my valid points
is it just me or have you'se ever noticed that once you gain a friend you loose someone in return?
lately brock and i have become friends and we talk and that but ever since gaining brocks friendship ive lost jaydens in return.
i could have easily prevented loosing jayden by keeping my mouth shut but what i said needed to be said and it was not over reacting i just didnt appreciated jayden jeopardising my friendship with kelc over something that had nothing to do with me.
here comes my next issue.
what makes a person popular?
is it their looks, their personality, their sense of music and clothes? if you ask me there shouldnt be the popular kid vs the unpopualr kid.
if you ask me sometimes the unpopular kid is just as cool or if not cooler than the popluar kid.
it shouldnt be based on their family, their looks, their style it should be based on themselves and what people value.
im struggling to come to terms of why the popular kids at our school are popular because once you actually sit down and talk to them they really arent all that nice.
i am also wondering why people are so concerned about their relationships at this age. not been rude but your probably not even going to know you boyfriend, girlfriend etc in the next ten years.
i said today that i would always put my friends first no matter what even if i did have a boyfriend and everyone looked at me.
yes i have a boyfriend at the moment but i know we wont be with each other forever. we're going to get over one another and find someone else. we are only 13/14 this isnt a life threatening situation. it actually annoys me when people talk about whos going out with who and who did this with who and so on because its not going to matter in the next few years so just move on with life because there are plenty more things to worry about than teenage romance.
thanks for reading if you actually took your time,
x.
lately brock and i have become friends and we talk and that but ever since gaining brocks friendship ive lost jaydens in return.
i could have easily prevented loosing jayden by keeping my mouth shut but what i said needed to be said and it was not over reacting i just didnt appreciated jayden jeopardising my friendship with kelc over something that had nothing to do with me.
here comes my next issue.
what makes a person popular?
is it their looks, their personality, their sense of music and clothes? if you ask me there shouldnt be the popular kid vs the unpopualr kid.
if you ask me sometimes the unpopular kid is just as cool or if not cooler than the popluar kid.
it shouldnt be based on their family, their looks, their style it should be based on themselves and what people value.
im struggling to come to terms of why the popular kids at our school are popular because once you actually sit down and talk to them they really arent all that nice.
i am also wondering why people are so concerned about their relationships at this age. not been rude but your probably not even going to know you boyfriend, girlfriend etc in the next ten years.
i said today that i would always put my friends first no matter what even if i did have a boyfriend and everyone looked at me.
yes i have a boyfriend at the moment but i know we wont be with each other forever. we're going to get over one another and find someone else. we are only 13/14 this isnt a life threatening situation. it actually annoys me when people talk about whos going out with who and who did this with who and so on because its not going to matter in the next few years so just move on with life because there are plenty more things to worry about than teenage romance.
thanks for reading if you actually took your time,
x.
in terms of popularity
im popular
i like to think im not a b*tch, concieted, snobby girl that puts the fact that everyone likes her in everyone elses face all the time
i work just as hard in school as the people that spend all day in the library
i struggle with the same tests and alot of the time people hate when i score the same as them because im a cheerleader, im liked, my life should be shopping and being stupd, its what im suppose to do.
I deal with the same issues of having people leave me
i fact i have a serious problem withp eople leaving me
it practically pushes me to the edge of insanity.
believe it or not but i deal with people ignoring me too, being rude to me, treating me horrible ebcause of a stereotype they make
im not saying people like you do
im just trying to show you my perspective
i just wrote a blog on this actually so idk
kayy !, March 16th, 2008 at 10:31:29am
Really well written.
I r loss for words.
brompton cocktail., March 14th, 2008 at 04:38:24pm
Well, some people are popular cause there's just something about them. I have a friend, she's Christian, she wears "emo" ish clothes, she listens to Tokio Hotel and Johan Sebastian Bach, and she's the most popular friend I have.
Everybody likes her, cause she's fun and outgoing and caring and nice. And there's just something about her.
So that can also happen. You shouldn't judge people just cause they're popular. Yes, off course, some people who are popular are total a$s, but there's also unpopular kids who are total a$s. And there are nice popular kids and nice unpopular kids.
As far as the relationship part go, I have no idea, cause you know I've been single all my life and stuff. But if people feel they love each other more than anything, I think they should be allowed to feel it. No matter what age they are. Sure it might not last forever, but then again, it might. Nobody knows for sure. ;)
Wino Forever, March 14th, 2008 at 05:15:39am
oh its definatley not a lecture and it was just the right length.
you have helped a great deal.
thanks for that.
good luck to you and your boyfriend.
x
BeautyInBreakDown--, March 14th, 2008 at 01:43:33am
my opinion on gaining and losing friends is the same as your opinion on relationships, lol. you do lose friends when you gain new ones, but like high school/ jr high romance, you won't know them in a few years. i'm not saying you wont' know ANYONE from school, but the ones you do know will stay with you no matter how many new people come along. if they leave when you make a new friend, they aren't the friend that will count in the end.
as for poularity, i don't know why these kids are popular. i agree, some of them aren't very nice. a lot of them aren't very nice. if you take the time to talk to some of the less beautiful and charming kids you find inner beauty shines through, outer beauty blinds you and leaves you stunned but uncomfortable.
at your age, relationships mean very little. when you get a little older, a junior or senior, you'll start to take them more seriously. its true you may never see them or love them after a few months but you will remember your first true love, your first person you were intimately physical with, and your first unhappy relationship. they are important for your future partner because you will know what kind of person you like. And who knows, maybe you will find "the one".
when you find someone you truely love friends don't matter as much because you will have him and he will fullfil you in so many ways, especially as a friend. if you don't find that in your partner, hes probably not the right guy. right now, for you, teenage romance is insignificant. when you are older you may change your mind. but you may not.
i felt the same way as you until i met my boyfriend. we've been together for almost two years now. i'm 17 and hes 16 and i wouldn't mind spending my life with him. some people meet their true love faster than others. you never know if you will love them forever if you meet them in high school but you know they are special if they are your best friend, your lover, the person you live for.
sorry if that was like a lecture or something, i didn't mean it that way, lol. and i'm really sorry it was so long, i tend to ramble on forever. but i hope this helps you're questions =]
suburban.zombie, March 14th, 2008 at 01:29:48am