Whatever Happened To Not Caring?
Why do we, girls I mean, have to look perfect? We spend so much time making ourselves look beautiful. For what? So all the guys can stare at us and say we look 'hot'?We wear tons of makeup: eyeliner, mascara, eyshadow, foundation, blush, lip gloss, lipstick, toner, and who knows what else. Why? Why do we spend so much time trying to look like models? Is it so people will say we are pretty? Is it to impress that certain guy?
And our clothes, we always have to have a perfectly coordinated outfit, everything has to match, and it has to look good on us. We spend tons of money on clothing and accessories alone. We have to buy that one skirt, or that one shirt. Frankly, I don't get it.
We spend all this time on ourselves, but why? That guy usually isn't going to notice, unless you're dressed like a slut. Whatever happened to not caring if your hair is not perfect, or if your outfit is slightly uncoordinated, or if you aren't wearing any makeup? Isn't it what's underneath that really counts? And no, I'm not talking about our bodies, I'm talking about our personalities. Why do we need to look like a whore or a Barbie doll to get a guy's attention? Why can't we just be us, without the cakes of makeup, we're still beautiful. Even if you hate the way you look, and everyone else does, we shouldn't have to cover it all up in expensive clothes, and high-priced cosmetics, because we have our personalities. So many people have such great personalities, but instead they are so focused on what they look like, they forget. You can say you don't agree, but that's just my opinion.
And our clothes, we always have to have a perfectly coordinated outfit, everything has to match, and it has to look good on us. We spend tons of money on clothing and accessories alone. We have to buy that one skirt, or that one shirt. Frankly, I don't get it.
We spend all this time on ourselves, but why? That guy usually isn't going to notice, unless you're dressed like a slut. Whatever happened to not caring if your hair is not perfect, or if your outfit is slightly uncoordinated, or if you aren't wearing any makeup? Isn't it what's underneath that really counts? And no, I'm not talking about our bodies, I'm talking about our personalities. Why do we need to look like a whore or a Barbie doll to get a guy's attention? Why can't we just be us, without the cakes of makeup, we're still beautiful. Even if you hate the way you look, and everyone else does, we shouldn't have to cover it all up in expensive clothes, and high-priced cosmetics, because we have our personalities. So many people have such great personalities, but instead they are so focused on what they look like, they forget. You can say you don't agree, but that's just my opinion.
If wearing makeup and looking pretty is important to people let them do it. It just goes to far sometimes. Also a lot of people are going to judge you on how you look more than how you act.
BREASTS, March 11th, 2007 at 09:10:04pm
Why do some people play music? Why do some people paint? Why do some people play sports? They don't have to, but they want to. I like make up, I enjoy clothes, that doesn't mean I'm not being myself. That is me.
Kurtni, March 10th, 2007 at 12:42:30am
I don't care that much... I certantly don't follow fashion or bother to use coverup or lipgloss unless I have to.
I dress how I want.
But I have a weakness for eyeliner and black eyeshadow
GreenDayCookieFairy, March 10th, 2007 at 12:28:15am
So true.
I don't know, really. I feel naked without make up. Clothes, I don't care. But without my make up, I feel really uncomfortable and.. blah.
Hello, My Name Is Asshole, March 9th, 2007 at 06:33:03pm
No I totally agree, but that will never happen. There's such a desperate need to fit in, and anyone who says differently is lying. Everyone wants to be accepted. And as sad as it is, dressing like that how most girls find acceptance.
But don't waste your time worrying about guys that are only with the superficial girls who barely wear any clothes, they're not the ones you want anyway.
Rainbows in the Dark, March 9th, 2007 at 06:02:39pm
i totally agree with everything your saying, except i only wear eyeliner ...... oh well.
x-love-vs-hate-x, March 9th, 2007 at 06:02:25pm