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spill_no_sick
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June 11th, 2006 at 08:54pm
okay, I just want to stay on topic in the forum so I'm making a seperate topic for this

I'm all for homosexuals adopting and raising kids, pending they're responsible enough
I know plenty of heterosexuals who aren't fit to do it, so not all homosexuals are fit to do it either

discuss or I claim your first born (or adopted, whatever your lifestyle
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June 11th, 2006 at 09:05pm
I'm all for it, I don't see why they would be any less or more loving than any heterosexual parent.
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June 11th, 2006 at 09:07pm
I think certain things are needed to raise healthy children. You need to care for them, have the time and sense to raise them, you have to have alot of devoation, because your decsions affect more than just yourself, you have to put yourself second to make sure you raise the kid right and it doesnt end up a juvinile deliquent, and you have to above all else, love it. I don't think gender affects anyones ability to do those things, If it did, it would be like saying one parent is more important than the other. Alot of people stereotype and say things like, "Oh he wouldnt have turned out that way if he had a father figure in his life"Thats Bullshit. A mother can do anything a father can and vis versa. No parent is less important than the other. Having both parents in my opinion, is better for the kids, and it doesnt matter if it is 2 moms, or 2 dads. People shouldnt judge about that.
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June 11th, 2006 at 09:12pm
as long as they aren't the feminazi lesbians or, "we're too good for women" dads....as long as they aren't sexist homosexuals I'm fine with it
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June 11th, 2006 at 09:22pm
As long as they love their child
and like said 'as long as they are not sexiest homosexuals'
i'm perfectly fine w/ it
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June 11th, 2006 at 09:25pm
I_worship_tre_Cool:
I think certain things are needed to raise filthy children. You need to care for them, have the time and sense to raise them, you have to have alot of devoation, because your decsions affect more than just yourself, you have to put yourself second to make sure you raise the kid right and it doesnt end up a juvinile deliquent, and you have to above all else, love it. I don't think gender affects anyones ability to do those things, If it did, it would be like saying one parent is more important than the other. Alot of people stereotype and say things like, "Oh he wouldnt have turned out that way if he had a father figure in his life"Thats Bullshit. A mother can do anything a father can and vis versa. No parent is less important than the other. Having both parents in my opinion, is better for the kids, and it doesnt matter if it is 2 moms, or 2 dads. People shouldnt judge about that.


{off topic}
I just wanted to document your amazing typo before you worked it out
{on topic}

I think every child should have a father figure and a mother figure but those don't necesarily have to be the parents.
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June 11th, 2006 at 09:26pm
The only problem I see with it is that being that there's many homophobic people out there, it might cause problems for the child.
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June 11th, 2006 at 09:29pm
NeoSteph:
I_worship_tre_Cool:
I think certain things are needed to raise filthy children. You need to care for them, have the time and sense to raise them, you have to have alot of devoation, because your decsions affect more than just yourself, you have to put yourself second to make sure you raise the kid right and it doesnt end up a juvinile deliquent, and you have to above all else, love it. I don't think gender affects anyones ability to do those things, If it did, it would be like saying one parent is more important than the other. Alot of people stereotype and say things like, "Oh he wouldnt have turned out that way if he had a father figure in his life"Thats Bullshit. A mother can do anything a father can and vis versa. No parent is less important than the other. Having both parents in my opinion, is better for the kids, and it doesnt matter if it is 2 moms, or 2 dads. People shouldnt judge about that.


{off topic}
I just wanted to document your amazing typo before you worked it out
{on topic}

I think every child should have a father figure and a mother figure but those don't necesarily have to be the parents.
I meant healthy, not filthy Shocked
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June 11th, 2006 at 09:37pm
Tyler:
The only problem I see with it is that being that there's many homophobic people out there, it might cause problems for the child.
that's what I was thinking
those kids would get beat up for having gay parents....
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June 11th, 2006 at 09:41pm
It's not the homosexuality of the parents that creates problems for those children - it's the intolerance of society.
However, every next step of evolution is hard at first. One day people will look back to the society where homosexual marriage and adoption were critisized and have the same thoughts as we have now about racial segregation.
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June 11th, 2006 at 09:41pm
spill_no_sick:
Tyler:
The only problem I see with it is that being that there's many homophobic people out there, it might cause problems for the child.
that's what I was thinking
those kids would get beat up for having gay parents....
Well, what about racism. When Black people were allowed to attend white schools, hate crimes started everywhere, because of racist views. It wasnt just schools, jobs, parks, resturants, everywhere, and despite the racist people today, it has gotten alot better. Every person who went through all of the critiscm and ridiculing went thought it for a purpose, because people are treated alot better now then they were then. I think eventually, maybe not in my lifetime, the same thing could happen with homosexuality, if it is ever legalized. it would become accepted and the kids wouldnt have to worry about it as much. Homophobia will never disappear entirely, just like rscim hasnt.
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June 11th, 2006 at 10:56pm
I'm for it 100%. The only thing that matters is that they love the child and treat it right.

As for the homophobics...fuck them.
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June 12th, 2006 at 09:33am
spill_no_sick:
Tyler:
The only problem I see with it is that being that there's many homophobic people out there, it might cause problems for the child.
that's what I was thinking
those kids would get beat up for having gay parents....

I was looking that up, and I found a million surveys, and almost no children were beat up (although they said nothing about being made fun of) because of homosexual parents. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, it just didn't seem to be that much of a problem.
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June 12th, 2006 at 09:41am
Faith:
It's not the homosexuality of the parents that creates problems for those children - it's the intolerance of society.
However, every next step of evolution is hard at first. One day people will look back to the society where homosexual marriage and adoption were critisized and have the same thoughts as we have now about racial segregation.


That's what I think and hope.
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June 12th, 2006 at 10:59am
Faith:
It's not the homosexuality of the parents that creates problems for those children - it's the intolerance of society.

That makes a lot of sense.

I'm for it, all the way. You can be a good parent whatever your sexuality, and at the end of the day if a child is raised well and loved I don't care what kind of gender their adoptive parents are attracted to.
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June 12th, 2006 at 12:08pm
sheepless and redundant:
spill_no_sick:
Tyler:
The only problem I see with it is that being that there's many homophobic people out there, it might cause problems for the child.
that's what I was thinking
those kids would get beat up for having gay parents....

I was looking that up, and I found a million surveys, and almost no children were beat up (although they said nothing about being made fun of) because of homosexual parents. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, it just didn't seem to be that much of a problem.

but you have to take into account how many kids will fess up to that....I've seen kids be beat up because they weren't homophobic
I don't know about your schools, but I see it
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June 12th, 2006 at 12:11pm
spill_no_sick:
sheepless and redundant:
spill_no_sick:
Tyler:
The only problem I see with it is that being that there's many homophobic people out there, it might cause problems for the child.
that's what I was thinking
those kids would get beat up for having gay parents....

I was looking that up, and I found a million surveys, and almost no children were beat up (although they said nothing about being made fun of) because of homosexual parents. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, it just didn't seem to be that much of a problem.

but you have to take into account how many kids will fess up to that....I've seen kids be beat up because they weren't homophobic
I don't know about your schools, but I see it


i dont like the idea of homosexual parents UNLESS they were in a pervious relationship and they seperated because the perant relised he/she was gay, but i would never beat on a child because they're folks were gay that is wrong and just sick.
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June 12th, 2006 at 01:47pm
Magne:
spill_no_sick:
sheepless and redundant:
spill_no_sick:
Tyler:
The only problem I see with it is that being that there's many homophobic people out there, it might cause problems for the child.
that's what I was thinking
those kids would get beat up for having gay parents....

I was looking that up, and I found a million surveys, and almost no children were beat up (although they said nothing about being made fun of) because of homosexual parents. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, it just didn't seem to be that much of a problem.

but you have to take into account how many kids will fess up to that....I've seen kids be beat up because they weren't homophobic
I don't know about your schools, but I see it


i dont like the idea of homosexual parents UNLESS they were in a pervious relationship and they seperated because the perant relised he/she was gay, but i would never beat on a child because they're folks were gay that is wrong and just sick.


Why don't you like the idea of homosexual parents? We can't debate anything with such a vauge opinion.


p.s.- This isn't important and off topic, but I bolded "they're" because that means "they are" and that isn't what you wanted to say. I have to sharpen up my editing skills for articles. Shifty
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June 12th, 2006 at 02:21pm
Magne:


ok there folks. it was a mistake and i dont appriciate being told of like a naughty school girl.


Ok, well when your on the internet, Grammar is important because I only understand what you type.


Anyways, you didn't answer my question. Why do you think homosexuals can't raise children?
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June 12th, 2006 at 04:23pm
oh yeah and i dont like homosexual perants because the child needs some one to go to, i know people get married and have children and yes they split up and want to live an homosexual lifestyle then the child/ren should go to the perants better suited to looking after them.
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