Death

Nine_Inch_Nails:

~ Christie ~:

Bloodraine:

~ Christie ~:

Bloodraine:

~ Christie ~:

I hate when people cry at funerals...U know, ok, because someone is gone and you're never gonna see him again...but why crying ? if you cry looks like he/she didn't do nothing happy and ok when he was alive..That's my point.

Grief is a common emotion many people feel at the passing of a loved one...People are allowed to show their emotions, and crying helps a lot.

yes, totally right, but...Ohhh...whatever,forget.

Surely people showing sorrow at a funeral is testament to how good a life a person lead and how much they will be missed?

I'm sory what I wrote maybe I just wrote It wrong...I just forgot what was I thinking in that moment damn.

You're allowed to have an opinion you know, if that's what you think then it's fine.
I actually laugh at funerals. That's my way of dealing with it. But people just call me heartless and I'm just like "STFU cunt". I don't feel grief to be honest. I know..well...believe they've gone on to a new life, and if someone is pregnant at the time then I always get excited thinking that that baby could have the dead person's spirit.

But christie, if you have a opinion, say it hun. People might try and shoot you down but you stick to your guns if it's what you believe.

Bloodraine:

I'm not nasty to the newbies on purpose...

Bloodraine:

I'm not nasty to the newbies on purpose...

*Blue Star*-GARBIEKINS!!:

DeMeNtEd and PRETTY:

This may seem odd but I often think about my own funeral. I decided long ago that I want to be cremated on the land that I love and my ashes cast to a strong South wind. No prayers, no religion, a little sobbing but too much. I've even thought of the music. Boulevard Of Broken Dreams, or Ha Ha You're Dead, or just the quiet of the trees. I kinda figured it'd be done in a forest, cuz I love forests.

I don't know if I'd have music or not. I'd love to because I love music but I can't choose which ones I want out of...thousands of songs. I don't want to be scattered around though...I don't want to disappear deep beneath this earth. Actually, I want my ashes to be scattered into the sea! It's the only thing I can think of that hasn't been changed by humankind. I've always loved the look of the sea...or maybe I could get turned into a diamond and put onto a ring...but I don't know who should have the ring. Maybe one of my friends. Definitely not anyone from my family though. Hmmmm..maybe I'll just stick with the sea.

Lyzz_Billie_Rox:

I am not afraid to die, I am afraid of how I'll die. I wanna' be able to say good bye.

Lyzz

GOTHY THE CHAV SLAYER:

*Blue Star*-GARBIEKINS!!:

DeMeNtEd and PRETTY:

This may seem odd but I often think about my own funeral. I decided long ago that I want to be cremated on the land that I love and my ashes cast to a strong South wind. No prayers, no religion, a little sobbing but too much. I've even thought of the music. Boulevard Of Broken Dreams, or Ha Ha You're Dead, or just the quiet of the trees. I kinda figured it'd be done in a forest, cuz I love forests.

I don't know if I'd have music or not. I'd love to because I love music but I can't choose which ones I want out of...thousands of songs. I don't want to be scattered around though...I don't want to disappear deep beneath this earth. Actually, I want my ashes to be scattered into the sea! It's the only thing I can think of that hasn't been changed by humankind. I've always loved the look of the sea...or maybe I could get turned into a diamond and put onto a ring...but I don't know who should have the ring. Maybe one of my friends. Definitely not anyone from my family though. Hmmmm..maybe I'll just stick with the sea.

Yeah, I love the sea cuz 1 I'm an islander and 2 it is the only thing unchanged by humans. So I'll be scattered into a wind near the sea. I dunno about your ring theory though, I don't wanna be a fashion item to someone. plus I don't wanna stare at the world through a hands'-eye-view, you'll end up looking at all sorts, yuk!

carrot:

i dunno...i think of death as leaving...or as gandalf says in lord of the ring **somthin about a grey curtain and a new path in life**

Bloodraine:

carrot:

i dunno...i think of death as leaving...or as gandalf says in lord of the ring **somthin about a grey curtain and a new path in life**

"No, the journey doesn't end here.Death is just another path... One that we all must take. The grey rain-curtain of this world rolls back, and all turns to silver glass"

It wasn't his line in the book but I like how it was scripted in the film...very fitting.

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Myla:

A lot of you here have posted that you're afraid of death and would like to die piecefully in your bed(what is only possible when you're very old)

Bloodraine:

...Not necessarily. Y'all ever heard of SIDS, for one?

There are many reasons why a child or adolescent or adult would die peacefully in their beds. A short battle with illness, for instance.

Myla:

Bloodraine:

...Not necessarily. Y'all ever heard of SIDS, for one?

There are many reasons why a child or adolescent or adult would die peacefully in their beds. A short battle with illness, for instance.

First: a battle with illness CANNOT be peaceful and especially if it's short you're probably gonna suffer a lot before dying.
Second: a chance of dying from SIDS is quite low, so more likely you're gonna live untill you get really old and die from it.
"If you spend all your time worring about dying, living isn't going to be much fun."

Bloodraine:

Myla:

Bloodraine:

...Not necessarily. Y'all ever heard of SIDS, for one?

There are many reasons why a child or adolescent or adult would die peacefully in their beds. A short battle with illness, for instance.

First: a battle with illness CANNOT be peaceful and especially if it's short you're probably gonna suffer a lot before dying.
Second: a chance of dying from SIDS is quite low, so more likely you're gonna live untill you get really old and die from it.
"If you spend all your time worring about dying, living isn't going to be much fun."

You are quite wrong...Tell that to my Grandad. He died three years ago last August after a fairly short, peaceful (Due to advances in treatment) illness. Now, he might have been 'Old' but it could have just as easily have killed him at 15, 25, whatever.

...SIDS is also more common than you think, and you can't die from it at an old age, hence the 'Infant' part.

Myla:

Whatever the illness is it seems unfair to die from some stupid disease, lying in your bed, completely filled with medicine.
And in most of cases the death caused by an illness is very suffering and unpleasant.
P.S. Sorry for your grandad.

Bloodraine:

carrot:

i dunno...i think of death as leaving...or as gandalf says in lord of the ring **somthin about a grey curtain and a new path in life**

"No, the journey doesn't end here.Death is just another path... One that we all must take. The grey rain-curtain of this world rolls back, and all turns to silver glass"

It wasn't his line in the book but I like how it was scripted in the film...very fitting.

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