Desecration of Cemeteries/Respect for the Dead

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April 2nd, 2006 at 04:31pm
I went to a Cemetery with one of my freinds today,
she lives right down the street from one and we thought it would be neat to check it out.
it was old, the oldest grave was from 1860 with a few modern ones scattard in random places.
the thing that sadden/pissed us off was that some of grave stones were ripped up and broken
and there was random pices of trash like liquor bottles on ground.
Considering that this Cemertery was
1. a Historitic site and 2. a place were people "live", shouldn't it be treated with respect?
Even though the people that dwell there are dead?
And if it's not against the law, shouldn't it be?
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April 2nd, 2006 at 05:37pm
Its disgusting that people would actually do that, not just because its senseless and disrespectful but can you imagine how the reletives of the person whose grave has been defiled most feel; going there to pay their respects and maybe lay flowers there and finding rubbish and broken bottles around a tribute to someone they loved.
Its just a sick and awful thing to do.
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April 2nd, 2006 at 07:46pm
I wouldn't care if it was my relative that was buried there and a gang of drunk teens came and burned his corpse. He/she's gone and its their spirt that matters, what they did and how they felt when they were alive. It may sound very inconsiderate (sp?) but it's how I feel. A body is just a form of communation, a vehicle, a vessle to get around, it's just a shell around what really matters, our soul and what controls our body.

Once we're dead our body is useless, and that's why I'm going to donate my organs, and then get creamated (sp?).
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April 2nd, 2006 at 08:14pm
I think it's sick and a very, very disrespectful. The grave yard near my house where my father is buried, is very clean, except for some ciggarette butts here and there. But the thing that really pisses me off is that we had a statue of an angel on top of my fathers grave stone, and someone actually had the nerve to steal it. It should be a chargable offence if someone messes with cemetaries.
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April 2nd, 2006 at 08:19pm
It's against the law to vandalize any city place.
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April 2nd, 2006 at 08:54pm
It's very illegal my friend, and for very good reasons, thats just disrespectful on so many levels. I cant imagine how the families must feel. I recently visited my Uncles grave and I just remember how nice eveything looked, it sort of made it easier to know that hes gone, but to think his body was being left somewhere, where it would be mistreated and vandalized, I don't think I could cope with that.
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April 3rd, 2006 at 06:50am
i live near a big cemetery and there they are constantly washing of satantic drawings and picking up lager cans, and even condoms, and syringes. Those sort of people have no respect for themselfs so why shoudl they respect the dead? If anyone ripped up my family members head stome i would be very upset and i would make sure i went ot the police and had it logged at least, (there's not a lot they can/will do)

what i would like to know is what go's through these peoples heads, it's almost has though hanging around a graveyard is a fun thing to do at night, for christ sake you'll spend enough time there when your dead why do it when you are alive.
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April 3rd, 2006 at 07:03am
Magne:
i live near a big cemetery and there they are constantly washing of satantic drawings and picking up lager cans, and even condoms, and syringes. Those sort of people have no respect for themselfs so why shoudl they respect the dead? If anyone ripped up my family members head stome i would be very upset and i would make sure i went ot the police and had it logged at least, (there's not a lot they can/will do)

what i would like to know is what go's through these peoples heads, it's almost has though hanging around a graveyard is a fun thing to do at night, for christ sake you'll spend enough time there when your dead why do it when you are alive.


These people do think that hanging around a grave yard and ripping it up is fun.
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April 3rd, 2006 at 07:05am
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Magne:
i live near a big cemetery and there they are constantly washing of satantic drawings and picking up lager cans, and even condoms, and syringes. Those sort of people have no respect for themselfs so why shoudl they respect the dead? If anyone ripped up my family members head stome i would be very upset and i would make sure i went ot the police and had it logged at least, (there's not a lot they can/will do)

what i would like to know is what go's through these peoples heads, it's almost has though hanging around a graveyard is a fun thing to do at night, for christ sake you'll spend enough time there when your dead why do it when you are alive.


These people do think that hanging around a grave yard and ripping it up is fun.


but why though? Where's teh fun in ripping up gravestones and upseting lots of people?
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April 3rd, 2006 at 07:25am
Well, it gives them a thrill.

I don't know, it just seems to me that you are very naieve (I know thats spelt wrong) and innocent.

People enjoy ripping apart things. Somewhere in their twisted minds, they've decided they like the thrill and the fact that they'll get away with it.

Its the same reason some stupid guys decided to let off fire crackers in my train today.
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April 3rd, 2006 at 07:44am
Coff:
Well, it gives them a thrill.

I don't know, it just seems to me that you are very naieve (I know thats spelt wrong) and innocent.

People enjoy ripping apart things. Somewhere in their twisted minds, they've decided they like the thrill and the fact that they'll get away with it.

Its the same reason some stupid guys decided to let off fire crackers in my train today.


nieve and innocent is somthing that i am not. i just wanted to know why people think its brilliant to rip headstones up.
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April 3rd, 2006 at 07:47am
Magne:
Coff:
Well, it gives them a thrill.

I don't know, it just seems to me that you are very naieve (I know thats spelt wrong) and innocent.

People enjoy ripping apart things. Somewhere in their twisted minds, they've decided they like the thrill and the fact that they'll get away with it.

Its the same reason some stupid guys decided to let off fire crackers in my train today.


nieve and innocent is somthing that i am not. i just wanted to know why people think its brilliant to rip headstones up.


No, I didn't mean it in that way, I just don't know what the word is to describe it. Yeah.

It gives them a thrill. People think that they are being cool.... if they can do that, others will be impressed.
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April 3rd, 2006 at 07:50am
WHAT goes through their hEADS?????


.......NOTHING....not malice...not spite

pure senseless vandalism......HOW do I know?????

....i'VE done it.....AND IT IS Not something i am pROUD OF......

why????? no reason....to blame the substance abuse

"oh I didn't know what I was doing"....is NO excuse.....soI won't use it....

........don't LOOK for a higher meaning.....there is none...

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April 3rd, 2006 at 11:14am
It doesn't actually sit too badly with me...Obviously I don't approve of it, but if somebody did it to my gravestone, I can't say I'd care.

After all, the real important thing doesn't lie in stone and earth or have my name carved on it. Once im dead, it is my memory and my impact on the world I want to have remembered, not my tombstone. And that cannot be torn or broken by a vandal, no matter how hard they try.
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April 3rd, 2006 at 11:18am
Bloodraine:
It doesn't actually sit too badly with me...Obviously I don't approve of it, but if somebody did it to my gravestone, I can't say I'd care.

After all, the real important thing doesn't lie in stone and earth or have my name carved on it. Once im dead, it is my memory and my impact on the world I want to have remembered, not my tombstone. And that cannot be torn or broken by a vandal, no matter how hard they try.


yes but people want somthing nice to go and visit to put some flowers on and not see that some bored ass hole has ripped it up. I know the person is dead and it is the spirit that counts but people have a right to expect things kept nice and looking neat and tidy. I would be ferious if it happened to my cousins head stone.
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April 3rd, 2006 at 11:19am
I think it's awful.
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April 4th, 2006 at 12:42pm
I've always thought that it was sick if you went and deliberatly destroyed a grave. I mean what ever happend to the term Rest In Peace...people should have respect for those who are desceased and show them dignity not by getting pissed and trashing there final resting place
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April 6th, 2006 at 07:40pm
I have immense respect for the dead and I think it's horrible to do ANYTHING to disrespect the dead.
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Mibba
June 15th, 2006 at 01:56pm
if anyone ripped up my grandad's headstone, i would personally find out who it was, and put THEM in the cemetary, lets just put it like that
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June 15th, 2006 at 01:57pm
its bad, so bad in fact that its becomming a problem
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