Friends.
Okay, so i'm having a few troubles with friends and groups at school. I hang out with the "unpopulars." But we're known as the "popular unpopulars." So we are known and liked by some of the other groups in our school. Anyways, I have 4 or 5 close friends who i hang out with everyday, there's 4 against 1.Fake names used.
- Dragon
- Zeebo
- Kodak
- Ebs
Dragon, Zeebo and Kodak all hate Ebs. And for understandable reasons, which im starting to realise.
- She's controlling
- The self confessed "mother-f*cking princess"
- Hates Dragon
- Is verrrrry spoilt
Everytime i hang out with Dragon, Zeebo and Kodak, she gets all jealous, and pulls me away from them, and I can trust them more than i can trust her. She's the kind who will say one thing then go and do the other. I'm really confused, because they all hate her, but everyone at my school is very good at hiding who they hate and pretend to be friends, which is very annoying. Because the other day i saw her make an action, i never thought she would towards me.
I was telling someone else something about me getting into trouble and she made one of those faces where you think a person is lying, [i dunno, a screwed kind of face] and i happened to turn back around and see her making the face, she saw me and quickly turned back into a smile, she knows i saw her.
Now she's acting a bit weird around me, ignoring me at random times, and it's annoying. Because she lives one house away from me, and her parents aren;t the nicest when angry, i dont want a big fight happening. So i dont want to talk to her, have a go at her etc.
GSB, I'm getting really confused and it's making me angry .. i dont know what to do.
- Dragon
- Zeebo
- Kodak
- Ebs
Dragon, Zeebo and Kodak all hate Ebs. And for understandable reasons, which im starting to realise.
- She's controlling
- The self confessed "mother-f*cking princess"
- Hates Dragon
- Is verrrrry spoilt
Everytime i hang out with Dragon, Zeebo and Kodak, she gets all jealous, and pulls me away from them, and I can trust them more than i can trust her. She's the kind who will say one thing then go and do the other. I'm really confused, because they all hate her, but everyone at my school is very good at hiding who they hate and pretend to be friends, which is very annoying. Because the other day i saw her make an action, i never thought she would towards me.
I was telling someone else something about me getting into trouble and she made one of those faces where you think a person is lying, [i dunno, a screwed kind of face] and i happened to turn back around and see her making the face, she saw me and quickly turned back into a smile, she knows i saw her.
Now she's acting a bit weird around me, ignoring me at random times, and it's annoying. Because she lives one house away from me, and her parents aren;t the nicest when angry, i dont want a big fight happening. So i dont want to talk to her, have a go at her etc.
GSB, I'm getting really confused and it's making me angry .. i dont know what to do.
You don't need friends like that, she obviously isn't worth it if she upsets your true friends.
Kurtni, July 5th, 2007 at 01:33:56pm
yep, i see where your coming from, but she shouldnt feel excluded because i hung out with her and she completey ignored me, so maybe she sees this as being 'payback' or something, because there are 2 boys and thery are the biggest wankers out. and she hangs out with them, and im okay with it now, because i hate them and i have other friends. etc.
Tre Cool Junkeh, July 5th, 2007 at 06:28:44am
yes i completely agree with HMNIA ont his one too. it is you desicion .. nobody else's. try to be understanding on maybe her side of the story. and like maybe see like why is she acting like this. Does she really just want all the attention or is she excluded. Then discuss it with her. tell what you think about how she is acting and maybe things will turn around and the others might start liking her too.. (maybe)
but seriously think that everything that HMNIA said is the bestt thing to say about this.. it makes sense. so yea=]
good luck with this.
My Chemical Emotions, July 4th, 2007 at 09:05:05pm
I have a similar situation, and I am just as lost as you. But I do agree with Hello,My Name Is a$ on this one.
ZootSuitRiot, July 4th, 2007 at 08:01:18pm
You shouldn't be "forced" to be friends with her. If you don't enjoy spending time with her and doing you know.. friend stuff, then don't force yourself. Her parents and/or where she lives shouldn't matter. :]
You could also try talking to her.. Considering all your other friends hate her, maybe she feels excluded and the only way of showing that to you is being b*tchy. I'm no psychologist, but I that's just what I see.
But really, only you can decide what you're going to do, I can't do that for you. So do what feels right. :]
Hello, My Name Is Asshole, July 4th, 2007 at 12:21:54pm