Are girls growing up too fast?

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February 14th, 2007 at 01:11am

I know this is really bad, but I have this thing (bad thing) With the Pussycat Dolls.

What are they teaching young girls these days? I just hate the example they are gicing young kids these days. They dont care if a guy looks at their *Beep*
I mean... First they are like Strippers (dont quote me on that!) And then they say they dont need a man. Men are what gave them money to survive!
I know it its just the PCD, but they are a huge part of it.
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February 14th, 2007 at 02:10am
I interpreted that song to mean that even though they may be seen a certain way, they don't care, because they know that they're smarter than that.

So when it was "I don't care if you're looking at my boobs", they were saying "I don't care if you're looking at my boobs because it doesn't stop me from being intelligent or doing whatever I want to do."
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February 14th, 2007 at 06:19am
But what if the little kiddies don't interpret it like that and think it's cool to wear barely-there shirts or something? "Yes, please, look at my breasts. Revel in the glory that is BEWBZ!"

...?
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February 14th, 2007 at 06:46am
I think you're right.
But it's not just girls that are growing up too fast.
It's everyone really.
If you stay too immature too long then... you can't survive.
And I totally agree on the whole.. pussycat dolls thing. :]
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February 14th, 2007 at 02:25pm
the pussycat dolls thing THANK GOD some sane people honestly
they drive me crazy
my friend was suposed to go see them around two or three weeks ago and i was just like WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU GOING TO THAT FOR it will be like a bluddy porn show

they just make it seem alright to wear next to nothing and quite honestly theres only one real singer in the intire band the rest just stand there dancing
exposing as much flesh as possible
its just disgusting there using there image to sell there music
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February 14th, 2007 at 02:39pm
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the pussycat dolls thing THANK GOD some sane people honestly
they drive me crazy
my friend was suposed to go see them around two or three weeks ago and i was just like WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU GOING TO THAT FOR it will be like a bluddy porn show

they just make it seem alright to wear next to nothing and quite honestly theres only one real singer in the intire band the rest just stand there dancing
exposing as much flesh as possible
its just disgusting there using there image to sell there music


look at your ava.
she is wearing next to nothing; its jsut as suggestive as the PCD
its not right to call out one group/person and not the other.
do i like them? no
but i'm not going to call them out for doing their job. they are grown woman who make their own decisions.

If it anyone's fault, its the parents.
THEY buy the clothes, THEY allow them to leave the house looking "slutty".
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February 14th, 2007 at 03:08pm
Bitchden:
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the pussycat dolls thing THANK GOD some sane people honestly
they drive me crazy
my friend was suposed to go see them around two or three weeks ago and i was just like WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU GOING TO THAT FOR it will be like a bluddy porn show

they just make it seem alright to wear next to nothing and quite honestly theres only one real singer in the intire band the rest just stand there dancing
exposing as much flesh as possible
its just disgusting there using there image to sell there music


look at your ava.
she is wearing next to nothing; its jsut as suggestive as the PCD
its not right to call out one group/person and not the other.
do i like them? no
but i'm not going to call them out for doing their job. they are grown woman who make their own decisions.
fair point
we all got different opinions
i dont see my display picture as reaveling to much
compared to the pussycatdolls but you do
so fair do
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February 14th, 2007 at 08:53pm
I'm thirteen and I know people in my grade who've already had sex with multiple guys. It's just gross. I wonder if people like that realize that their sluts. . .
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February 14th, 2007 at 10:46pm
lyrical_mess:
But what if the little kiddies don't interpret it like that and think it's cool to wear barely-there shirts or something? "Yes, please, look at my breasts. Revel in the glory that is BEWBZ!"

...?


My point exactely!
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February 14th, 2007 at 10:57pm
Basically, most people I go to school with have already had sex multiple times with several people.

What bugs me is that if you are a virgin, you're a prude. But if you're not, you are a total slut, according to the 'sex rules' that seem to have appeared suddenly in the 'How To Survive Teenagerdom Guide.' Rolling Eyes

So no matter, what none of it will heighten you social status, if that's what people are worried about.
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February 15th, 2007 at 02:22am
I don't know how it is in the high school cuz I moved before ninth, but in my old middle school, it really wasn't like that. I mean, this girl (who truly is a whore) laughed at me and went around telling everyone just cuz I said I would probably get my first kiss when I got married. Dno

It was like, the third week of school and she was sitting next to me and I figured I'd strike up a conversation. She had really pretty blue eyes so I mentioned that. She's like "Thanks. Hey! You're in my gym class!" and blahdy bladhy blah. So then out of nowhere she goes "Have you had your first kiss yet?". I wtf-ed cuz we were 11 going on 12. I thought she was talking to someone else, but it turned out she was still talking to me. I was a naive little loser and said that it would be on my wedding day. Don't ask.

She was kind of nice in sixth grade. She became whori-er and whorier. Like, her bra straps were reeaaaalllllllly obviously showign so I was like "Um...Katrina...your shoulder..." and she looks and goes "Ah." and then looks back and me and goes "Oh well." O_o. That was weirdness. I never liked her. She asked me how long I would be a virgin for. I was like "I don't know. Probably until I get married." She laughed like it was a huge joke and went around talking about how innocent I was. Bitch. This is slightly off topic isn't it? I suppose I'm just bitter.

But I guess it's one of the girls that is growing up too fast. She was dating an eight grader in sixth grade. I never knew that sixth graders were even allowed to date until then.
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February 15th, 2007 at 02:18pm
do_da_da:
I'm thirteen and I know people in my grade who've already had sex with multiple guys. It's just gross. I wonder if people like that realize that their sluts. . .
...

Maybe they wanted to do it. How the hell does that make them sluts?
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February 15th, 2007 at 02:20pm
lyrical_mess:
I don't know how it is in the high school cuz I moved before ninth, but in my old middle school, it really wasn't like that. I mean, this girl (who truly is a whore) laughed at me and went around telling everyone just cuz I said I would probably get my first kiss when I got married. Dno

It was like, the third week of school and she was sitting next to me and I figured I'd strike up a conversation. She had really pretty blue eyes so I mentioned that. She's like "Thanks. Hey! You're in my gym class!" and blahdy bladhy blah. So then out of nowhere she goes "Have you had your first kiss yet?". I wtf-ed cuz we were 11 going on 12. I thought she was talking to someone else, but it turned out she was still talking to me. I was a naive little loser and said that it would be on my wedding day. Don't ask.

She was kind of nice in sixth grade. She became whori-er and whorier. Like, her bra straps were reeaaaalllllllly obviously showign so I was like "Um...Katrina...your shoulder..." and she looks and goes "Ah." and then looks back and me and goes "Oh well." O_o. That was weirdness. I never liked her. She asked me how long I would be a virgin for. I was like "I don't know. Probably until I get married." She laughed like it was a huge joke and went around talking about how innocent I was. Bitch. This is slightly off topic isn't it? I suppose I'm just bitter.

But I guess it's one of the girls that is growing up too fast. She was dating an eight grader in sixth grade. I never knew that sixth graders were even allowed to date until then.
So now you're a slut if your bra straps are showing? O_____O
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February 15th, 2007 at 02:22pm
Never said that. She's a slut in general. Just her attitude. I can type up pages about it. But she doesn't care that she has her bra straps showing and that struck me as well...odd. and kind of immodest.
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February 15th, 2007 at 03:29pm
do_da_da:
I'm thirteen and I know people in my grade who've already had sex with multiple guys. It's just gross. I wonder if people like that realize that their sluts. . .


some people mature faster than others.
some people are ready for sex at 13,14,15
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February 15th, 2007 at 05:32pm
Bitchden:

some people are ready for sex at 13,14,15

And some younger than that. My cousin in eighth grade had a girl in her class who had a one year old baby.
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February 15th, 2007 at 08:08pm
Honestly, there's nothing okay with a twelve year old having a kid. I don't know where you live, but where I live its illegal to have sex before 16. Do you think a twelve year old understands the importance of doing something like that? Did the girl even use protection? I'm not prude, I'm just saying if you told that girl knew she was going to get pregnant before she had sex I don't think she would have done it. Not only that, but its not fair for the kid who's never going to have a normal life. When that baby is starting kindergarten her mom will just be graduating from high school.
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February 16th, 2007 at 12:35am
do_da_da:
Honestly, there's nothing okay with a twelve year old having a kid. I don't know where you live, but where I live its illegal to have sex before 16. Do you think a twelve year old understands the importance of doing something like that? Did the girl even use protection? I'm not prude, I'm just saying if you told that girl knew she was going to get pregnant before she had sex I don't think she would have done it. Not only that, but its not fair for the kid who's never going to have a normal life. When that baby is starting kindergarten her mom will just be graduating from high school.


..if she had a kid she obviously didn't use protection.
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February 16th, 2007 at 01:53am
R E B E L:

I mean... First they are like Strippers

You say that as if it's something negative. They are full grown consenting adults with the choice to decide how they want to dress and act. Secondly, they aren't strippers. Strippers are something entirely different, and if someone chooses that as a profession does that make them a bad person? I think not. You are blaming the media for problems society created. Oh, the little 12 year old thinks walking around wearing next to nothing is whats cool and trendy, lets blame whoever we see on tv. No, you don't need some silly scapegoat. Did the pussycat dolls have that 12 year old girl? Are they her parents? Do they have any obligation to her at all? Nope. You can't blame the media for a lack of parenting skills.
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February 16th, 2007 at 01:56am
Bitchden:


look at your ava.
she is wearing next to nothing; its jsut as suggestive as the PCD

Coffee What Dita and the Pussy Cat dolls do is very different, and I gurantee you Dita's burlesque shows are way more 'suggestive' than anything the pussycat dolls could ever even try and do.
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