Best Friends?
There's this guy named Chris, right? And we've been friends for three years, right? Some big stuff has gone down recently, putting our friendship in danger, but we got over that. So we're still best friends, right...?
A few minutes ago, I called my 'best friend', whom I haven't talked to in weeks because he's been obsessed with his girlfriend. I had just gotten off the phone with my other friend, Josh, who told me something he was suposed to keep to himself;
That Chris and his girl had been playing 'the nervous game' and she basically grabbed his pee-pee, making him really uncomfortable. She came to the conclusion, not publicly, though, that if he was that weirded out maybe they shouldn't be together.
So Chris talked to Josh to get advice, and Josh told him to tell her flat out what was bothering him. And he did. And it made her want to break up with him more. So now he's all worried about that, AND pissed off at Josh.
What makes me think is why he didn't call me. We're best friends. I mean, he always used to talk to me about that stuff. He used to talk to me about everything...
Anywho, when I called him, he just said;
"Hey, some real bullshit is going down...Yeah, can I call you back later?"
As far as he knows, I know nothing, and I was thinking, WTF??? I'M YOUR BEST FRIEND. TALK TO ME, BITCH!
I don't know...I miss having such a strong friendship =[
*This really has no point, it's a rant. Like a real journal entry...I'm just looking for advice, I guess...Maybe I'm overreacting...?
A few minutes ago, I called my 'best friend', whom I haven't talked to in weeks because he's been obsessed with his girlfriend. I had just gotten off the phone with my other friend, Josh, who told me something he was suposed to keep to himself;
That Chris and his girl had been playing 'the nervous game' and she basically grabbed his pee-pee, making him really uncomfortable. She came to the conclusion, not publicly, though, that if he was that weirded out maybe they shouldn't be together.
So Chris talked to Josh to get advice, and Josh told him to tell her flat out what was bothering him. And he did. And it made her want to break up with him more. So now he's all worried about that, AND pissed off at Josh.
What makes me think is why he didn't call me. We're best friends. I mean, he always used to talk to me about that stuff. He used to talk to me about everything...
Anywho, when I called him, he just said;
"Hey, some real bullshit is going down...Yeah, can I call you back later?"
As far as he knows, I know nothing, and I was thinking, WTF??? I'M YOUR BEST FRIEND. TALK TO ME, BITCH!
I don't know...I miss having such a strong friendship =[
*This really has no point, it's a rant. Like a real journal entry...I'm just looking for advice, I guess...Maybe I'm overreacting...?
maybe he wanted some advice with tostesterone on top?
its probably nothing personal...dont worry about it! =)
>>nimrod<<, January 18th, 2007 at 01:48:51am
SODA JACK SLAP!!! MY DANCING PARTNER!!! *dies*
Ive been missing dancing with you! Ima add you to my friends so i don't lose you again XD
mrs_tre_cool_, January 16th, 2007 at 10:26:12pm
maybe he wanted a male figure to talk to...that would have been kindof strange for him if he went to a girl...for advice on his girlfriend. dont feel violated, he'll come around. when everything settles down with his girlfriend maybe you should just talk to him in person and tell him how you felt. It is kinda strange having a best friend as a guy that close...but if he's a real friend he'll listen to you. good luck with whatever you decide.
fresh fruit, January 16th, 2007 at 09:54:34pm
Sometimes its hard having your best friend being a guy. But like what other people on here have said, maybe he needed a guy to talk to about it. It's okay that you'd want him to talk about this to you though.. I know how it feels to know something, they don't know that you know, and never end up going to you for advice when you're supposedly "best friends." Give it some time. When push comes to shove I suggest you talk to him about it.
threeam., January 16th, 2007 at 08:54:01pm
Hahaha xD
December Cynic, January 16th, 2007 at 08:40:29pm
My opinion,I must add,is guys think with their d*cks.
ohmygodshutyourbutt, January 16th, 2007 at 08:39:27pm
But he's talked to me about this kind of stuff before, when he was dating the same girl.
Idk...
December Cynic, January 16th, 2007 at 08:38:40pm
He still think your a friend. He just wants to sort everything out right now, and doesn't want to explain everything to you (Cause he thinks you don't know). He just doesn't want another person in on it even though you are his best friend
(I think.)
DikkiiDaDixterSmooch, January 16th, 2007 at 08:37:01pm
Well, in his situation with his girlfriend, he probably felt violated(sp) and needed to talk to a 'guy' about it. Yes, your friendship is probably losening, but sometimes that happens. He most likely didn't want to talk to his womenfriend about it because you are a woman, and he felt either embarassed or didn't fee comfertable talking to another girl about it. Try not to get too freaked out about it, maybe give him a little space to clear everything out with his girlfriend.
eh?, January 16th, 2007 at 08:36:13pm
Talk to him and person.
Trap him in an elevator.Ok,I'm sure there isn't a movable elevator anywhere.But talking one on one is better.
Make him listen,and tell him how you feek.
ohmygodshutyourbutt, January 16th, 2007 at 08:35:42pm
Maybe he wanted to talk to a guy friend, because that sort of issue might be embarrasing and misunderstood when told to a female.
The Hippy, January 16th, 2007 at 08:35:40pm