My Idea of the word Hate
Recently, I had a, now, ex-friend say she hated me. Honestly, I don't care if people use the word hate, or say they hate me. This, my friends, make me think that since they don't like me so much, that they're thinking about me all the time.
You see, when someone uses the word 'hate', it has the same amount of passion as 'Love' does. When you love someone, you think about them all the time, so it makes you wonder if when you hate someone, you think about them too?
I know that 'Hate' and 'Love' are two opposite things, but if you really think about it, they're very similar. Your heart still feels for the people, nobody can let it go that easily. If you do hate someone, you still think about them, a lot. Admit it, you do, everybody does.
The meanings in the dictionary are:
Hate: to dislike intensely or passionately
Love: a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person
There's that word again.
Passion
Now when you see the word 'Passion', what do you think of?
I'll take a guess.
Love.
Passion can also be used for many things. The opposite of 'Love' for example.
Hate
You might be able to see where I'm coming from on this. I'll try to make it a bit easier for you guys.
You can say you love someone, or you hate someone, never both. But, both of the words, 'Hate and Love' have equal passion. To have passion, you must think about the person, regardless if you Love or Hate them.
Now, let's try to bring the meaning of 'Love' to 'Hate' through definitions shall we?
I told you the meaning of 'Love' already so, lets go with the key word of passion.
Passion: Any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling, as love or hate
How easy was that? First try.
There you have it.
If you do say you hate someone, you'll have to admit that you're thinking about them often. So, GSB, Think to yourself what you're really saying when you say 'I Hate You!'
Thank you for your time and I hope I didn't confuse you guys too much. :]
You see, when someone uses the word 'hate', it has the same amount of passion as 'Love' does. When you love someone, you think about them all the time, so it makes you wonder if when you hate someone, you think about them too?
I know that 'Hate' and 'Love' are two opposite things, but if you really think about it, they're very similar. Your heart still feels for the people, nobody can let it go that easily. If you do hate someone, you still think about them, a lot. Admit it, you do, everybody does.
The meanings in the dictionary are:
Hate: to dislike intensely or passionately
Love: a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person
There's that word again.
Passion
Now when you see the word 'Passion', what do you think of?
I'll take a guess.
Love.
Passion can also be used for many things. The opposite of 'Love' for example.
Hate
You might be able to see where I'm coming from on this. I'll try to make it a bit easier for you guys.
You can say you love someone, or you hate someone, never both. But, both of the words, 'Hate and Love' have equal passion. To have passion, you must think about the person, regardless if you Love or Hate them.
Now, let's try to bring the meaning of 'Love' to 'Hate' through definitions shall we?
I told you the meaning of 'Love' already so, lets go with the key word of passion.
Passion: Any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling, as love or hate
How easy was that? First try.
There you have it.
If you do say you hate someone, you'll have to admit that you're thinking about them often. So, GSB, Think to yourself what you're really saying when you say 'I Hate You!'
Thank you for your time and I hope I didn't confuse you guys too much. :]
I can honestly say that I truely only hate 1 person.
I dislike other persons.
but I have strong hate feelings towards one person.
and everytime I hear the word hate.. her name pops in my head... and I bald my fists.. ALWAYS...
but.. I don't think about her all the time.. only when I hear the word hate..
thank god I have alot of friends that love me... and parents that love me
so I don't think or hear about hate that often...
but... yeah.. I know what it's like to hate someone..
champagne supernova*, September 6th, 2007 at 09:30:48pm
I really like this blog, alot.
I understood it actuallyxD And it's rare that I understand things
very good point=)
Bubble Wrap., September 6th, 2007 at 01:58:19am
Actually, you're right.
I guess it's crossed my mind, but I never thought about writing it down. Which I think it's great that you did.
Yeah, I hate a couple of people, and I do think about them a lot.
Great blog.
Mr. Teatime, September 6th, 2007 at 01:52:31am
omg.
its like you stole my thoughts.
I have been thinking about the same a few days ago.
brilliant blog.
I dislike hating.
worn-out astronaut., September 5th, 2007 at 09:43:33pm
I know what you mean.
Love and Hate are like yin and yang.
Two imperfect parts of the perfect cyrcle.
brompton cocktail., September 5th, 2007 at 11:56:19am
it's okay :]
I don't really care anymore about what happened at all
I just live as though she doesn't exist
Rage, September 5th, 2007 at 04:43:31am
Ehh. Just a guess.
Sorry for bringing it up.
captain america, September 5th, 2007 at 04:41:32am
thank you guys
and Slappy
I have to say sort of
but nothing that happened on GSB with it
it's just everyday experiences
I get told people hate me all the time so I'm used to it
Rage, September 5th, 2007 at 04:33:07am
You didn't confuse me at all. And yes when someone speaks or repeatedly writes about how much they hate someone, or for instance a band, then it screams just how much time they actually spend thinking about them. Ironic really, that something you dislike with such intensity can consume your thoughts so deeply.
Grandma, September 5th, 2007 at 04:31:29am
Is this blog referring to another GSB user?
I thought it was good.
I'd probably write blogs if I had the privilage of doing so.
But I posted a useless one and was banned from blogging.
captain america, September 5th, 2007 at 04:31:27am
Yepp. I see what you mean.
Sunshine., September 5th, 2007 at 04:30:06am