My friend....
I need some serious help on something that's been bothering me for a long long time and nobody seems to be helping in at my school with this, not even counselors, or teachers.
My friend, we'll call her Courtney. Courtney is mad at me for yelling at her, that I can understand but she always always complains about stuff not worth complaining about, and the fact she could fix what she is complaining very simply is getting me annoyed to no end. For example, we were at lunch and people kept offering her food but she's like 'no I don't need food, I'm fine, I had a huge breakfast.' This is normal for Courtney, she's a twig. But later she starts making a big scene about how hungry she is. This annoys me.
She's very jealous. If I don't pay attention to her 25/7, she gets on my case how I'm not a good friend and shouldn't even be talking to her. But whenever I do want to talk to her she's always distracted by people who have food or cigarettes.
Another thing, she keeps getting on my case because I'm a good student. How I'm such a nerd and how I need to 'rebel' against the "man." You see, I get along with adults, I hold good conversations with them because oftentimes they are the only mature ones in the entire classroom and they find me mature. That doesn't mean I'm a teacher's pet and if it does then whatever ok? I'll be a teacher's pet. Then when I tell her how it hurts (usually by yelling because she can't get it straight if I just tell it to her) she gets all "how she was just joking", I ask her to stop, she says ok. Next day it's the very same thing.
The last thing but it always annoys me the most. I'm a Christian, she's a self proclaimed Satanist. I think this is a big steaming load of nonsense. She doesn't go to any rituals and if she saw how sick they were, she'd throw up. At least I chose under my own right to become Christian, because I've seen satanists rituals, my friend took me. She chooses satanism because it's the ultimate sign of "rebellion" and how it keeps people away from her.
Now the real question is this. Am I just overreacting? Or should I just stay away from 'Courtney?'
I don't mean to be complaining but reading all of this, would you want a friend like this?
My friend, we'll call her Courtney. Courtney is mad at me for yelling at her, that I can understand but she always always complains about stuff not worth complaining about, and the fact she could fix what she is complaining very simply is getting me annoyed to no end. For example, we were at lunch and people kept offering her food but she's like 'no I don't need food, I'm fine, I had a huge breakfast.' This is normal for Courtney, she's a twig. But later she starts making a big scene about how hungry she is. This annoys me.
She's very jealous. If I don't pay attention to her 25/7, she gets on my case how I'm not a good friend and shouldn't even be talking to her. But whenever I do want to talk to her she's always distracted by people who have food or cigarettes.
Another thing, she keeps getting on my case because I'm a good student. How I'm such a nerd and how I need to 'rebel' against the "man." You see, I get along with adults, I hold good conversations with them because oftentimes they are the only mature ones in the entire classroom and they find me mature. That doesn't mean I'm a teacher's pet and if it does then whatever ok? I'll be a teacher's pet. Then when I tell her how it hurts (usually by yelling because she can't get it straight if I just tell it to her) she gets all "how she was just joking", I ask her to stop, she says ok. Next day it's the very same thing.
The last thing but it always annoys me the most. I'm a Christian, she's a self proclaimed Satanist. I think this is a big steaming load of nonsense. She doesn't go to any rituals and if she saw how sick they were, she'd throw up. At least I chose under my own right to become Christian, because I've seen satanists rituals, my friend took me. She chooses satanism because it's the ultimate sign of "rebellion" and how it keeps people away from her.
Now the real question is this. Am I just overreacting? Or should I just stay away from 'Courtney?'
I don't mean to be complaining but reading all of this, would you want a friend like this?
Ok, well this 'Courtney' person is suck a b*tch, you are so not over reacting and I think you should stay away from her, if you have other friends who are BETTER go hang out with them, or even if it's better then being with her, stay by your self, I know it's hard but I do hang by myself at school to. I think she is trying to be someone she is definetly NOT, If she keeps going on about being a rebel, thats because she most likely dosn't like whio she is and wants to be like someone she knows, maybe even like you! And about your good grads, f*ck her If she doesn't get good grads she should you and f*ck herself it's her fault (if thats the case) andf i think she makes fun and pisses you off and annoys you BECAUSE she wants to be like you, BECAUSE she's jealous.
Like I said if it's better to be alone then with her thats what i would pick. Oh and one more thing, I love talking to teachers and adults, there so much more fun then some kids!! Don't worry about it!
TessicaT.Kirk, February 29th, 2008 at 09:56:33am
You really don't need a friend like that, sry2say.
brompton cocktail., February 29th, 2008 at 08:10:05am
Well she does like to be queen bee doesn't she. Personally I can't stay around people like that, it isn't what friendship is all about. She has a lot of growing up to do.
It's sad that she wants to rebel and to drag you into it. Do not sacrifice your grades for her. And to be honest if she says she will stop but continues anyway then she doesn't respect your feelings or opinions. I think you have outgrown this friendship.
Grandma, February 29th, 2008 at 02:58:52am
I personally wouldn't be friends with her.
Hey, she'll grow up, hopefully.
ZootSuitRiot, February 29th, 2008 at 01:39:41am
Pfft, I'd dump her in the gutter.
O___O
Kay, that was a little harsh, I'm sorry.
*isn't helping too much*
captain america, February 28th, 2008 at 08:55:00pm
by the way, I meant to say "down" not "don't" *sweatdrop*
Ritsuka, February 28th, 2008 at 08:43:42pm
Yeah, I'm agreeing with Ritsuka. You don't need a friend like that. rebellion isn't cool if it gets you damned for all eternity quite frankly. And I get what you're saying about the complaining thing, this girl in my class does it all the time. It might be best for you do get rid of that problem, if she's just making you angrey.
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Tyler Durden, February 28th, 2008 at 08:39:12pm
In my honest opinion, I don't think you should be friends with her. She sounds like she is seriously bringing you don't and nobody deserves to be treated like that, especially a good person. Which sounds like what you are, a good person :]
Ritsuka, February 28th, 2008 at 08:36:33pm
you dont need a friend like that
seems like a total a$
Blarg!, February 28th, 2008 at 08:34:40pm