Pregnant before marriage

dirtyhippie:

Hey. Hey. Let's get back to the cat!! Aw, cute cute cute.

Anyway, I wouldn't have a kid if I wasn't married to someone, but I don't want a kid anyway...so I really have no reason to post here.

youre also male and cant be pregnant, married or not.

no, it's not horrible, it'll most prolly happen to me seeing as getting married... -shudders-
but i still think you should hold off because a child deserves a proper family that's together

I havent knocked up my fiance
yet
i dont want kids for another ten years
i dont have a problem with people who have kids before marriage at all
im a bastard kid myself

I don't have any problem with it; I was born a few months before my parents got married.

I honestly don't see what the problem with it is. As long as the parents are together, and stable, and ready, then it's pretty much the same as being married from the kid's point of view.
I mean, some people don't believe in marriage, and don't want to get married. Should they not be able to have kids, ever?

I dont even see the point in marriage anyway,
Half the time the parents end up
splittin up so then that disrupts the child in a way.
So you might as well go without children or without marriage..
Personal i could go without both..

I think it doesn't matter as long as the child has a loving family. I got pregnant very young and the father was a violent schizophrenic. I got a restraining order and met a really nice guy who adopted my daughter, she has had the best upbringing. The ex, well he ended up strangling a baby he had with another woman not long afterwards so I had a lucky escape.

purple_princess:

I think it doesn't matter as long as the child has a loving family. I got pregnant very young and the father was a violent schizophrenic. I got a restraining order and met a really nice guy who adopted my daughter, she has had the best upbringing. The ex, well he ended up strangling a baby he had with another woman not long afterwards so I had a lucky escape.

wow
i'm glad you and your daughter got away from him.

Holy Hell, that's a little creepy...glad you got away okay!

Holy CRAP that is insanely creepy and scary.

Glad you got away!

purple_princess:

I think it doesn't matter as long as the child has a loving family. I got pregnant very young and the father was a violent schizophrenic. I got a restraining order and met a really nice guy who adopted my daughter, she has had the best upbringing. The ex, well he ended up strangling a baby he had with another woman not long afterwards so I had a lucky escape.

shit O_o

i think iz wrong.... u shouldn't have sex befor ur married anyways....so if u have sex w/ some jackass u won't have to have his baby.....but if u really like the guy or girl and wanna have sex w/ them GET MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!! DUHHHHHHHHHH!!!! gezz u guys r really impatited

missgreenday:

i think iz wrong.... u shouldn't have sex befor ur married anyways....so if u have sex w/ some jackass u won't have to have his baby.....but if u really like the guy or girl and wanna have sex w/ them GET MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!! DUHHHHHHHHHH!!!! gezz u guys r really impatited

well..."liking" someone and loving them enough to spend the rest of your life with them are two different things. cuz the thing is, wanting to have sex with someone is a really BAD reason to marry them.

tre is king:

*not trying to offend anybody*

do you think getting pregnant before you are amrried is wrong ..if so any exceptions ???

what do you think ....

no not unless you love the person and are going to marry them and be with them. well except my parents. they got divorced. so i dunno :S

I don't think it's wrong.

EXCEPT if they weren't planning on getting married it's like:
"Oh, I knocked her up, now we've gotta get married."

September_has_Ended:

I don't think it's wrong.

EXCEPT if they weren't planning on getting married it's like:
"Oh, I knocked her up, now we've gotta get married."

I don't see the point in unprotected sex (or any sex) unless you plan to be with them a while
if you're at a party planning a one night stand at least bring some condoms

even though it is equally the father and mother's fault (mainly the fathers) they should both have to take care of the baby
it should be made a law (well...a stronger one)

I believe people should have sex whenever they want to be honest, as long as they used protection obviously. I see sex as something which should be done for fun, not a sin or anything. Whethe ryou plan to be with them for a long time or not, it's still fun. And yes, I'm still a virgin, and I'm quite happy like this, but I don't have a problem with...horny people shall we call them

spill_no_sick:

even though it is equally the father and mother's fault (mainly the fathers) they should both have to take care of the baby
it should be made a law (well...a stronger one)

I like your logic...

missgreenday:

i think iz wrong.... u shouldn't have sex befor ur married anyways....so if u have sex w/ some jackass u won't have to have his baby.....but if u really like the guy or girl and wanna have sex w/ them GET MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!! DUHHHHHHHHHH!!!! gezz u guys r really impatited

I dont think its a case of imaptience. There are many reasons people dont get married (cost, for one). And pre-marital sex is absolutely fine in my opinion, the same with having a baby out of wedlock. The stability and love of the relationship is all that matters. Marriage is by no means a sign of stable and loving parents either.

spill_no_sick:

September_has_Ended:

I don't think it's wrong.

EXCEPT if they weren't planning on getting married it's like:
"Oh, I knocked her up, now we've gotta get married."

I don't see the point in unprotected sex (or any sex) unless you plan to be with them a while
if you're at a party planning a one night stand at least bring some condoms

even though it is equally the father and mother's fault (mainly the fathers) they should both have to take care of the baby
it should be made a law (well...a stronger one)

Either that or have some of them spayed and nutered.

Or if they aren't willing to g that far, a visectimy for men and tube tying for women should do the trick.

spill_no_sick:

September_has_Ended:

I don't think it's wrong.

EXCEPT if they weren't planning on getting married it's like:
"Oh, I knocked her up, now we've gotta get married."

I don't see the point in unprotected sex (or any sex) unless you plan to be with them a while
if you're at a party planning a one night stand at least bring some condoms

even though it is equally the father and mother's fault (mainly the fathers) they should both have to take care of the baby
it should be made a law (well...a stronger one)

Dream on, dream on....