Are girls growing up too fast?
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| Bleach Rotting On Here  Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 47505 | no its kinda restricts alot of people's happiness. there's much more to life than being successful. |
| Tahm York This Board Is My Home  Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 31394  | I think girls my age are deteriorating their minds. I know a lot of the girls that could really be my friend if they wanted to, but there's a difference between me and them. They can only have a good time by getting shitfaced. That's their idea of fun. Personally, I never see that as fun. I see people who are so drunk they just do whatever, because they're not in their right mind. I don't see that as an excuse to act like a complete moron. To me, there's nothing wrong with the ocassional party, and the ocassional drunkenness, but the girls I know do it OFTEN. Almost every weekend they come back from school, I hear their stories. And they think it is just ~good times~ well if killing your brain cells is a good time, if fucking up your maturity growth is a good time, I'd rather have a future. They talk about their college life as parties. Not once do they really say what they would like to study, and I mean, that doesn't mean they have to know, but they talk about the best party school to go to. If they REALLY want to pay a hefty amount of tuition to go to a decent college so they can piss it away by getting trashed, then I can't say I have sympathy for them. |
| Bleach Rotting On Here Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 47505 | ^oh so true. |
| Tahm York This Board Is My Home Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 31394 | also, the girls who get pregnant (intentionally) at this young age, well, I'm sorry, but it's fucking ridiculous |
| dysLEXIa King For A Couple Of Days  Age: 35 Gender: Female Posts: 3542 | ^Yeah, I hear that. I graduated from high school, but my sister is still there and she tells me that it's so much more common that she has at least one pregnant girl in each of her classes...and some of them (many of them) have lower level grades. She's a Junior. :/ |
| Joel McHale. King For A Couple Of Days  Age: 30 Gender: Female Posts: 3974 | Yeah, high school is just blah, with it's pregnancies. |
| Sherlock Holmes Addict Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 10375 | ^ I shouldn't have laughed about that D: |
| Effy Addict  Age: 34 Gender: Female Posts: 13565 | I don't have any pregnancies at my school, as far as I know that is. Which is a good thing ofcourse. I don't think girls are growing up too fast, they just immitate the wrong women. |
| kirstinlette Shoot Me, I'm A Newbie  Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 54 | I guess it depends on what you mean by 'growing up'... I think that girls think that they've grown up fast because of this or that that's happened in their lives, or because boys suddenly find them attractive like the girls on T.V. and in movies and on those glossy pages of magazines... Personally, I started wearing makeup in the 5th grade and lost my virginity when I was 14, 2 months, and 26 days old... Granted, I really do love him, and I'm still with him. But do I think it helped me grow up? Not one bit. Sexual maturity doesn't equal plain ol' maturity. I know that doesn't totally go with the topic, and that fact is bugging me quite a bit... Maybe I'll blog about this so I don't have a preset topic... Maybe I'll... I digress. |
| Jesse Lacey Post Whore  Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 23946  | BelaFarinRod:What if they don't get pregnant intentionally? I have a friend who's a sophomore in high school and she's pregnant. |
| Aylin's Inferno! Geek  Age: 28 Gender: Female Posts: 280 | i dont think girls are growin up too fast...it depend on who u ask and where u ask ... |
| The Rev. King For A Couple Of Days  Age: 28 Gender: Female Posts: 2175 | Most definitely! Physically and mentally i would say. They have the thoughts of adults. Do you think it's normal for 10/11 yr old girls to say tht "they wanna go out" w/ "a hot guy"? |
| Dr.Hymen Geek Age: - Gender: - Posts: 192 | Viva La Marie!: From what I've seen, the want for girls that age to sat hot guys has stemmed from programs such as Hannah Montana, The Olsen Twins and so on. They see the people they idolize crushing on all of these hot boys and thats where it comes from. Of course, this is no reason to further hate on Hannah Montana or The Olsen Twins. |
| girl almighty GSBitch  Age: 35 Gender: Female Posts: 76615 | BelaFarinRod:i think they're to be pitied, to be honest. i think most of them, if you ask, they'll say they want to be loved, or they're lonely, or they want something to look after and a purpose to exist. it sounds really stupid when put flatly like that, but i know quite a few girls who were 15, 16 who said they'd love to have babies. all of them were really low and feeling stuck. so in their heads it was like baby = love = happiness. |
| banquo Geek Age: - Gender: - Posts: 143 | Jesse Lacey: ...i think that if you aren't mature and responsible enough to either get on birth control or buy condoms, you obv aren't mature enough to be having sex at all. there's no excuse to be pregnant, besides maybe rape.... idk. its sad, really sad how early things are happening.... |
| Matt Smith Admin  Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 31134 | west satan somewhere: And one is obviously not mature enough to be a mother, either. west satan somewhere: Failed contraceptives, maybe? |
| banquo Geek Age: - Gender: - Posts: 143 | Bloodraine: haha....i actually have some sympathies there...99.9 percent is what led to my nephew.... i understand the failed contraceptives. i left it out though, because i think that for the most part pregnant teens are the ones who didnt try NOT to be. failed contraceptives, rape, hand of god....extreme circumstances are understandable. in my mind, anyway... |
| norwegian wood. Geek  Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 137 | Teen pregnancy is RIFE at my school. The amount of pregnancies and miscarriages and actual babies is scary. I'm not really sure what's going on. I'm not one to talk about losing your virginity early because mine went at 13/14. It sure as hell didn't help me mature properly - I shouldn't have been having sex then, at all. I understand how and why people lose it so young - you're curious and you want to try it. I was never under peer pressure - out of my friends I was the first to lose it, and even now, some of my friends haven't had sex. It's not a thing in my social circle, but otherwise it's basically who you are. People are sorted into who's had sex and who hasn't. And then further divided into complete sluts or people who've only had sex with their significant others. The list goes on. |
| Tahm York This Board Is My Home Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 31394 | Mark O'Connell:then they shouldn't have sex...! that's pretty simple imo. |
| Tahm York This Board Is My Home Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 31394 | transylvagina:I know, I understand that some of these girls are really lonely and miserable, and that is terrible. but some of them do no better, they just don't care. |
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