Expectations

ex•pec•ta•tion: a prospect of future good or profit: to have great expectations

We all have expectations, whether they come from parents, friends, other family members, or even ourselves.
Some of these expectations being ranked higher on our levels of importance than others; for example, the expectations of our parents tend to impact us in a
larger way than those of our peers.
The biggest expectations we have, are often the ones we have set for ourselves.
Failing is disappointing to everyone, from failing more practical things, such as tests to failing to meet the needs
emotionally of yourself and your friends and family of who depend so strongly on you. The more people expect,
the more people there are to potentially disappoint, which makes it all the more harder to cope with the feeling of faluire.
The most difficult overall is when you feel that you have failed yourself. Failing socially can be disappointing however,
life surrounds you with millions of people, and failing every single one of them would be incredibly difficult.
Failing socially can be a little bit easier to cope with, the reason being moral from other people.
If you let down a friend, or a family member you have other people to tell you that you can always do better,
you have your own self- confidence to lean on. However, when one has failed to meet their own principles,
the person goes through a great deal of insecurity causing them to be unable to lean on their self confidence,
which then leads to distrust of others, and the moral support received.
These people are in great need of support because without your self-esteem you feel unworthy causing low motivation,
which all leads back to expecations not being met, except repeatedly this time, which only makes the difficult situation worse, and who needs a situation to get worse after feeling the sorrow of failing?
Posted on September 27th, 2007 at 11:50pm

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