Do You Think Praying Works?
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Macfadyen Basket Case ![]() Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 16175 | Its.. weird. Something I noticed a few days ago, actually. I was raised to believe in God and my mother's faiths and such. I now choose not to, but I still catch myself, when in pain or in desperate need, just sort of moaning to myself, and asking God for relief.. even though I don't believe in God. -.- I think in hard times, people just need something to believe, something to depend on. I agree with the placebo idea. It doesn't do anything in itself, but if you believe in it hard enough, you'll think it is helping, and because of that, it will help you. |
Peardrops Addict ![]() Age: 36 Gender: Female Posts: 11782 ![]() | Skatanic.: I do that too, actually. I'm an agnostic. I don't know whether God exists or not, and tbh that's fine with me. I'll find out when the time comes. Okay so I do lean more on the "he doesn't exist" side, but I still ask him (or her) for help when i'm struggling. *Shrugs* |
Micro Sheep Falling In Love With The Board ![]() Age: - Gender: - Posts: 7584 | Skatanic.: How do you know if it's just a placebo effect and not a real answer to your prayer? |
Kristmas_Tsanne Great Success! ![]() Age: 32 Gender: Male Posts: 59161 ![]() | Who knows? But it can't do any harm, right? ![]() |
ree-ee-annan King For A Couple Of Days ![]() Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 3158 | I'm an Atheist, so no, i don't think praying works. You make your own way in this world, you get lucky, you make your own sucess. Praying doesn't do it for you. |
Macfadyen Basket Case ![]() Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 16175 | Peardrops: That's basically me. I'm not quite an Athiest or an Agnostic. I don't believe, but I'm not entirely ruling out the possibility, because that would be as blind as following, imo, because there's no proof either way. |
Macfadyen Basket Case ![]() Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 16175 | Micro Sheep.: I don't. I believe. :] |
EvilGiraffe! Addict ![]() Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 13998 ![]() | I don't think praying works, and I don't believe in God... ...and yet, sometimes if I'm really worried about something I still pray... I think in a way, it works as a way to calm you down or make sense of a situation, but not actually as a prayer being answered |
Green Day! Geek ![]() Age: 30 Gender: Female Posts: 112 | Yes, god definately hears you & praying totally helps, it gives you more confindence When I prayed before my math exam, i got confident, & I studied real hard & I got 100% on my math exam ![]() ![]() Some people don't believe in god, but i think everyone should believe in god ![]() |
Anji Basket Case ![]() Age: 35 Gender: Female Posts: 15914 ![]() | ![]() |
lyrical_mess Falling In Love With The Board ![]() Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 5278 ![]() ![]() | Anji: um...? |
Tahm York This Board Is My Home ![]() Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 31394 ![]() | you know, maybe I'm taking it for granted, or something but after he "took" my mom, I just stopped. maybe the fact that you hope something good can come out of it actually makes something good come out of it because I used to pray all the time, for God to keep my family safe, let them live long lives... and you know, my mom got hers cut short, and I've cursed Him numerous times for that reason. but every now and then, I pray. I don't know if He'll still hear me out after I've stopped caring or acknoledging his existence |
Macfadyen Basket Case ![]() Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 16175 | Green Day!: I'd say you got 100% on your math exam because you studied hard and relaxed, rather than getting uptight and worried. The way I see it, people say that sometimes, when your prayers aren't answered, it's because God doesn't think it's best. I see that as an excuse, really. When something you want happens, it's because of God. When it doesn't, it's because God doesn't think it's wise. It can be twisted and portrayed however you want. ![]() |
Macfadyen Basket Case ![]() Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 16175 | Maybe, but why does that mean it's not worth debating? *shrug* I like religious discussions. |
Anji Basket Case ![]() Age: 35 Gender: Female Posts: 15914 ![]() | lyrical_mess:I've had a 'Godot' moment. I don't know who else here has studied 'Waiting for Godot' by Samuel Beckett, raised by Catholics in Ireland, but ended up an atheist and wrote this existentialist play in French. One of the hardest things I've ever done. Anyway, I was reading through all these posts about prayer, and waiting for God to answer them and I had what my old English teacher used to call a 'Godot moment' where you have to laugh at the absurdity of all this waiting, and for what? No one here truely knows. Well, some do, others think that those people don't however, and then those people, they haven't got the slightest clue. What do we wait for? We wait for nothing, everything, we wait for waiting, death, the afterlife? Who knows. And God? He's a (By the way, I don't actually mean this, I'm advocating for Samuel Beckett in this part so you understand what I mean by 'Godot moment'.) human construct. Life is all just a stochastic maze where alleatory explains all, only because we need it to. To understand life, existance, we need others to validate it. That's why when prisoners of war are placed in confinement, you think it's a rather simple method of extraction of information of torture or discipline but it's Hell. There is no one to make contanct with, you can't see, hear, smell, taste anything. Everything becomes one blur, and you don't know if anything exists. If you don't know that anything exists, how do you know you exist? We need others to validate our existance and for some people this other person is God. But of course, when it comes down to it, God is a human construct to validate our existance just like North and South, up and down, left, right, minutes, hours, evening, day, and possibly good and bad? This is why many astronauts go mad in space because they are in a timeless, non-directional place. They realise that everything they know to be truth and fact is actually just human construct to define our lives, like our age, our home, our race, everything we know ourselves to be, it's only the way it is, because we've made it that way. And if you think about it, all these things that were made to give us comfort, only end up giving us pain, like religion, wealth, race, etc. There's this pajorative sturggle that we have given to ourselves in life, and in the end, and now I'm being alleatory, but it ends up being absurd, truely absurd. Funney, eh? (Sarcasm is included in the latter sentence if you didn't understand anything I had previously said.) |
NeoSteph Basket Case ![]() Age: 37 Gender: Female Posts: 16494 ![]() ![]() | ree-ee-annan: ''you get lucky'' well couldn't that possibly be divine intervention. Athiest basically believe in the same thing we do, that some things you have no control over. No difference really, we just like the idea of fluffy clouds and halo's. puts an image to the thought. ![]() |
greendea Jackass ![]() Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 1968 | i think praying works in the believes' hearts... the important is that who believes in god belives in praying but i'm atheist..... |
miau King For A Couple Of Days ![]() Age: 32 Gender: Female Posts: 4469 | Yes, I do. And don't expect me to justify myself here, I answered the question and that's it. |
rollerpig GSBitch ![]() Age: 33 Gender: Female Posts: 62283 | SUPERSONiC.:Specific Discussion. ![]() |
Sylar Falling In Love With The Board ![]() Age: 35 Gender: Female Posts: 5703 | I remember reading somewhere when I was little a conversation between two people about praying. I can't remember the exact wording, but it went something like this; "If there is a God, and He does have a power of sorts over us, why hasn't he put a stop to all the wars, poverty and damage we're doing to the planet?" " Do you have a child?" "Yes... How's that relevant?" "Well, have you ever given them something you knew they could potentially hurt themselves with? A skateboard, or rollerblades perhaps?" "Yes." "And did you take it away from them when they hurt themselves?" "No, I just kept a close eye on them because I knew they were still having fun." "So how do you know God's not jsut doing that?" Now, at the time, I remember thinking, "Wow, that makes total sense!", but then I got older and thought about it some more and it was like, "Well, if the child does enough damage then the parent would definately take the toy away from them!" So why would God have not intervened by now? (I know this isn't technically related to praying, but I thought it might strike up some discussion ![]() |
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