Duh I'm Not Hot
So I was in school today, whoo big change right? Well I'm coming back from Zoology and I was talking to my friend and I said "why are you so freaking tall!?" I was joking, she's about 5'11, it's crazy haha.
And this guy has the audacity to say "why are you so round?" Haha I know right? This continued on until finally I went down the stairs, I only have a few questions.
Did he expect me to say something to him? Like... I don't know, for me to get really ticked off or scream or cuss? Did it ever occur that for the first, oh I don't know, 14 years of my life I've been called ugly to my face and behind my back?
And another thing, did he think that I cared? What is this guy to me? Honestly...
If I had friends based on my vanity and my appearance, well, in all honesty I'd have no friends. Those are the good people that don't look at appearances first and personality (or lack there of) last.
And I only have one thing to say to this kid, DUH! I'm not hot!
I'm perfectly happy with my life, I have wonderful friends, people that love me for who I am and not what I look like, wonderful family, good home, NO personal issues right now, all around I have a great life, what's one comment going to say to me.
But I do know that people care a lot about what they look like, and how people see them, and if I wasn't any other person, and if I didn't have such good friends and so many people that love me, I'd probably be in my bed crying about how to change my looks.
And there's this guy, and he loves me a lot. He's my everything, and I'm his. I don't know what I'd do without him and he thinks I'm great, so why should I listen to you?
Honestly people, who cares about those people? I'm a healthy person, I'm just stout and yeah, so what? I'm "round." Who cares? Well... apparently only that kid does.
Take one step back and look at your life if someone says that to you and think "what do they mean to me? What does their opinion matter?"
Don't let the negative take over the positive, what's the point? It only gets you depressed and everybody else worried about you.
So yeah, just thought you'd like to know my thoughts on that.
And this guy has the audacity to say "why are you so round?" Haha I know right? This continued on until finally I went down the stairs, I only have a few questions.
Did he expect me to say something to him? Like... I don't know, for me to get really ticked off or scream or cuss? Did it ever occur that for the first, oh I don't know, 14 years of my life I've been called ugly to my face and behind my back?
And another thing, did he think that I cared? What is this guy to me? Honestly...
If I had friends based on my vanity and my appearance, well, in all honesty I'd have no friends. Those are the good people that don't look at appearances first and personality (or lack there of) last.
And I only have one thing to say to this kid, DUH! I'm not hot!
I'm perfectly happy with my life, I have wonderful friends, people that love me for who I am and not what I look like, wonderful family, good home, NO personal issues right now, all around I have a great life, what's one comment going to say to me.
But I do know that people care a lot about what they look like, and how people see them, and if I wasn't any other person, and if I didn't have such good friends and so many people that love me, I'd probably be in my bed crying about how to change my looks.
And there's this guy, and he loves me a lot. He's my everything, and I'm his. I don't know what I'd do without him and he thinks I'm great, so why should I listen to you?
Honestly people, who cares about those people? I'm a healthy person, I'm just stout and yeah, so what? I'm "round." Who cares? Well... apparently only that kid does.
Take one step back and look at your life if someone says that to you and think "what do they mean to me? What does their opinion matter?"
Don't let the negative take over the positive, what's the point? It only gets you depressed and everybody else worried about you.
So yeah, just thought you'd like to know my thoughts on that.
I don't love my appearence, few people do, but most people should.
I mean, someone could be called pretty 1000 times but if just once they're called ugly, it's like their whole world comes crashing down.
In every era women are supposed to look a certain way, when I go to the art gallery alot of the paintings are of these pale, fair-haired "soft" women.
Who gives a sh*t if you're too "round"? Who cares if your 7'9? There's always someone wishing they had your nose, your legs.
germma margaret!, November 30th, 2008 at 07:17:20am
You are beautiful, sis. xD
seriously beautiful.
&no I am not saying this in order to be nice to you or anything.
I really believe you're beautiful.
& on the subject of your blog, my clothes and my appearance put the 'mental' in 'experimental'. People make fun of that because they think I care. But I don't. I am a weirdo. I like weirdos. Weirdos are cool. I am a bit 'round' too or whatever. But I love it, most of the time. :D
brompton cocktail., November 30th, 2008 at 05:39:17am
Very nice blog ! I like the message you give. Well done for not getting worked over a silly little comment like that. Most would be all "OmGzzzZzZ, MY FEEELINGS ARE HURT! wa wa wa, I'm ugleee, evr1 h8tz meeee" -.-
But I love my appearence. I'm vain. I like to look good, it gives me major confidence. I have a routine everyday and every week for taking care of my skin, hair, teeth, hands and they works.
:D
Dr.Hymen, November 29th, 2008 at 06:01:10pm
Now if she does it like this, will you do it like that?
Now if she touches like this, will you touch her right back?
Now if she moves like this, will you move it like that?
tis awesomee.
and your BEAUTIFUL.
joel, November 29th, 2008 at 06:00:40pm