So there's this guy...
...at college who i like a fair bit 
It started about 3 weeks ago when he drew a really good star so I asked him how he did it.
He taught me and then I started drawing stars on his book...so he drew them on mine.
Then he drew them on my arm so I drew them on his.
He sat next to me in Psychology from then on and he always made me laugh.
One lunch time he asked if me and my friends wanted to go to Subway with him, so I said yes.
The lesson after lunch I whispered to my friend "I think I like him a little bit"
The next day we all went to lunch together again and after lunch he was in one of my classes he wasn't normally in.
I asked him why and he said he'd changed classes but wouldn't tell me why.
So from then we were hanging round together a lot, with him resting his legs on mine, doing my make up and letting me touch his hair...and things were going along nicely...and I actually thought he might like me a little bit too.
However, one sociology lesson, a girl found out I liked the guy and she decided to announce it to the whole class [which luckily, he wasn't in]
It spread around college so fast though, and everytime he walked into the room everyone was like "AWWW! You're little face just lit up!" and it was getting embarassing.
The guy also knew it had been announced who I fancied but luckily he didn't find out it was him. He told me though that I should tell "the guy" I liked him before he found out from someone else.
..so the next day he asked me why he was the only person in college who didn't know who I fancied.
I told him that if he used his brain he should be able to figure that out for himself.
He knew then it was him and replied with "You have a really bad taste in guys"
..and then there was one of those awful awkward silences, which he broke by saying "oh no! Awkward silence!" and then we started talking about random stuff.
Trouble is, we haven't mentioned the whole "I like you" thing since
He was really good about it though I guess as I thought he'd be less "touchy-feely" if he knew I liked him...but everything has gone completley back to normal.
The only problem now is that I haven't a clue where I stand with him and it's been nearly 2 weeks since I told him I liked him and it's going to be so awkward to bring up again.
Plus, surely now he knows how I feel it's up to him to bring it up?
I would have assumed because he didn't say he liked me too that he doesn't like me back, but everyone I know is saying he does, like he called me pretty the other day...
GRRR! I just don't know what to do! Should I bring it up [if so, how?] or should I just wait for him? Do you think he likes me or not? If he does why isn't he saying anything?!
It started about 3 weeks ago when he drew a really good star so I asked him how he did it.
He taught me and then I started drawing stars on his book...so he drew them on mine.
Then he drew them on my arm so I drew them on his.
He sat next to me in Psychology from then on and he always made me laugh.
One lunch time he asked if me and my friends wanted to go to Subway with him, so I said yes.
The lesson after lunch I whispered to my friend "I think I like him a little bit"
The next day we all went to lunch together again and after lunch he was in one of my classes he wasn't normally in.
I asked him why and he said he'd changed classes but wouldn't tell me why.
So from then we were hanging round together a lot, with him resting his legs on mine, doing my make up and letting me touch his hair...and things were going along nicely...and I actually thought he might like me a little bit too.
However, one sociology lesson, a girl found out I liked the guy and she decided to announce it to the whole class [which luckily, he wasn't in]
It spread around college so fast though, and everytime he walked into the room everyone was like "AWWW! You're little face just lit up!" and it was getting embarassing.
The guy also knew it had been announced who I fancied but luckily he didn't find out it was him. He told me though that I should tell "the guy" I liked him before he found out from someone else.
..so the next day he asked me why he was the only person in college who didn't know who I fancied.
I told him that if he used his brain he should be able to figure that out for himself.
He knew then it was him and replied with "You have a really bad taste in guys"
..and then there was one of those awful awkward silences, which he broke by saying "oh no! Awkward silence!" and then we started talking about random stuff.
Trouble is, we haven't mentioned the whole "I like you" thing since
He was really good about it though I guess as I thought he'd be less "touchy-feely" if he knew I liked him...but everything has gone completley back to normal.
The only problem now is that I haven't a clue where I stand with him and it's been nearly 2 weeks since I told him I liked him and it's going to be so awkward to bring up again.
Plus, surely now he knows how I feel it's up to him to bring it up?
I would have assumed because he didn't say he liked me too that he doesn't like me back, but everyone I know is saying he does, like he called me pretty the other day...
GRRR! I just don't know what to do! Should I bring it up [if so, how?] or should I just wait for him? Do you think he likes me or not? If he does why isn't he saying anything?!
Well try asking him out?
my guy friend told me they like it when the girl asks. xD
and It's only akward if you make it. ;D
I wish you luck. :D
Spider Billie, November 17th, 2008 at 06:52:01pm
I wish i knew the answer to that.
Whatever happens, good luck!
Umberto, October 19th, 2008 at 02:53:25am
this happened to me a few years ago,
and I just kind of let it go..
but if you really like him you shouldn't,
just casually bring it up like asking him why he doesn't have a girlfriend or something?
i really don't know,
the male gender is confusing.
hollywood tragedy., October 18th, 2008 at 10:40:33pm
omg i soo wish that i could speak guy language..this happens to me alot.
icegirl., October 18th, 2008 at 04:42:56pm
For one, he sounds like a good guy who likes to be with you for who you are. =)
I would either wait a little longer to see what he says or do what Love suggested and test some of his reactions to certain things.
In My Insanity, October 18th, 2008 at 02:26:33pm
I don't know it's weird, because I would think that if he liked you too he'd have said something like "i like you too" or something. Alternatively, he could just be really shy, i dont know. have you tried getting closer to him when you hang out? like hold his hand or something? if he likes that then that's a good sign =) so maybe test a little his reaction and ask him again in a good moment? definitly dont randomly come up with it, wait for a good moment where it fits in =)
Love, October 18th, 2008 at 01:53:33pm