It’s Official

I took everyone’s advice and asked Chad out. The advice I got couldn’t have been better:

James Sulli-Neutron:
Age is nothing when it comes to love, never let anybody tell you otherwise.

From what i've read, he seems to be a really nice boy. I think you should date him if you like him that much. But lay down some ground rules, Like 'no sex until you're ready for it', 'dont force me into anything'. Stuff like that, Just to reinforce things. *nod*

paper heart:
when a dad likes a guy for his daughter it must mean that guy is defo something special because dads are very overprotective
and tbh i think from the sounds of things this guy would never rush you into anything, and you must be quite special to him for him to be so close to you and love you despite the age differnce so he would be aware of the boundries
and i really think age shouldnt count if its true love involved
i mean if he was flirting with you and trying to pass sexual comments then thats different that would be lust
but this sounds like love and i know you dont want to be rushed or hurt if he wants something more, but i think you two will learn more from each other as a couple and prehaps in a few years time if your both together then you may be ready to move forward a step
i would suggest you date him, delay it for too long and you may end up breaking his heart.

Skippy; Ricolaaa!:
If you and your dad really like him, then go for it. Age difference shouldn't matter. If he tries to force you to do something, tell him to stop. And if he doesn't, he obviously has no respect for you.

reject08:
if your dad likes him, you like him, and you trust him, there should be no problem.

the only problem with age is usually the maturity difference. most of the time this means 19 year old boys are much more sexually mature (and sometimes mentally, but not often..haha) than 15 year old girls. as long as hes not forcing you into anything, it is definitely okay. its a good sign that your dad even trusts him =]

you know, when you get to be an adult, a four year age difference is nothing at all. its just when you are growing up it seems so much bigger.

DaschundPup2007:
I'd go for it!!! Age is just a number....

About the whole sex thing, I see your point. I would talk to Chad about that, just telling him that you don't want to be come that involved so soon...

He was so happy; the smile on his face was huge.

I went over to his house, his mum answered the door and took me to his room, he was lying on his bed with all the lights off, watching Edward Scissorhands, he sat up and gave me a hug like we always do when we see each other, I told him how much I love him and asked him to go out with me, he got off his bed, got down on one knee and started kissing my hand, he stood up and said “hell yea I’ll go out with you”, we started jumping and hugged each other, then it went quiet, he looked into my eyes and said “we might as well make it official” and that was our first kiss and my first kiss EVER. He grabbed my hand and we both ran out to his backyard to tell his parents the good news, they were really happy for us. We walked back to my house to tell dad the good news, the first thing he did when we told him was give Chad a “manly” hug and said “Welcome to the family, son” we all laughed. Dad drove us back to Chad’s house, he sat out the back with Chad’s parents and me and Chad were in his garage deciding what could be “our song”, we decided “When I see you smile” by Bad English was the perfect song. For our first date we went to La Porchetta, it was the perfect first date. I’m the happiest I’ve been in a long time and if I hadn’t asked for advice on GSB I wouldn’t be so happy and I wouldn’t have made my amazing boyfriend so happy. It feels weird calling him my boyfriend cause I’ve never had one lol. Thank you all again for the best advice I could get.