Im confused.
I have a question for people. Yes this is another one of those relationship problems. This girl, I really like her, but I have been her friend for a while. Last week I recently told her that I had a crush on her and she laughed it off. The next day I brought it up to her and she said she likes me too but she thought I was just kidding. I told her I wasnt and we talked for a little bit about it. I was planning on asking her to be my GF,but that changed. Recently she told me she doesnt like me anymore, and that I didnt really like her, that I am playing her. I tried to explain to her that its not true but she wont listen. Idk what made her change her mind. We were talknig fine a few days before. Her friend told me that she was lying when she said she liked me, so that she wouldnt make me upset. Do you think that could be true? I dont want it to be casue i really like her.
I need some advice. What should I do!!
I need some advice. What should I do!!
I must agree with vonny.
Live by that peice of advice.
But if that is not enough, being a girl, I'll tell you what I would like from a guy, if it helps. I suggest doing something cleverly charming. Something that she will have a hard time forgetting, but nothing flashy or over the top. Something genuine, something that makes her feel like she's wanted, and that she's not alone. Original, and remarkable. I don't know exactly what - there are infinite possibilities.
Or, just go with vonny's advice. ;)
davey jones., July 3rd, 2007 at 04:35:25am
What might have happened is that she values your friendship and is scared that a gf/bf relationship might ruin that. Alternatively, she's, for want of a better word, scared. I don't know why this could be, but she might like you too but is anxious about going any further than that.
If you really like her, and she's a good friend, she shouldn't try and reject your feelings.
The Brightside., July 2nd, 2007 at 11:15:18pm
Um I don't really know the answer to your question, but there is one thing you should know about girls. Might not be the case but possibly. Sounds to me like she's talked to someone about it, probably one of her friends and they have said you are just playing her, and she has believed them - you trust your friends right?. Girls can be like that, they can be jealous of the fact you like her, or they just don't want her to have someone. Some girls see that as a threat, like they will lose their friend to a guy. I don't know for sure, but it really sounds like someone in the background is stirring this up as there is nothing obvious from what you have said above for the change of heart, as far as you and her are directly concerned. Maybe you could ask her directly if someone has said something. Sorry can't be of more help.
Grandma, July 2nd, 2007 at 08:19:34pm
maybe she's scared of the fact that she likes you back and is afraid to lose your friendship
hence the reason she is trying to shy away and make you think she doesnt like you
trust me girls hate letting guys be able to toy with thier emotions
paper heart., July 2nd, 2007 at 08:17:27pm
Same as Marissa...I'm like that sometimes too, but if a guy does things that make it seem like he seriously likes me, I'm not as paranoid.
lishaaaaa, July 2nd, 2007 at 08:17:20pm
i think you should talk to her again. but make sure she is by herself cuz sometimes people act different in public. tell her the truth and ask her to do the same. maybe she was just in a bad mood before...
and ya i agree with marissa
Abbey doesn't know, July 2nd, 2007 at 08:17:05pm
It sounds like she likes you, but doesn't believe it herself.
She thinks it's a cruel joke, probabley.
SO do I think you should show her in little ways that you really do like her.
hollywood tragedy., July 2nd, 2007 at 08:15:24pm
I am not good in these situations.
So, I'll give you the one piece of advice I have:
Good things come to those who wait.
vonny, July 2nd, 2007 at 08:15:04pm