So, now I have to have /sex/ to find out my sexuality?
Aha. I just /love/ how some people bash you--Saying that I'm not a lesbian, and the only thing I can be at 12 is Bi-curious.
No. I know I was Bi last spring, and all my love I've been looking at girls.
I don't like guys, at all. So why tell me I'm not a lesbian?
I know I am. Your born with it, some people just find out before others.
But--Someone online is now telling me I can only be Bi-curious because I didn't have sex with a Male and female. Infact, I didn't have any sex.
Just answer me this, if you have to have sex to find out your gay--Then how do we know we are straight?
Tell me that. Why is it we are automatically supposed to be straight? Do you have to have sex to find that out also?
God, how I hate people who tell someone that is gay--That they aren't. And I can't believe it's actually someone from GSB. I can't believe how rude people have become, on here. Not everyone. Just some.
So, shut up because I'm only 12. Age is just a number.
No. I know I was Bi last spring, and all my love I've been looking at girls.
I don't like guys, at all. So why tell me I'm not a lesbian?
I know I am. Your born with it, some people just find out before others.
But--Someone online is now telling me I can only be Bi-curious because I didn't have sex with a Male and female. Infact, I didn't have any sex.
Just answer me this, if you have to have sex to find out your gay--Then how do we know we are straight?
Tell me that. Why is it we are automatically supposed to be straight? Do you have to have sex to find that out also?
God, how I hate people who tell someone that is gay--That they aren't. And I can't believe it's actually someone from GSB. I can't believe how rude people have become, on here. Not everyone. Just some.
So, shut up because I'm only 12. Age is just a number.
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I was in that postition about 4 months ago.
Addison Montgomery., April 16th, 2007 at 04:54:35am
I think everyone is bisexual cuz most ppl at some point like a girl or guy
but anyway they have no right to tell you that sh*t
your choice they cant tell you when can you choose it or how
Dumbfuck, April 5th, 2007 at 01:13:04am
It's your mind. Not your body. It's not enviormental. Sometimes it might. But most of the time, you really are just born with it. They actually did a study on gay men and they found that had more of a certain chemical than straight people in their brains.
RhymesLikeDimes, April 4th, 2007 at 10:56:05pm
You really aren't born with it
You're body doesn't determine your sexuality
it's the enviroment you're raised in, and other stuff.
It's pyscological
southernidiot, April 4th, 2007 at 10:42:51pm
I've thought I was Bi for ages... I just seemed more interested in models and the girls on TV.
Then I started to become attracted too them, only the famous ones, really.
And about a year ago I started becoming attracted to girls at my school, spendding more time with them and that.
And it wasn't until a girl asked me out that I actually realised 'Hey.. I AM Bi' and we dated for a month or so.
germma margaret!, April 4th, 2007 at 10:33:57pm
I believe that it's different for everyone. Some people have more trouble with figuring out one's self than others do. I think that some have to have sex before they figure it out and I think that some people just know.
It bugs me to no end when people try to set some standard and expect everyone to fit into it. Just because one person had to have sex to find out doesn't mean another had to. The same can be said for most anything, actually.
Everyone is different and unique and it is rude to tell someone they're not something when they know they are. Do you know this particular person? Do you feel what they do? No, I didn't think so. It's no better than labels.
Insurgentes, April 4th, 2007 at 10:29:29pm
It is rude. To tell someone "You aren't a lesbian, you have to have sex first." I don't give a crap about the age thing. Either way, it's a rude and completely stupid thing to say.
RhymesLikeDimes, April 4th, 2007 at 10:26:46pm
It's not rude to suggest that you aren't gay. And I know that you think you're all mature and "age is just a number" but it's not. You will grow up loads still and maybe be lesbian and maybe not. Don't think you've got this thing all figured out, cause hun, nobody does.
new.slang, April 4th, 2007 at 10:14:35pm
I was told its got to do with hormones. But meh, idk, i think its fine, if you know what you are, and your fine with it, then its fine with me.
Vegemite, April 4th, 2007 at 09:25:55pm
Just ignore them
Who cares what they think?
You are what you are
Mike Dirnt., April 4th, 2007 at 09:11:25pm
You are born with it. You just don't turn lesbian or Bi, one night. Let's say I woke up, at night and screamed. "Oh my god! I'm a lesbian now!"
XD
Emily Kaulitz, April 4th, 2007 at 07:45:23pm
Actually, you are. I'm a lesbian, too. And since I can remember, I only had an interest in girls.
RhymesLikeDimes, April 4th, 2007 at 07:43:32pm
Okay, just one thing befor eI say something else: You aren't born with it.
But, you have a MUCHO good point... That's just f*cked... You don't need to have sex to know your sexuailty.
I'm bisexual, mostly leaning towards girls, because guys sorta turn me off now.
That's just really f*cked.... If I know what I am, I know what I am.
Ex.Of.A.Freak.-TCD, April 4th, 2007 at 07:36:20pm
O_O ...no. XDD
RhymesLikeDimes, April 4th, 2007 at 07:25:26pm
XD I think you mean Bono though...Right? You would love to have sex with his, some shuddup. 0_0
Emily Kaulitz, April 4th, 2007 at 07:11:18pm