab, I win.


It's pretty sad that we even have things like that to compare.
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June 3rd, 2006 at 09:07pm
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Jesus Christ Supermarket:
*LiL_ReBeL_AnGeL*:
Girls are growing up way too fast. I agree. Im 13 and girls in my school get drunk and smoke weed. Some stuff I don't want to know about.
That's not that much of a big deal to me now. I'm 14 and kids in my grade are doing cocaine.
But i guess that's what happens when you're stuck in the suburbs...

:hand Im 14 and I have kids in my grade in rehab, I win.


It's pretty sad that we even have things like that to compare.
Me too!
There is a rehabilitation hospital about 20 minutes north of me and let's just say it is verrrry expensive. During activities they make bracelets. And when they get home they complement each other on their "Four Wind's Bracelets."
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June 3rd, 2006 at 09:12pm
Nothing is shocking anymore.
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June 12th, 2006 at 06:19pm
i don`t think it`s ok. girls, all kids, for that matter, should take time and not grow up to fast. i`m 14 years-old, and i buy a fucking happy meal and at resturants(sp?), i ask for the kids meal and coloring book. and spongebob rocks my socks! and don`t dress slutty, but don`t dress overly modest either. somewhere in between. and make up is supposed to enhance features, don`t put a lot. i only wear liner and mascara and that`s it. a girl i know says that make up expresses who you are and you can put as much as you want on. i sorta agree with that, but then again, make sure it doesn`t make you look like a prostitute. and cell phones, psh. i have have a cell, and i forget to bring it with me anywhere. i agree with the dudes up top. it`s not the end of the world. all i`m saying is that instead of wanting to see the rated-r movie at 9, see the G movie at 14. don`t grow up fast. in the words of frank sinatra, ''don`t you know that it`s worth every treasure on earth...for as rich as you are, it`s better by far to be young at heart.''
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June 12th, 2006 at 06:30pm
i grew up way too fast...but mentally...i look older and stuff but i don't dress slutty,i don't smoke and stuff, i get an occasional drink with my friends...but i've never had a childhood,and that's my biggest regret....

there are reasons for that,but that's too personal and would be off topic.

anyway, i'm 16...and i love spongebob,billy and mandy,happy tree friends and loads of other kiddie stuff...on the other hand...i have two long relationships behind me and i'm in the third one now....sometimes i think that's too much,but that's my life and i guess i'm one big kid trapped in a girl whose body and mind grew up too early.
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June 12th, 2006 at 06:33pm
I saw a 13 year old walking around the neighborhood in a lingerie top. o.o

Her Aunt said she looked really trashy. And slutty.
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June 12th, 2006 at 06:34pm
another thing. sometimes i think the mom`s are trying to live through their daughters. when the moms were younger, they didn`t look pretty, or were ''underdeveloped''. i know this girl who went to Confirmation and her boobs were practically gonna fall out of her dress, and her make-up was really thick. and there`s this thing guys at my school do. they call it ''unz unz'' or something, it`s just really gross. and she enjoys it. i think her mom is trying to live through her.
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June 13th, 2006 at 07:49am
a while ago I visited my old school and a fucking 8 y.o started talking to me Shocked
this girl had an mp3 (did mp3's even exist when I was 8???)
and half the kids had cell phones, these children arnen't even 11 yet!!!! that freaked me out, I didn't get my first mobile or phone or w/e until I was 14
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June 13th, 2006 at 07:54am
mollybob:
Nothing is shocking anymore.


I agree with you all the way. the world has changed way to much way to fast, I don't recognize myself in the world I live in
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June 13th, 2006 at 12:58pm
its scary. im 13 and ive got a cellphone and stuff, but im really childish compared to the other girls in my class, they all act and dress like 16 yr olds and they look down on me coz i want to act my age, despite the fact that i look older anyway
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June 13th, 2006 at 02:54pm
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NO!
I think it's horrible how slutty girls are
it pisses me off how twenty year old pervs have treated the Olsen twins and how pricks are ruining girl's young lives


its true...the girls these days have the worst influences these days*coughparishiltoncough*. girls should learn to run their own lives.
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June 13th, 2006 at 03:15pm
i'm jsut sick of seeing 13/14/15/16 year old girls' stomachs and 'clevage' at the mall w/ ten punds of make up , its unnecessary
what happened to natural beauty ?
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June 14th, 2006 at 06:01am
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a while ago I visited my old school and a fucking 8 y.o started talking to me Shocked
this girl had an mp3 (did mp3's even exist when I was 8???)
and half the kids had cell phones, these children arnen't even 11 yet!!!! that freaked me out, I didn't get my first mobile or phone or w/e until I was 14


I don't think they did when I was 8. When I was 8, they only had those block mobiles... The massive mobiles that had no colour and were just massive bricks.

Those were the days...

Supre. Supre is just.... They have clothes for 12 year olds that are meant for 16 year olds. *nods* I even saw a shirt in there that said "Emo punk babe" or something. *shudders*
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June 14th, 2006 at 11:25am
Most of these people in my school are either : Chavs, preps, emos or wanna be goths.
I think it is wrong for kids that are 11 to wear make up, I didnt even straiten my hair once when I was 11, let alone dress like a teenager!!! not that tenns dress like slutts, its just teens are more mature and it matters to them how they look, little kids dont understand.
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June 14th, 2006 at 11:33am
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Most of these people in my school are either : Chavs, preps, emos or wanna be goths.
I think it is wrong for kids that are 11 to wear make up, I didnt even straiten my hair once when I was 11, let alone dress like a teenager!!! not that tenns dress like slutts, its just teens are more mature and it matters to them how they look, little kids dont understand.
The fact that they are so centered on their Image proves how very immature they are.
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June 14th, 2006 at 11:47am
Some of those kids magazines are a really bad influence. They say stuff like;
'How to be sexy!" Which is jsut plain weird for kids about 9 years old.

Even my younger sister calls me immature, but I guess that's just the way I am.

Another thing... Everyone blames places like Myspace for young girls getting raped or whatever, but if a 12 year old says she's 16 and posts slutty pictures of herself, then surely that's her own fault?
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June 14th, 2006 at 11:54am
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Some of those kids magazines are a really bad influence. They say stuff like;
'How to be sexy!" Which is jsut plain weird for kids about 9 years old.

Even my younger sister calls me immature, but I guess that's just the way I am.

Another thing... Everyone blames places like Myspace for young girls getting raped or whatever, but if a 12 year old says she's 16 and posts slutty pictures of herself, then surely that's her own fault?


i completely agree
myspace is not as bad as it seems , its as bad as you make it
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