Types of love

Is it me or when some people say they love someone its just not convincing. Like some people go out with 500 people a year and say about everyone they went out with that they love them. Do they really feel love or are they just saying it for more and more...?

they usually just say it, i know what you mean when they causally say i love you after a couple of dates and you know they dont mean it. I think they just say it as if its like saying 'hello' or something like that.

Yea, I had a couple like that but now I just don't bother with these people. I love but only ong girl

Yea, I had a couple like that but now I just don't bother with these people. I love but only one girl

2 of my friends are really in love - they're 15 and they were at 14.
It's true a lot of people say "love" when they mean lust though

loving and being in love I find are two different things, and I've never been in love
I really think this would belong in a topic about media influenced behaivoirs...but since we don't have one yet, it's alright

I think they just say it cuz they WANT to think that they do love that person, when they really don't. They know they don't love someone, but are trying to convince themselves that they do.

i think some say this so that they seem grown up....cause lets face it, not too many people are in love at 13

i dont think u should say "i luv u' unless u mean it. ive never said it. i say wuv u or i heart u. (ya i no im weird)

love is a word that is over used by alot of people, but if u find someone u know means it when they say it, u'd be one of the most lucky

greendayracer42:

love is a word that is over used by alot of people, but if u find someone u know means it when they say it, u'd be one of the most lucky

yeah, i guess, i agree with ya

spill_no_sick:

loving and being in love I find are two different things, and I've never been in love
I really think this would belong in a topic about media influenced behaivoirs...but since we don't have one yet, it's alright

make one

i think people say it too much now. younger people think of love differently to older people, and sometimes people mean it in a friendly way, but other times they're like "oh im in love with so and so" then the next day they hate him...that isnt love, that's curiosity

People definately say it too much. I say it to my boyfriend.
It was weird, because I never said it to any of my boyfriends...I thought it was overrated. And he never said it to his previous girlfriend because he hated her...
But on the day after we met, we both kind of blurted it out at the same time and then were all blushing and gibbering incoherently. Love does exist, but people put too much store on it. Just because you date someone is no reason to "love" them.
My boyfriend and I were engaged for a while and have broken up twice (which is why we're no longer engaged but I still wear the necklace he got me. [On Valentine's Day we went out to a movie and then to dinner and at dinner, he gambled at a Keno machine and won $500, only spending $3 of his own. ^^, so he bought me a $200 necklace<3]) but we've never broken up for longer than a half a day...
I think we really have something special that not many people experience. And if they do, even fewer realize it.

SO, KIDDIES. Don't tell someone you love them, unless you're just friends (like I tell my girl friends that I love them<3) or if you really really mean it. If you tell someone you love them and they believe you, it makes it a lot harder when you dumpem.

Akariel:

People definately say it too much. I say it to my boyfriend.
It was weird, because I never said it to any of my boyfriends...I thought it was overrated. And he never said it to his previous girlfriend because he hated her...
But on the day after we met, we both kind of blurted it out at the same time and then were all blushing and gibbering incoherently. Love does exist, but people put too much store on it. Just because you date someone is no reason to "love" them.
My boyfriend and I were engaged for a while and have broken up twice (which is why we're no longer engaged but I still wear the necklace he got me. [On Valentine's Day we went out to a movie and then to dinner and at dinner, he gambled at a Keno machine and won $500, only spending $3 of his own. ^^, so he bought me a $200 necklace<3]) but we've never broken up for longer than a half a day...
I think we really have something special that not many people experience. And if they do, even fewer realize it.

SO, KIDDIES. Don't tell someone you love them, unless you're just friends (like I tell my girl friends that I love them<3) or if you really really mean it. If you tell someone you love them and they believe you, it makes it a lot harder when you dumpem.

That is soooooo long but I understand what your saying.I thought this would of been a stupid topic but well...

I think you can be in love at any age but most people aren't. I hate it when people dismiss it though. Oh no you can't love her you're only 13....I wouldn't say it if I didn't mean it.I think you can love your friends in a friendly way but you're not in love with them, some people just can't tell the difference.

well, i think that under 13, you're a bit young. but i learnt not to put ppl under "labels". so, i guess that when you think you truly luv someone...

Well i agree if your under 13 your a bit young but if someonrs sure they love someone then, in my opinion, it's wrong to deprive them of that love.

Like I said in the other topic, I'm 15 and I BARELY know what it is. I only feel it for my family, freinds, and God. That's it. But I really have not been really loved. Yeah the family, but I rarely say I love you. I just feel funny. May sound weird, but I feel as if I'm lying, when I'm not. When I do say it, I kinda mumble it. But some girls and guys do go out with many people a year and say that they're in love. That's how one of my cousins is. But, eh. I just hope they do find out what love truely is. I want to find out what love TRUELY is myself..... Oh yeah. And I love Green Day but that's another discussion.