bitter people

I don't get why some people are so bitter all the time. Some people seriously can't be nice. Some people have to use every possibility to bitch at someone. And it's something that I actually observe outside and also on the internet. They seem to be in a constant cranky mood.

Now I'm not saying that it's so bad if someone is in a bad mood, everyone is now and then, but some people seem to constantly enjoy getting others down. When someone is sad, they complain about them being whiny. When someone wants to show someone something they made, they get bitchy and say they just seek for compliments.

Why can't they feel happy when someone else is happy? Why can't they support the people around them? They haven't done anything to them....that's what I dislike most. They get bitchy for absolute no reason. They just get mean for the sake of it.

Another thing is people who are only nice to you when you talk to them alone. As soon as their friends are around they start getting bitchy. That shows real weakness. Can't they stand for their beliefs by themselves?

You know what; you can't really do anything against people being that way. You should just stay nice and true to yourself. If they don't get a reply for their bitching they'll get bored of it soon. If they start shit, ignore them. You don't have the need to defend yourself.

Hold close to your real friends, because they wouldn't want to see you sad. They would never get you purposely down, just because they feel like it. True friends are those you can smile with, cry with, laugh with, whine with...together. They are the ones giving you a hug when you're down, telling you you look beautiful, but still stay honest.

And you know, those people are out there. They are the ones who will be there for you in need.
Never let them go.




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