Guilt. Trouble. Pain. Potential to lose a good friend =[
*Some names have been changed*
Lately I've become friends with two very wonderful people, Christian and Adrienne. They are like my big brother and sister, Christian is 26 and Adrienne is 24. They both like to give me awesome life advice...I freaking love them to DEATH. They are also a couple, been together 5 years or something like that. They live together. They are freaking cute as hell too. Lol. Both weird outcasts...like me. They are awesome. But I am starting to be worried about our relationships. Christian is texting me CONSTANTLY. Everyday, all day. This obviously looks like it could cause a problem with Adrienne. I don't want to lose her as a friend, she is awesome. And more importantly I don't want to put stress on their relationship.
I honestly have no feelings for Christian. I think of him as an older brother. His texts started out ok...but then he started to flirt with me..and its making me quite uncomfortable. He is so nice and we get along soooooo well. We like the same things, have the same opinions...so much in common. So its easy to talk to him all day everyday. But I am starting to fear what Adrienne will do if it continues. Idk what to do =/ We have epic plans to hang out this weekend...Watching Donnie Darko and playing Left 4 Dead... And I have the feeling Adrienne is gonna feel left out. I don't want that. I don't like this. But I just don't know what to do!
Well I'm ending this blog kinda early because I started to fall asleep...and in my sleep I typed "I love his hard drive." Idk where that came from or what it means...lol. But anyway, if any one has advice for this, please help. Thank you =]
Lately I've become friends with two very wonderful people, Christian and Adrienne. They are like my big brother and sister, Christian is 26 and Adrienne is 24. They both like to give me awesome life advice...I freaking love them to DEATH. They are also a couple, been together 5 years or something like that. They live together. They are freaking cute as hell too. Lol. Both weird outcasts...like me. They are awesome. But I am starting to be worried about our relationships. Christian is texting me CONSTANTLY. Everyday, all day. This obviously looks like it could cause a problem with Adrienne. I don't want to lose her as a friend, she is awesome. And more importantly I don't want to put stress on their relationship.
I honestly have no feelings for Christian. I think of him as an older brother. His texts started out ok...but then he started to flirt with me..and its making me quite uncomfortable. He is so nice and we get along soooooo well. We like the same things, have the same opinions...so much in common. So its easy to talk to him all day everyday. But I am starting to fear what Adrienne will do if it continues. Idk what to do =/ We have epic plans to hang out this weekend...Watching Donnie Darko and playing Left 4 Dead... And I have the feeling Adrienne is gonna feel left out. I don't want that. I don't like this. But I just don't know what to do!
Well I'm ending this blog kinda early because I started to fall asleep...and in my sleep I typed "I love his hard drive." Idk where that came from or what it means...lol. But anyway, if any one has advice for this, please help. Thank you =]
Yeah...thats creepy
But I've been there before
Or you can tell Amber and maybe she'll understand and help you out...
=]
vett, December 11th, 2009 at 10:25:15pm
I did invite Amber. Hopefully that will work. If it gets too bad I'm going to definitely tell him that he's being kinda inappropriate. He's not really saying anything major...but just little stuff like "I'd date you if I was single" and "you are cute" and stuff like that...bad news lol.
suburban.zombie, December 11th, 2009 at 11:01:21am
You could either
1. Invite Amber [duh]
2. Remind John that he has a girlfriend
3. Cancel your plans and go have a girls night out with Amber....
=]
Thats what I would have done...
vett, December 11th, 2009 at 07:30:54am