something i've been thinking about,
i'm not sure that this is blog material,
because it's kinda short.
but it's super important to me,
and i really want your opinions on it.
so here goes;
two years ago, i discovered i was bi.
it was really kind of dumb for a while.
i was with a girl, then a guy, then a girl, then a guy.
what i've realized was though,
my relationships with guys never lasted long at all.
maybe 2 to 3 weeks at best.
the ones with girls, lasted months, except for one that well just kinda sucked.
now i have found the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with.
already, me and her have been through the best and the worst,
and we've made it through, our love growing stronger each day.
we've made commitments to each other, we've changed for each other,
and i'm sure she's my soulmate, we both want this forever.
i've got only eyes for her, i see no one else the way i see her.
so here's the question:
should i still say that i'm bi, or say i'm lesbian?
because i want her always.
no more "him's" for me.
i know this positively.
because it's kinda short.
but it's super important to me,
and i really want your opinions on it.
so here goes;
two years ago, i discovered i was bi.
it was really kind of dumb for a while.
i was with a girl, then a guy, then a girl, then a guy.
what i've realized was though,
my relationships with guys never lasted long at all.
maybe 2 to 3 weeks at best.
the ones with girls, lasted months, except for one that well just kinda sucked.
now i have found the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with.
already, me and her have been through the best and the worst,
and we've made it through, our love growing stronger each day.
we've made commitments to each other, we've changed for each other,
and i'm sure she's my soulmate, we both want this forever.
i've got only eyes for her, i see no one else the way i see her.
so here's the question:
should i still say that i'm bi, or say i'm lesbian?
because i want her always.
no more "him's" for me.
i know this positively.
aww gosh thank you so much,
that made me smile really huge :) :)
dancepaigeydance;, December 14th, 2008 at 09:17:34pm
it's your choice what you want to call yourself and what you want people to know you as. It's your life, and your choice.
I'm so happy for you and your girlfriend though. I wish you both a lifetime of happiness :]
Bubble Wrap., December 14th, 2008 at 06:32:41pm
yeah i still think guys are attractive,
but i don't want to be with one.
i just can't picture that, like ever.
:/
dancepaigeydance;, December 14th, 2008 at 01:57:37pm
I've noticed this too tbh :o
like ever since you've announced you were bi you've only been with like..two or three guys but you've been with like four girls.
but idk.
if you still kinda like guys, as in are attracted to them like dave from bc, then you're still bi :]
hollywood tragedy., December 14th, 2008 at 10:32:16am
haha. im jesus alright ;P
princess consuela, December 14th, 2008 at 04:43:13am
aw thanks guys,
i'll really keep that in mind.
i guess i'll just find out if this can really last forever.
i'd love for it to, that's all i ever want,
but yeah i do need to remember things can always change.
and lolol i totally thought they were talking about the real jesus christ too!
xDD
dancepaigeydance;, December 13th, 2008 at 01:53:06pm
i agree with everyone ,
keep your options open.
cause things do change in the future.
sorry i had to add this,
but when i was reading everyone elses comments,
i thought they actually meant the real Jesus Christ,
then i saw that person's username,
and it all made sense.
XD
garrett nickelsen., December 13th, 2008 at 12:15:20pm
i honestly think that there is no such thing as bisexuality. i mean, yes, it does exist, but i think it's just a confused state- you're still questioning and i mean, it does take a while to come out. a few of my friends are bisexual, and they've had boyfriends, then girlfriends, then boyfriends, kind of like you, and i just think that they kind of need to make up their mind because you either fully like guy, or you fully like girls. but yeah, keep your options open, you may be in love with this girl today, but you never know what the future has for you.
(if that made no sense, it's okay 8D)
JEW., December 13th, 2008 at 06:48:34am
i believe you should be whatever you feel like. again, as jesus christ says, things might change in the future.
get famous, December 13th, 2008 at 05:35:57am
I suppose you could. But just like Jesus Christ said, things could change in the future, even if you are so sure of this girl.
Skippy., December 13th, 2008 at 05:27:38am
Keep your options open. You never what's going to happen in the future. The rest of your life is (hopefully) a very long time.
Good luck either way. xx
EVHargreaves, December 13th, 2008 at 05:27:35am
well are you still sexually attracted to men?
i guess that's the only question. if yes then you are not a lesbian.
besides, whatever you say now, things might still change. you're very young to decide from the rest of your life.
princess consuela, December 13th, 2008 at 05:24:17am