Sexual Templates
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cabot gal GSBitch Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 76863 | lyrical_mess:..Well, I do seem to be attracted to the bassist in bands and my boyfriend is a bassist. Mike makes me horny |
lyrical_mess Falling In Love With The Board Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 5278 | Hm. Um, this might be kind of a personal question but would you masturbate to Mike? or your boyfriend? or a bassist that you know of? |
worn-out astronaut. Had A Life Before GSB Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 28177 | lyrical_mess:Its Ivana And I agree with you. When you get used to something as a kid you don't mind it when you grow up because you are already used to having parents that are different races, that have a bigger age difference between them etc. And thats good, I suppose. |
cabot gal GSBitch Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 76863 | lyrical_mess:... umm... Yeah, I guess xD |
lyrical_mess Falling In Love With The Board Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 5278 | Then perhaps your sexual template is bassists. If this is in fact true, then the incident your attraction is based on goes back to before you were 3 or 4. You don't remember it. I might be wrong. I dunno. I don't have a whole lot of information. I can't find anything else on the subject. Google gives me nothing. |
lyrical_mess Falling In Love With The Board Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 5278 | Then perhaps your sexual template is bassists. If this is in fact true, then the incident your attraction is based on goes back to before you were 3 or 4. You don't remember it. I might be wrong. I dunno. I don't have a whole lot of information. I can't find anything else on the subject. Google gives me nothing. |
Dom Jackass Age: 34 Gender: Male Posts: 1691 | not to be a spoily sport or anything, but there doesnt seem to be much debating going on, but ignore me. |
Matt Smith Admin Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 31134 | Dom: Nobody said that debating had to be boring and stuffy old discussions, we can discuss personal things too. |
lyrical_mess Falling In Love With The Board Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 5278 | Besides, this is a discussion on psychology. Sexual psychology. |
worn-out astronaut. Had A Life Before GSB Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 28177 | lyrical_mess:You helped me a lot, realizing that I will blame my parents if they complain about me dating older guys |
lyrical_mess Falling In Love With The Board Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 5278 | . |
Mycophobia Basket Case Age: 29 Gender: Female Posts: 15581 | Sruti should be a Psychologist well when i was little i thought blone hair and blue eyes where prettyer but now i think dark hair and dark or green eyes are prettyer |
What's in a name? King For A Couple Of Days Age: 35 Gender: Female Posts: 2451 | I’ve always fancied guys with blond hair and blue eyes the most (not that I care too much about looks though). And tall guys. Tall and sort of skinny ones. And that’s actually a very good description of my boyfriend. All my boyfriends have had blue eyes (except one who had green) and all of that have been rather tall. Some had darker hair though. (Sounds like I’ve had a lot of relationships but all those boys, save one previous and my current, were not really “real” boyfriends if you know what I mean. No serious relationships, just immature ones). Anyway, I think I might have two explanations for this. This is gonna come out all wrong but yeah. When I was born my older brother was already nine years old. So when I was a little kid he was a teenager. He has blue eyes and until he was about fifteen he had very blond hair. He’s tall too and he was sort of skinny in his teenage years. Also my best friend when I was a little kid had beautiful blond hair and pretty, blue eyes. She was a good friend, most of the time . And my older brother is one of the best persons on earth, at least to me. So my guess is, based on your theory here lyrical_mess, is that all the positive things that I associated with those attributes fallowed me into puberty where they got translated onto random boys. Because it was important, familiar and comforting to me. Which would explain my preference for tall, blond guys with blue eyes . I didn’t even think about that before though! |
votefordisco Rotting On Here Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 45710 | The kind of person I'd like to have sex with is Dougie Poynter. ... Seriously though. The thought of two men having sex turns me on more than anything else. Could that count as a sexual template? Because it really does get me hot under the collor. And this is a bit like Freud's theory, isn't it? I do psychology and we had to learn a bit about him. He basically thinks that the world revolves around sex, tbh. But yeah. Isn't the thing about sexual desires when you're an infant meant to be subconscious? Like... I doubt anyone would remember something sexual at that age. I think the link between sexual desires and infancy is more to do with the whole theory of boys fancying their mums and girls fancying their dads. It's how we get to know our sexuality and also how we come up with 'daddy's little girl' and 'mummy's little boy'. Anyway. Enough rambling about Freud and his sexy theory of young children and their parents. My point was that yeah, we're not supposed to remember the sexual awakening thing from when we were younger. It's subconscious or something. idk. I don't know what I'm talking about. |
robotchicken. Falling In Love With The Board Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 8423 | stardust: Me too for some reason :/ I mean I didnt even know two men having sex existed until I was in fourth grade. But also funny guys turn me on. Sexual template? Maybe? I used to watch alot of cartoons? |
paper shoes This Board Is My Home Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 34269 | Bwahaha biting and hair pulling... and I wasn't abused as a child or anything so idk where that comes from. |
folkin' around. King For A Couple Of Days Age: - Gender: Female Posts: 3243 | Dr. Cuddy: I see what you mean. My dad is 8 years older than my mom and I very much perfer guys who are older than me. I actually really can't stand younger guys. lyrical_mess: I know this kinda not the point but, My dad is caucasian, my mom is 100% korean and I basically only like white guys or some other races. But, I can't think of any specific childhood experiences that may influence what I like or enjoy now. This is a very interesting topic though. EDIT: I was reading some of the post before mine and you guys were talking about bassists, and now that I think about it...As a child I grew with a lot of music around me. And musicians. Mainly guitarists, and I am more attracted to guitarists(not just famous people, i mean like kids I know) and other types of musicians. maybe I'm just not making any sense. I know I aint making any sense to myself. |
lyrical_mess Falling In Love With The Board Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 5278 | Actually, Beverly, that might be the point. And you might be onto something else. What if sexual templates are genetic? People say that women often look for men who are similar to their fathers. But what if that's not the case, and women actually really like the type that their mom liked? Geeeeness. |
worn-out astronaut. Had A Life Before GSB Age: 31 Gender: Female Posts: 28177 | lyrical_mess:Hmmm... not in my case My mom prefers blond guys. I don't. But my dad isn't blond at all, he has black-hair. Ok, he had black-hair, even when my mom et him he was gray. And me dad is a wonderful guy, but I could never be with anyone like him. Sometimes he can be really, really annoying. And he is a true Leo, proud and thinking he is the best. I couldn't handle that. |
Anji Basket Case Age: 34 Gender: Female Posts: 15914 | Ieva:I know what you're talking about. |
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