how forgive who hurt you the most.
I am having trouble recently. Me and my father have a complex past and he wants back in my life with my children and such. he finally wants to be dad but I"m afriad of him treating my children how he treated me. I believe people can change but my father is a bad man and I dont think he could possibly change this much. I really don't know w hat to do I don't want to start some big family drama case but yet I don't want to get hurt or have my kids hurt more importantly. I've tried to make a desicion but sometimes its hard to pick what would be right to do
i would let him back in but would never ever get too close to him. yes be polite and kind but dont get to caught up in what may be a trick!
by the sounds of things you feel insecure.
i hope all goes well!
BeautyInBreakDown--, October 6th, 2007 at 09:20:50am
Maybe give him a chance and see how it goes.
Skippy., October 6th, 2007 at 07:16:14am
I'ma be strait forward.
Persionally I wouldn't let him in. I'm a hardass. The right thing to do would be give him a chance and if he messes up tell him to leave, and if he refueses do some legal stuff. I'm not exactly sure how it works but I do know that the legal parent/guardian (since you gave birth to your kids thats you) always wins unles deemed unfit to raise kids(that means alcholoic, drug addict, hoocker ect.).
Blarg!, October 6th, 2007 at 05:38:23am