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Lucifers Angel
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June 15th, 2006 at 11:19am
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there is nothing wrong having a drink its when thats all you want to do it becomes a problem.
It doesnt have to be all you want to do, what about Binge drinkers? Or closet Alcoholics?


your talking about the people who will hide bottles around the house
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June 15th, 2006 at 11:20am
I...nvm...

I can't really say much cuz my uncle's an alcoholic.
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June 15th, 2006 at 11:24am
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there is nothing wrong having a drink its when thats all you want to do it becomes a problem.
It doesnt have to be all you want to do, what about Binge drinkers? Or closet Alcoholics?


your talking about the people who will hide bottles around the house
Well, closet alcoholics just don't drink in public. Binge drinkers consume alot of alcohol in a short amount of time, they may not even drink everyday, but they do it often enough to were it becomes a major health issue. Kind of like a Binge Eating disorder, only with alcohol instead of food.
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June 15th, 2006 at 11:25am
i_luff_mike_dirnt:
I...nvm...

I can't really say much cuz my uncle's an alcoholic.
Why couldnt you say much? You have a first hand experience and I'm sure you would have a valuable opinion on Alcoholism.
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June 15th, 2006 at 11:28am
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I...nvm...

I can't really say much cuz my uncle's an alcoholic.
Why couldnt you say much? You have a first hand experience and I'm sure you would have a valuable opinion on Alcoholism.


because I feel like if I say something, I'm offending him and my uncle was like a second father to me when I was little. What I really wanna say is that there are other ways of dealing with your problems. In our family, I have SEVEN uncles & aunts. That's plenty of counseling right there. I mean, if your family can't help you then who can? Drinking isn't going to solve anything.

...there. I said it. You happy now?
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June 15th, 2006 at 11:29am
i_luff_mike_dirnt:
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i_luff_mike_dirnt:
I...nvm...

I can't really say much cuz my uncle's an alcoholic.
Why couldnt you say much? You have a first hand experience and I'm sure you would have a valuable opinion on Alcoholism.


because I feel like if I say something, I'm offending him and my uncle was like a second father to me when I was little. What I really wanna say is that there are other ways of dealing with your problems. In our family, I have SEVEN uncles & aunts. That's plenty of counseling right there. I mean, if your family can't help you then who can? Drinking isn't going to solve anything.

...there. I said it. You happy now?
Ok, this is a debate forum, if you didnt want to give your opinion, you shouldnt have posted. Everything you said was true. It isnt your fault your uncle developed an alcohol addiction, and it isnt that simple to get rid of. Has he tried rehab?
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June 15th, 2006 at 11:31am
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i_luff_mike_dirnt:
I_worship_tre_Cool:
i_luff_mike_dirnt:
I...nvm...

I can't really say much cuz my uncle's an alcoholic.
Why couldnt you say much? You have a first hand experience and I'm sure you would have a valuable opinion on Alcoholism.


because I feel like if I say something, I'm offending him and my uncle was like a second father to me when I was little. What I really wanna say is that there are other ways of dealing with your problems. In our family, I have SEVEN uncles & aunts. That's plenty of counseling right there. I mean, if your family can't help you then who can? Drinking isn't going to solve anything.

...there. I said it. You happy now?
Ok, this is a debate forum, if you didnt want to give your opinion, you shouldnt have posted. Everything you said was true. It isnt your fault your uncle developed an alcohol addiction, and it isnt that simple to get rid of. Has he tried rehab?


no, he doesn't want to. he keeps saying he "can quit on his own, whenever he wants" which isn't true. once you're addicted, you're addicted. there's no getting out of it on your own.
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June 15th, 2006 at 11:32am
i_luff_mike_dirnt:
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i_luff_mike_dirnt:
I_worship_tre_Cool:
i_luff_mike_dirnt:
I...nvm...

I can't really say much cuz my uncle's an alcoholic.
Why couldnt you say much? You have a first hand experience and I'm sure you would have a valuable opinion on Alcoholism.


because I feel like if I say something, I'm offending him and my uncle was like a second father to me when I was little. What I really wanna say is that there are other ways of dealing with your problems. In our family, I have SEVEN uncles & aunts. That's plenty of counseling right there. I mean, if your family can't help you then who can? Drinking isn't going to solve anything.

...there. I said it. You happy now?
Ok, this is a debate forum, if you didnt want to give your opinion, you shouldnt have posted. Everything you said was true. It isnt your fault your uncle developed an alcohol addiction, and it isnt that simple to get rid of. Has he tried rehab?


no, he doesn't want to. he keeps saying he "can quit on his own, whenever he wants" which isn't true. once you're addicted, you're addicted. there's no getting out of it [b]on your own.
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agreed!
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June 15th, 2006 at 12:12pm
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We should get pissed and have a party!
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there is nothing wrong having a drink its when thats all you want to do it becomes a problem.
It doesnt have to be all you want to do, what about Binge drinkers? Or closet Alcoholics?


your talking about the people who will hide bottles around the house
Well, closet alcoholics just don't drink in public. Binge drinkers consume alot of alcohol in a short amount of time, they may not even drink everyday, but they do it often enough to were it becomes a major health issue. Kind of like a Binge Eating disorder, only with alcohol instead of food.


so say people get drunk every weekend, like absolutley smashed at parties does that make them Alco's? cos i get drunk most w/e or whenever im at a party really and i dont need alcohol. I could live without alcohol.
Like I said, no two alcoholics are alike.How you expect me to judge someone over the internet is beyond me. I don't think you get binge drinking.

If they get absolutely smashed every weekend, thats unhealthy and I hope they want all the liver problems later in life Wink
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June 15th, 2006 at 12:14pm
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Magne:
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We should get pissed and have a party!
You shouldnt spam and only post if you have a valid contribution to make Wink


there is nothing wrong having a drink its when thats all you want to do it becomes a problem.
It doesnt have to be all you want to do, what about Binge drinkers? Or closet Alcoholics?


your talking about the people who will hide bottles around the house
Well, closet alcoholics just don't drink in public. Binge drinkers consume alot of alcohol in a short amount of time, they may not even drink everyday, but they do it often enough to were it becomes a major health issue. Kind of like a Binge Eating disorder, only with alcohol instead of food.


so say people get drunk every weekend, like absolutley smashed at parties does that make them Alco's? cos i get drunk most w/e or whenever im at a party really and i dont need alcohol. I could live without alcohol.
Like I said, no two alcoholics are alike.How you expect me to judge someone over the internet is beyond me. I don't think you get binge drinking.

If they get absolutely smashed every weekend, thats unhealthy and I hope they want all the liver problems later in life Wink


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June 15th, 2006 at 12:19pm
it doesnt matter how you judge them, they are still going to have liver problems if they drink that much.
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June 15th, 2006 at 12:29pm
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it doesnt matter how you judge them, they are still going to have liver problems if they drink that much.


yep true.

(see we can agree on some things) LOL
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June 15th, 2006 at 12:52pm
Magne:
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it doesnt matter how you judge them, they are still going to have liver problems if they drink that much.


yep true.

(see we can agree on some things) LOL
lmfao Thats a first
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June 15th, 2006 at 01:03pm
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it doesnt matter how you judge them, they are still going to have liver problems if they drink that much.


yep true.

(see we can agree on some things) LOL
lmfao Thats a first


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June 15th, 2006 at 01:34pm
Yo!!! dude's you all need to chill down!! I drink, im fine,
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June 15th, 2006 at 01:38pm
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Yo!!! dude's you all need to chill down!! I drink, im fine,
There is a GIGANTIC difference between Drinking and Alcoholism. Alcoholics suffer from a chronic drinking disorder forcing them to drink, they have been sucked into believing they need alcohol. It's addictive and a health hazzard. It destroys their liver and if to much is consumed you can recieve Alcohol posioning, with is a major problem with Binge Drinkers. What about People who drink and Drive? Should we just chill out while they kill people?
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June 15th, 2006 at 01:56pm
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Yo!!! dude's you all need to chill down!! I drink, im fine,


having a glass or wine or lager with a meal (lager if you want to spoil a meal) is fine, but its not for me, some people will say "just the one" and then go on to have 4 or 6 glass and not be able to stop.
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June 16th, 2006 at 09:25am
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Yo!!! dude's you all need to chill down!! I drink, im fine,


having a glass or wine or lager with a meal (lager if you want to spoil a meal) is fine, but its not for me, some people will say "just the one" and then go on to have 4 or 6 glass and not be able to stop.


then its a self control problem, you choose to over drink, there are many sources of help you can reach out too. If you dont then i hate to be brutal but you live with the consequences.


its not has black and white has that though.


Well there are always circumstances, that dont make it so 'black and white' however, it really does boil down to self control. Its a choice to lift the glass to your mouth and drink. If you know you are prone ot abuse with drugs/drinking then stay away from it.
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June 16th, 2006 at 10:40am
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Yo!!! dude's you all need to chill down!! I drink, im fine,


having a glass or wine or lager with a meal (lager if you want to spoil a meal) is fine, but its not for me, some people will say "just the one" and then go on to have 4 or 6 glass and not be able to stop.


then its a self control problem, you choose to over drink, there are many sources of help you can reach out too. If you dont then i hate to be brutal but you live with the consequences.


its not has black and white has that though.


Well there are always circumstances, that dont make it so 'black and white' however, it really does boil down to self control. Its a choice to lift the glass to your mouth and drink. If you know you are prone ot abuse with drugs/drinking then stay away from it.


to a certain degree i agree with you, some people have addictive personalities
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June 16th, 2006 at 11:50am
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Magne:
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Magne:
RAGE N KEGS:
Yo!!! dude's you all need to chill down!! I drink, im fine,


having a glass or wine or lager with a meal (lager if you want to spoil a meal) is fine, but its not for me, some people will say "just the one" and then go on to have 4 or 6 glass and not be able to stop.


then its a self control problem, you choose to over drink, there are many sources of help you can reach out too. If you dont then i hate to be brutal but you live with the consequences.


its not has black and white has that though.


Well there are always circumstances, that dont make it so 'black and white' however, it really does boil down to self control. Its a choice to lift the glass to your mouth and drink. If you know you are prone ot abuse with drugs/drinking then stay away from it.
It isn't self control, they can't help it. Telling an alcoholic to control their drinking by themselves is like asking a scitzophrenic person to control their personalities, it isn't that simple, maybe you're the one who shouldnt make it so black and white Wink
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