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April 4th, 2006 at 05:39am
Ok. I never made a topic about this because I wasn't sure if there was one already, and I was never as upset as I am now about it. I checked through all the pages, and didn't see one, so apologies if there is one.

I've always noticed this, that when something happens to someone, most people will just stand and watch. I'm not saying that everyone does this, because if I saw someone crawling across the ground because their leg was broken I would certainly help them.

Sorry, the following is a result of me being really pissed off.

My little brother, today, was running for the train after school, he was running down the stairs at the station. The kids in the year above him were running too, and he got pushed down the stairs.

He was lying there, on the ground, and one kid even stepped on his leg.

My brother then had to crawl, because he couldn't walk, to get onto the train. He had to crawl across a platform to get onto a train.

Everyone else around him, they just stood and stared. The kids that go to my school, and the one nearby, they stared, and laughed. Even the adults, getting on and off the train, just stared, or walked past him as if nothing was happening.

Trust me, they would have see him. They all have to walk up the stairs to get off the station. A little kid crawling along the ground is hard to miss.

What kind of people would just stare, and laugh and not help a little kid who is crawling, he was pulling himself along the fucking ground, onto a train crying (He was crying! He never crys!) and calling out "Help me, I've broken my leg"

Arugh I'm so pissed off. He was crying when he came home, and he feels so humiliated.

He couldn't even go to a payphone at the station that we get on after school because there is no payphones on that side of the station, he would have to go up the stairs, and cross a bridge, and come back down stairs to get to a payphone.

And the problem is, most people I've come across are like that. The kids that all live in my area, they are all dysfunctional, they don't care about anyone else.

The adults are the same!

I think that people are too busy with their lives and have stopped caring for other people. Its just easier for them to not get involved, and help someone else.

I'm not saying everyone is like this, I'm aware that many of you would help people in an instant.
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April 4th, 2006 at 05:52am
thats fucking terrible, if i saw it i would have stopped and asked if i could do anything, i hate older kids who think walking over younger kids is ok (quite lierally in your brothers case) this is just anouther case of why i am loosing faith in the human race quite quickly. Thats awful, is he ok now?
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April 4th, 2006 at 05:57am
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thats fucking terrible, if i saw it i would have stopped and asked if i could do anything, i hate older kids who think walking over younger kids is ok (quite lierally in your brothers case) this is just anouther case of why i am loosing faith in the human race quite quickly. Thats awful, is he ok now?


Nah, he is in a lot of pain, we think his leg is broken, he is going in for an xray tomorrow.

Mmm yeah, and all the kids do it who live near me, like, they are just so obnoxious, and uncaring, and I just hate it!

All my friends would help anyone that they see, but hardly anyone else that I know would help them!

The girls at my school, they are either rich girls who talk like "Oh, daddy got me this from here" and "I have a handbag from there" or they are skanky, and neither of them would help.

And I am losing faith quite quickly too. I see kids attempt to set the train on fire each day!
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April 4th, 2006 at 06:00am
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thats fucking terrible, if i saw it i would have stopped and asked if i could do anything, i hate older kids who think walking over younger kids is ok (quite lierally in your brothers case) this is just anouther case of why i am loosing faith in the human race quite quickly. Thats awful, is he ok now?


Nah, he is in a lot of pain, we think his leg is broken, he is going in for an xray tomorrow.

Mmm yeah, and all the kids do it who live near me, like, they are just so obnoxious, and uncaring, and I just hate it!

All my friends would help anyone that they see, but hardly anyone else that I know would help them!

The girls at my school, they are either rich girls who talk like "Oh, daddy got me this from here" and "I have a handbag from there" or they are skanky, and neither of them would help.

And I am losing faith quite quickly too. I see kids attempt to set the train on fire each day!


why can i ask is your brother having to wait 24hrs or more for an x-ray?

I see kids when i walk home with my little one from school trying to set the post box on fire. They thinks its fun to hurt people and destroy things.
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April 4th, 2006 at 06:11am
Mmm yeah, the kids shove things in the post box as well.

He has to wait 24 hours (A little less, he's getting it in the morning) because by the time he got home it was 4:10, and most x-ray places have closed for the day. We live about half an hour away from any x-ray places. And also, he couldn't go to the hospital, because he could be waiting there for hours, when I broke my arm I was in the waiting room for 5 hours.

Its 8:10 pm here now, by the way.
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April 4th, 2006 at 06:17am
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Mmm yeah, the kids shove things in the post box as well.

He has to wait 24 hours (A little less, he's getting it in the morning) because by the time he got home it was 4:10, and most x-ray places have closed for the day. We live about half an hour away from any x-ray places. And also, he couldn't go to the hospital, because he could be waiting there for hours, when I broke my arm I was in the waiting room for 5 hours.

Its 8:10 pm here now, by the way.


oh i see now. My son was lucky i guess, when he broke his arm falling of a saftey bar he was waiting for about 1 hour and then a drunk said to the nurse that it wasnt fair but like the DR who saw him before that said he mght have to loose his arm, thankfully he didnt. He had to have an operation on it and now he has got metal pieces in his arm.

But why would adults walk past a young kid in pain i know i couldnt, i wouldnt be able to live with myself if i did. it would play on my mind so much. Kids i can understand because from what you say most of the kids by you are little basterds anyway so i can understand them not caring but ADULTS sorry for ranting but i am actually fairly angry.
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April 4th, 2006 at 06:38am
Yeah, so am I, I was so angry earlier on. I mean, I just cant believe that adults, who may start a family, or already have a family, just don't care, and don't want to get involved.
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April 4th, 2006 at 10:02am
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Yeah, so am I, I was so angry earlier on. I mean, I just cant believe that adults, who may start a family, or already have a family, just don't care, and don't want to get involved.


you wouldve thought that if these adults have kids then they would have at least some compassion
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April 5th, 2006 at 03:54pm
Well those kids were assholes and should rot in hell. If that sort of thing happened to someone I cared about I'd go find each one of em and personally beat them senseless.. You don't fuck with me or my friends and get away with it.
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April 5th, 2006 at 06:18pm
That's fucking disgusting. I can't believe all the adults didn't do anything.

I guess some humans are just scared to do anything. Some people simply don't know what to do.. which is probably why loadsa people stared.
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April 5th, 2006 at 06:25pm
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That's fucking disgusting. I can't believe all the adults didn't do anything.

I guess some humans are just scared to do anything. Some people simply don't know what to do.. which is probably why loadsa people stared.


some adults though are scared to do anything because there are a load of people getting accused of things they didnt do, but i knwo i wouldve helped.
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April 5th, 2006 at 06:26pm
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Ok. I never made a topic about this because I wasn't sure if there was one already, and I was never as upset as I am now about it. I checked through all the pages, and didn't see one, so apologies if there is one.

I've always noticed this, that when something happens to someone, most people will just stand and watch. I'm not saying that everyone does this, because if I saw someone crawling across the ground because their leg was broken I would certainly help them.

Sorry, the following is a result of me being really pissed off.

My little brother, today, was running for the train after school, he was running down the stairs at the station. The kids in the year above him were running too, and he got pushed down the stairs.

He was lying there, on the ground, and one kid even stepped on his leg.

My brother then had to crawl, because he couldn't walk, to get onto the train. He had to crawl across a platform to get onto a train.

Everyone else around him, they just stood and stared. The kids that go to my school, and the one nearby, they stared, and laughed. Even the adults, getting on and off the train, just stared, or walked past him as if nothing was happening.

Trust me, they would have see him. They all have to walk up the stairs to get off the station. A little kid crawling along the ground is hard to miss.

What kind of people would just stare, and laugh and not help a little kid who is crawling, he was pulling himself along the fucking ground, onto a train crying (He was crying! He never crys!) and calling out "Help me, I've broken my leg"

Arugh I'm so pissed off. He was crying when he came home, and he feels so humiliated.

He couldn't even go to a payphone at the station that we get on after school because there is no payphones on that side of the station, he would have to go up the stairs, and cross a bridge, and come back down stairs to get to a payphone.

And the problem is, most people I've come across are like that. The kids that all live in my area, they are all dysfunctional, they don't care about anyone else.

The adults are the same!

I think that people are too busy with their lives and have stopped caring for other people. Its just easier for them to not get involved, and help someone else.

I'm not saying everyone is like this, I'm aware that many of you would help people in an instant.


how is your brother now? Did he break his leg after?
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April 5th, 2006 at 06:54pm
Magne:
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That's fucking disgusting. I can't believe all the adults didn't do anything.

I guess some humans are just scared to do anything. Some people simply don't know what to do.. which is probably why loadsa people stared.


some adults though are scared to do anything because there are a load of people getting accused of things they didnt do, but i knwo i wouldve helped.


I was thinking that, maybe they thought they would be accused of abduction if they tried assisting the poor lad, It's still really bad.
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April 5th, 2006 at 07:13pm
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Magne:
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That's fucking disgusting. I can't believe all the adults didn't do anything.

I guess some humans are just scared to do anything. Some people simply don't know what to do.. which is probably why loadsa people stared.


some adults though are scared to do anything because there are a load of people getting accused of things they didnt do, but i knwo i wouldve helped.


I was thinking that, maybe they thought they would be accused of abduction if they tried assisting the poor lad, It's still really bad.


yes it is, but thats the state of the world i'm affraid.
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April 5th, 2006 at 07:45pm
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That's fucking disgusting. I can't believe all the adults didn't do anything.

I guess some humans are just scared to do anything. Some people simply don't know what to do.. which is probably why loadsa people stared.


some adults though are scared to do anything because there are a load of people getting accused of things they didnt do, but i knwo i wouldve helped.


I was thinking that, maybe they thought they would be accused of abduction if they tried assisting the poor lad, It's still really bad.


yes it is, but thats the state of the world i'm affraid.


I'm with you there. I hope things get better in the future... a ton of doubt is weighing my back down though.. o__O
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April 6th, 2006 at 07:39am
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Magne:
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Magne:
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That's fucking disgusting. I can't believe all the adults didn't do anything.

I guess some humans are just scared to do anything. Some people simply don't know what to do.. which is probably why loadsa people stared.


some adults though are scared to do anything because there are a load of people getting accused of things they didnt do, but i knwo i wouldve helped.


I was thinking that, maybe they thought they would be accused of abduction if they tried assisting the poor lad, It's still really bad.


yes it is, but thats the state of the world i'm affraid.


I'm with you there. I hope things get better in the future... a ton of doubt is weighing my back down though.. o__O


yep same here, the world has been like it for years so why would it change now.
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April 7th, 2006 at 02:29am
How long is he going to have the cast on for?

I have never broken any bone. I have fractured one, my little toe. HURT LIKE HELL!!!!!!!!

Gah. I would of helped too. That is so inconsiderate.
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April 7th, 2006 at 08:22am
Thats horrible, how can people be like that? I'd have helped him.
I broke my wrist once cos some kids were chasing each other and pushed me over.
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June 14th, 2006 at 06:31pm
yeah i was on the Internet and look what i found.

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tell me that`s not sad. i would`ve carried him to the food camp. seriously, no compassion. what has this world come to?
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June 14th, 2006 at 07:04pm
*gasps* that's horrible. HEINOUS to say the least. it kinda surprises me adults do that too. well at least there is people like us who wanna help people! ^_^ GO US!
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