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dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd)
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Posts: 1942 | May 27th, 2005 at 05:16am Just wondering what people felt about age gaps in relationships. I'm 15, my boyfriend is 17. My mam's fine with it, but my dad has this big issue with it and has told me I can't see him again. However, my dad's never even met him or anything therefore doesn't even know what he's talking about!
Anyhoo, I'm still with him and my mam knows, and won't tell my dad- so I was wondering other people's views on this and other age gap relationships... |
Lunchbox
King For A Couple Of Days
Age: 34
Gender: Female
Posts: 3180 | May 27th, 2005 at 05:19am dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd):Just wondering what people felt about age gaps in relationships. I'm 15, my boyfriend is 17. My mam's fine with it, but my dad has this big issue with it and has told me I can't see him again. However, my dad's never even met him or anything therefore doesn't even know what he's talking about!
Anyhoo, I'm still with him and my mam knows, and won't tell my dad- so I was wondering other people's views on this and other age gap relationships...
It depends on how big the age gap is. And it's not the same if you are 15 and there is an age gap of 5 years, of if you are 40 and there is an age gap of five years. But a 2 year age gap is ok. |
dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd)
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Posts: 1942 | May 27th, 2005 at 05:20am Lunchbox:dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd):Just wondering what people felt about age gaps in relationships. I'm 15, my boyfriend is 17. My mam's fine with it, but my dad has this big issue with it and has told me I can't see him again. However, my dad's never even met him or anything therefore doesn't even know what he's talking about!
Anyhoo, I'm still with him and my mam knows, and won't tell my dad- so I was wondering other people's views on this and other age gap relationships...
It depends on how big the age gap is. And it's not the same if you are 15 and there is an age gap of 5 years, of if you are 40 and there is an age gap of five years. But a 2 year age gap is ok. that's true, it's always different when you're older, isn't it? I mean there's a 7 year gap between my friend's parents, but it makes no difference for some reason. Maybe people just treat "adult" as one age lol |
kueibe
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Posts: 597 | May 27th, 2005 at 05:21am dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd):Just wondering what people felt about age gaps in relationships. I'm 15, my boyfriend is 17. My mam's fine with it, but my dad has this big issue with it and has told me I can't see him again. However, my dad's never even met him or anything therefore doesn't even know what he's talking about!
Anyhoo, I'm still with him and my mam knows, and won't tell my dad- so I was wondering other people's views on this and other age gap relationships...
hey... that's not a really an age gap... jsut TWO YEARS!!! did your dad against you date with boy just because you are smaller than your boy friend for 2 years??Sorry but i need to say it's meaningless for your dad to do this!!
well... for me... age gap is not a problem as long as i can share my thoughts with my mate... |
dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd)
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Posts: 1942 | May 27th, 2005 at 05:24am kueibe:dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd):Just wondering what people felt about age gaps in relationships. I'm 15, my boyfriend is 17. My mam's fine with it, but my dad has this big issue with it and has told me I can't see him again. However, my dad's never even met him or anything therefore doesn't even know what he's talking about!
Anyhoo, I'm still with him and my mam knows, and won't tell my dad- so I was wondering other people's views on this and other age gap relationships...
hey... that's not a really an age gap... jsut TWO YEARS!!! did your dad against you date with boy just because you are smaller than your boy friend for 2 years??Sorry but i need to say it's meaningless for your dad to do this!!
well... for me... age gap is not a problem as long as i can share my thoughts with my mate... I know, I know. People say "oh, it's only 'cos he loves you", but he really doesn't. I've heard him say "I hate you" enough times, and when he said I can't date him, that was the only time in a while i've walked into a room and he hasn't walked out of it. My mam loves me and cares, and she lets me date him? I just don't understand that. |
Lunchbox
King For A Couple Of Days
Age: 34
Gender: Female
Posts: 3180 | May 27th, 2005 at 05:26am dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd):Lunchbox:dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd):Just wondering what people felt about age gaps in relationships. I'm 15, my boyfriend is 17. My mam's fine with it, but my dad has this big issue with it and has told me I can't see him again. However, my dad's never even met him or anything therefore doesn't even know what he's talking about!
Anyhoo, I'm still with him and my mam knows, and won't tell my dad- so I was wondering other people's views on this and other age gap relationships...
It depends on how big the age gap is. And it's not the same if you are 15 and there is an age gap of 5 years, of if you are 40 and there is an age gap of five years. But a 2 year age gap is ok. that's true, it's always different when you're older, isn't it? I mean there's a 7 year gap between my friend's parents, but it makes no difference for some reason. Maybe people just treat "adult" as one age lol
Yeah, but sometimes as you get older there is a less difrence with adults and you. You know what I mean? For some reason adults that have age gaps like, I don't know, 4 years can talk about something, and if there is an age gap like that between kids they wouldn't play together. I don't know why age gaps become less importaint when you grow up, but any way, what is importaint that the guy your dating isn't a jerk. Would your dad be happyer if you dated someone your age who treates you like shit? |
dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd)
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Posts: 1942 | May 27th, 2005 at 05:29am Lunchbox:dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd):Lunchbox:dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd):Just wondering what people felt about age gaps in relationships. I'm 15, my boyfriend is 17. My mam's fine with it, but my dad has this big issue with it and has told me I can't see him again. However, my dad's never even met him or anything therefore doesn't even know what he's talking about!
Anyhoo, I'm still with him and my mam knows, and won't tell my dad- so I was wondering other people's views on this and other age gap relationships...
It depends on how big the age gap is. And it's not the same if you are 15 and there is an age gap of 5 years, of if you are 40 and there is an age gap of five years. But a 2 year age gap is ok. that's true, it's always different when you're older, isn't it? I mean there's a 7 year gap between my friend's parents, but it makes no difference for some reason. Maybe people just treat "adult" as one age lol
Yeah, but sometimes as you get older there is a less difrence with adults and you. You know what I mean? For some reason adults that have age gaps like, I don't know, 4 years can talk about something, and if there is an age gap like that between kids they wouldn't play together. I don't know why age gaps become less importaint when you grow up, but any way, what is importaint that the guy your dating isn't a jerk. Would your dad be happyer if you dated someone your age who treates you like shit? he probably wouldn't care. I had a boyfriend only 6months older than me (but in the above year at school) last year who he watched like a hawk. I mean I'd say he just doesn't want me to date, but he doesn't even care about me, so I can't help but feel it's just spite. |
HeatherElectric
Falling In Love With The Board
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 6156 | May 27th, 2005 at 05:31am age difference shouldnt matter.if your parentscant accept your in love with a guy/girl that is older than you by so many years.my friend had a boyfriend that was 19 when she was 13.it shouldnt matter she still loves him even though she dumped him.parents shouldnt give a fuck |
Comrade182
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Age: 38
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Posts: 10235 | May 27th, 2005 at 05:31am I ahve no problem with an age gap like that, it's 2 years. I don't really like 40 year olds who date 17 year olds. It's kindda scary in my opinon. Although the younger of the couple are over the age of consent (16 in the UK) so there is no real choice, but when there under 16, it's a different matter! |
kueibe
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Posts: 597 | May 27th, 2005 at 05:32am dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd):kueibe:dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd):Just wondering what people felt about age gaps in relationships. I'm 15, my boyfriend is 17. My mam's fine with it, but my dad has this big issue with it and has told me I can't see him again. However, my dad's never even met him or anything therefore doesn't even know what he's talking about!
Anyhoo, I'm still with him and my mam knows, and won't tell my dad- so I was wondering other people's views on this and other age gap relationships...
hey... that's not a really an age gap... jsut TWO YEARS!!! did your dad against you date with boy just because you are smaller than your boy friend for 2 years??Sorry but i need to say it's meaningless for your dad to do this!!
well... for me... age gap is not a problem as long as i can share my thoughts with my mate... I know, I know. People say "oh, it's only 'cos he loves you", but he really doesn't. I've heard him say "I hate you" enough times, and when he said I can't date him, that was the only time in a while i've walked into a room and he hasn't walked out of it. My mam loves me and cares, and she lets me date him? I just don't understand that.
um... I think your mom and dad hv different thoughts about the age gap...
isn't that your dad ban you date with your boyfriend just because some other reason besides the age gap... cuz I think the age gap thing is just an excuse of your dad...sure i think your mom lets you date becuz she love and care you, and she understand the age gap isn't a problem! |
dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd)
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Posts: 1942 | May 27th, 2005 at 05:38am kueibe:dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd):kueibe:dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd):Just wondering what people felt about age gaps in relationships. I'm 15, my boyfriend is 17. My mam's fine with it, but my dad has this big issue with it and has told me I can't see him again. However, my dad's never even met him or anything therefore doesn't even know what he's talking about!
Anyhoo, I'm still with him and my mam knows, and won't tell my dad- so I was wondering other people's views on this and other age gap relationships...
hey... that's not a really an age gap... jsut TWO YEARS!!! did your dad against you date with boy just because you are smaller than your boy friend for 2 years??Sorry but i need to say it's meaningless for your dad to do this!!
well... for me... age gap is not a problem as long as i can share my thoughts with my mate... I know, I know. People say "oh, it's only 'cos he loves you", but he really doesn't. I've heard him say "I hate you" enough times, and when he said I can't date him, that was the only time in a while i've walked into a room and he hasn't walked out of it. My mam loves me and cares, and she lets me date him? I just don't understand that.
um... I think your mom and dad hv different thoughts about the age gap...
isn't that your dad ban you date with your boyfriend just because some other reason besides the age gap... cuz I think the age gap thing is just an excuse of your dad...sure i think your mom lets you date becuz she love and care you, and she understand the age gap isn't a problem! well i can't see how there could be another reason, he's never met him; he won't even give him a chance |
I Heart Bunney
Falling In Love With The Board
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 5929 | May 27th, 2005 at 06:21am Age Gaps shouldn't really matter unless its like an 73 year old dating a 13 year old. |
dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd)
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Posts: 1942 | May 27th, 2005 at 06:24am PinkCandyxxx:Age Gaps shouldn't really matter unless its like an 73 year old dating a 13 year old. *shudders* |
kueibe
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Posts: 597 | May 27th, 2005 at 06:27am u know what. One guy(80 somethings) who got a nobel prize hv married a 22 years old girl which is a student of him recently |
I Heart Bunney
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Age: 33
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Posts: 5929 | May 27th, 2005 at 06:30am dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd):PinkCandyxxx:Age Gaps shouldn't really matter unless its like an 73 year old dating a 13 year old. *shudders*
And they would have Children!!  |
dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd)
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Posts: 1942 | May 27th, 2005 at 06:31am kueibe:u know what. One guy(80 somethings) who got a nobel prize hv married a 22 years old girl which is a student of him recently Sorry, but that would just gross me out, being with a wrinkly old man. When I get serious and maybe even marry the guy i love, I hope he ages well, like bja has done! |
Lunchbox
King For A Couple Of Days
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Posts: 3180 | May 27th, 2005 at 06:31am PinkCandyxxx:Age Gaps shouldn't really matter unless its like an 73 year old dating a 13 year old.
I agree. |
dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd)
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Posts: 1942 | May 27th, 2005 at 06:33am Hey! I've just realised! There's 4yrs difference between my parents! My dad's such a fooking hypocrite! |
kueibe
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Posts: 597 | May 27th, 2005 at 06:44am dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd):kueibe:u know what. One guy(80 somethings) who got a nobel prize hv married a 22 years old girl which is a student of him recently Sorry, but that would just gross me out, being with a wrinkly old man. When I get serious and maybe even marry the guy i love, I hope he ages well, like bja has done!
sorry, but i am just quoting an example to show age gap isn't a problem when love exist between two...sorry if that piss you off |
dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd)
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Posts: 1942 | May 27th, 2005 at 06:45am kueibe:dumbassofsub. (melluvzgd):kueibe:u know what. One guy(80 somethings) who got a nobel prize hv married a 22 years old girl which is a student of him recently Sorry, but that would just gross me out, being with a wrinkly old man. When I get serious and maybe even marry the guy i love, I hope he ages well, like bja has done!
sorry, but i am just quoting an example to show age gap isn't a problem when love exist between two...sorry if that piss you off it didnt piss me off lol! |
