I love being fat
This is me, in my favorite shirt, looking amazing. Some people wouldn't agree, and that's their issue. My self esteem is based on how I feel about my looks. Not how they feel.
From a young age I was gaining weight, and my family always wanted me to lose weight. So I went along with it, why not? Society says fat is bad, so I need to get skinny! But no. I don't. And when I realized this I started to feel so much better. I'm attracted to larger women and men, that is my idea of beauty. Even when I was trying to lose weight it was.
At 16 when people in school say "hey, fat ass!" I don't get upset like I used to, now my normal reply is "I wish it was fatter." people think it's wacky, that I'd rather look this way, but I can't help that I want to be this way.
I make no excuses. I refuse to say "oh I tried to lose weight, I couldn't! So I accepted my fat ass and big belly!" not me, I could lose weight. I have, but I love being 220ish lbs. I love my huge boobs, fat thighs, big ass, big belly, and all my stretch marks. It's what beauty is to me. And I'd never have me any other way.
So when I call myself fat, know I'm saying I'm amazing. I will never use fat as an insult.
You are amazing.
Dana., May 14th, 2011 at 01:35:12pm
You are amazing, really. :3
Ensiferum, April 14th, 2011 at 07:12:28am
three words:
you are amazing.
brompton cocktail., March 17th, 2011 at 01:23:30pm
I love this blog. :)
I hated my body for a long time, because I dated sh*theads who always said I needed to be skinnier. The more I heard it, the more I believed it. Then I found someone who loves my body. It was weird at first, thinking anyone would like my chub, but because he loves it, I learned to love it.
I have a love/hate relationship with my boobs. I'm a DD lady, and sometimes they look fantastic, and sometimes my back hurts like hell because of them. xD
Shorty of Suburbia, March 17th, 2011 at 10:27:58am
I really admire your confidence. For a long time I hated people who didn't hate themselves like I did, for reasons such as weight, because I thought it was so unfair that they could love themselves when they looked in the mirror and I could weigh the same and hate myself more than humanly possible....but then after the whole everything thing, I finally realised that it doesn't make a damn difference what you actually look like so long as you feel great, or at least dont mind how you look, no one will like you anymore or anyless if you're a size 6 or a size 16...I'm the fattest I've ever been, because I simply gave up wanting to feel attractive..and I've never had more male attention, never had more compliments, never LOOKED better. I have small boobs...but they fit my body shape, I have curves where it counts and sorry but my ass is out of this world, yeah its pretty big, yeah my thighs are massive, but my figure is natural, and I eat what I want, when I want, without feeling too much guilt....I wish everyone could feel like you do.
Yay!, March 17th, 2011 at 05:26:45am
Damn, you hot.
:)
Seriously, having good body image is rarrre these days.
Well done.
TO BE DELETED, March 17th, 2011 at 04:29:16am
Food is amazing.
I love you guys :3
nadroj, March 17th, 2011 at 01:11:38am
lol my post went nowhere
*le tired*
captain america, March 17th, 2011 at 01:08:59am
Jordan I love your boobs too.
And I'm not just saying that.
xD
Out of seriousness though, whenever I get messages/reblogs about how awesome I look or how I'll get all the guys from people who think they're hideous, or whenever I see posts saying "I'm too fat" or "I'm too skinny" or "No one will love me, cause I'm different" I get pissed off.
I hate that weight is such an epic topic, and I'm not trying to say I don't talk about it, cause I'm trying to at least make healthier choices in life at the moment, but it pisses me off to no end when I see 13 year olds talking about 'diets' they read about on the internet, then rushing into them at not only age 13, where you should be worrying about what cool TV shows are on, but not even researching the good and bad of the diet in itself.
I tried becoming a vegetarian, and people don't understand me when I say I couldn't do it.
I get it from both sides, too. The whole "Why would you wanna be vegetarian?" and "You should become vegetarian"
I couldn't do it. Not because I caved, but because medically, my body couldn't handle the lack of actual meat.
I researched it before I got into it, I tried it for about two months, even with all the substituted foods and vitamines and whatnot, I got sent to the hospital.
I like food. Food and I have a love hate relationship. I love food, but I now cheat on food with going to the gym.
D;
I'm a horrible person.
DAMMIT WEIRD KITTY.
captain america, March 17th, 2011 at 01:07:11am
I admire your self acceptance. xx
midorifreak., March 17th, 2011 at 01:02:11am