Teenage Sex - A Rant.
Wow, where do I even start with this rant? First off, teenage girls should NOT be having sex in the first place. Why? Because, number one, guys at this age are freaking moronic. No joke. Honest to God, these teenage boys have one thing and ONLY one thing on their minds: SEX. This usually gets worse over the years, but I will keep my rant contained to the teenage years.
Usually, when a guy becomes a teenager, he will get to know about the, let’s say, equipment God ever so kindly blessed him with. Well, seeing as this dude is, well, a dude, he sees the need to talk about it 24/7, and to use this “equipment” every chance he gets. He decides that he can’t keep his ORGANS to HIMSELF and so he goes out and BEGS his girlfriend for sex. He’ll even threaten to break up with her if she doesn’t have sex with him. So, of course, many girls at this age are TERRIFIED to lose a boyfriend because, well, that’s the WORST PAIN EVER. </sarcasm> So, the girl will sleep with the guy and will not use protection.
Now, these teenagers that use protection, they’re somewhat better, but I still think they’re dumbasses that need to kick up the wisdom and knock out the hormones. Sure, protection will, well, protect you from getting pregnant and catching God-awful diseases, but still yet, I don’t believe teenagers are developed enough mentally to go out and have sex for the first time. Your first time is your own decision, but a word of advice: don’t have sex for the first time until you are fully developed physically AND mentally, have found a guy that will treat you right, and are aware that there is a slim chance that you could, in fact, become pregnant.
Now, in closing this terribly long rant, I would like to say that if you just happen to be a teenage girl who just happens to have a boyfriend that is harassing you about having sex and is threatening to break up with you if you don’t sleep with him, let the bastard go. If he loves you that much, he should be willing to wait until you are comfortable. He should be willing to put your happiness before his hormones and “urges.”
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Usually, when a guy becomes a teenager, he will get to know about the, let’s say, equipment God ever so kindly blessed him with. Well, seeing as this dude is, well, a dude, he sees the need to talk about it 24/7, and to use this “equipment” every chance he gets. He decides that he can’t keep his ORGANS to HIMSELF and so he goes out and BEGS his girlfriend for sex. He’ll even threaten to break up with her if she doesn’t have sex with him. So, of course, many girls at this age are TERRIFIED to lose a boyfriend because, well, that’s the WORST PAIN EVER. </sarcasm> So, the girl will sleep with the guy and will not use protection.
Now, these teenagers that use protection, they’re somewhat better, but I still think they’re dumbasses that need to kick up the wisdom and knock out the hormones. Sure, protection will, well, protect you from getting pregnant and catching God-awful diseases, but still yet, I don’t believe teenagers are developed enough mentally to go out and have sex for the first time. Your first time is your own decision, but a word of advice: don’t have sex for the first time until you are fully developed physically AND mentally, have found a guy that will treat you right, and are aware that there is a slim chance that you could, in fact, become pregnant.
Now, in closing this terribly long rant, I would like to say that if you just happen to be a teenage girl who just happens to have a boyfriend that is harassing you about having sex and is threatening to break up with you if you don’t sleep with him, let the bastard go. If he loves you that much, he should be willing to wait until you are comfortable. He should be willing to put your happiness before his hormones and “urges.”
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True, but most guys are like that at this age. It's called hormones. Some guys are affected by them in this manner, some aren't.
Letterbombx723, June 6th, 2007 at 11:35:32am
Mhm yeah, I don't like your generalizing. You know not ALL boys are like that.
rollerpig, June 6th, 2007 at 11:24:18am
Thank you for all of the nice comments, everyone. I appreciate them. :D
Letterbombx723, June 6th, 2007 at 11:08:54am
Rachie, I'm proud of you for writing this blog. Very well written, true and good advice at the end. <two bigass thumbs up>
greenday1386, June 6th, 2007 at 10:32:18am
thumbs up
Love, June 6th, 2007 at 09:24:30am
I agree.
To a certain extent.
I just think.
It's when your ready.
And as long as it's safe.
germma margaret!, June 6th, 2007 at 06:40:50am
cool blog!
I bet my boyfriend wants sex, but he's all like: "I am not going to beg you or push you to have sex with me. I don't want to if you are not ready."
and yes..yes, he's a great guy!!!
=]
The point in this is that some guys are cool with it. And they are not like: "I WANNA f*ck YOU. YOU HAVE SEX WITH ME OR WE BREAK UP"
brompton cocktail., June 6th, 2007 at 05:29:11am
its good... but i have to say i was only 15... and he didnt be all begging me and threatening to break up with me.
thats happened to me before and i dumped the guy who was like that.
TBH some guys are really great. id tell you all about how great they are... but i cba right now.
Lyddy r teh Snaily, June 6th, 2007 at 04:01:52am
ahhhhhhhhh awesome blog!!!!
it should be longer!!
OMG A SEQUEL!!! XD
=DDDDDDDD
hollywood tragedy., June 6th, 2007 at 01:53:48am
bloody great blog!
Vegemite, June 6th, 2007 at 01:34:21am
THANK YOU. I completely agree.
I would lengthen this rant if I were you.
davey jones., June 6th, 2007 at 01:14:53am
It's true, hormones speak for half the guys around.
That's why i'm glad to have the boyfriend i have.
Stef., June 6th, 2007 at 01:05:16am