Its only been a week and I think I love him...comments?---Revised
I appreciate advice given to me through blog comments. I agree I may be immature in style of writing at times, I do not believe it is expressing how I truly am. I think, care, and love deeply in a very mature way. My blog did not express this. I am taking back the things I was saying about Kyle. I will say a bit more about Justin since I erased this all. I care about Justin a lot. I get along with him so unbelievably well. I have thought about him for months now. I think there is something between us, I really do. At the very least I've found a really great friend. I am human and I am attracted to him. I am attracted to his looks and his personality. We have so much in common. We talk to each other about everything. I can relate to him. This isn't some guy with one redeeming quality and I know I do this a lot and say this a lot and say I've found someone really great. Its just this time I'm really thinking that I truly have. I can't talk to anyone else like I can Justin. My friend Andrew wants to hang out with me all the time and wonders why I'd rather talk to Justin on MSN than talk to him. I feel bad, but I just want to talk to Justin every second I can.
I was going to change this blog and take out everything about Justin or Kyle. But you know what, I genuinely like Justin. I think I have the right to like him, I've known him for quite awhile. He doesn't have "one redeeming quality." He is an amazing guy. And I like it that he smokes pot. Cause I do too. And it is assloads of fun. haha. I'm sorry if I came off as rude to you guys and not accepting of advice. I do listen. Or read rather. I still don't agree with everything that was said, but I'm trying to think about what was said regardless. I still like Justin and I'm not changing that. The Kyle thing was stupid. I am serious about Justin though. I have been serious about him. I am so serious I met him in person. I have never done that before. I took a chance and I don't regret it because now he is trying his hardest to come see me...Thank you all sincerely for your comments and putting up with my arguments.
I was going to change this blog and take out everything about Justin or Kyle. But you know what, I genuinely like Justin. I think I have the right to like him, I've known him for quite awhile. He doesn't have "one redeeming quality." He is an amazing guy. And I like it that he smokes pot. Cause I do too. And it is assloads of fun. haha. I'm sorry if I came off as rude to you guys and not accepting of advice. I do listen. Or read rather. I still don't agree with everything that was said, but I'm trying to think about what was said regardless. I still like Justin and I'm not changing that. The Kyle thing was stupid. I am serious about Justin though. I have been serious about him. I am so serious I met him in person. I have never done that before. I took a chance and I don't regret it because now he is trying his hardest to come see me...Thank you all sincerely for your comments and putting up with my arguments.
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Assloads
Meerkat, October 22nd, 2009 at 05:33:12pm
Oh, and btw, weed = fun.
Assloads of fun.
TO BE DELETED, October 22nd, 2009 at 02:49:39pm
I'll be honest, Love has summed this up in a nutshell for me.
THAT is what I was trying to say to you. I'm sorry for giving you advice that you didn't want to hear. And Lydia has clarified why my advice was negative. :)
TO BE DELETED, October 22nd, 2009 at 02:43:47pm
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Alright but you aren't giving advice you are judging and criticizing.
This is what i mean. People are giving you advice and your saying its judging/criticizing. Thats what giving advice is. If you were to give advice that you liked, it would be JUDGING and then complimenting. In order to give any type of adivce you must judge people and then criticize/complimet etc. There's no point asking for advice if your not willing to take it.
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Do you not feel that way when you like a person?
No not really. It seems as if you live in the one place in the world where there is a whole colony of "the sweetest guys in the world" living within a three hour drive.It seems as though after a few days of meeting these guys there are the best people in the world, but its not just one guy, its ALL of them.
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You quoted me but didn't tell me what that quote had to do with immaturity
If you were refering to the start of my comment, i meant that what you were doing was immature. You dont analyse people like they are exsperiments in a lab, and then rant about going with your heart or how absolutly wonderful they are, you cant possibly have had enough time to "analyse" them yet. And you cant just "analyse" people in a few days and then talk about how perfect they are for you. Countless times people have thought they have found the sweetest most lovely guy and after a few years they turn into violent abbusive drunks, because they just hadn't done anything like that yet to be "analyzed", but its still in them. Also, no offence but the way you write is pretty immature, its barely a step up from "he said this so then i said that and he is sooo totally super awsome, so then he said this and i said that, so he said this etc"
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I have not got one bit of advice, only attacks
Sorry but you have, just advice that you dont like.
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And obviously you are all taking this wayyyy too seriously
Dont mean to be rude but your the one that writes the 50 page long blogs, and replying to the comments in great detail.
No offence really, we are just trying to give you advice. Even if you dont like the advice your getting. Its still advice. Personally i'd agree with Love anyway. Just say away for abit.
Meerkat, October 22nd, 2009 at 01:10:46pm
I gave you advice. I said you should take a mental break off guys.
Also, to me most of your past blogs seem like the guys in them are THE most amazing persons...and their names are always changing. This is why I think your head needs to get a break from guys for a while and work out what you really want. Because it seems like it's confusing you too much.
Moreover your title is provoking comments like this.
We don't mean to be mean to you or anything, we just want to help. This is not a battle...don't forget that.
Love, October 22nd, 2009 at 10:58:03am
Alright but you aren't giving advice you are judging and criticizing. And not looking at the whole picture. Tell me again, what is wrong with looking at the people who like me and analyzing my options with them. I am 19, I am at the point in life where I have to make choices on who I want to be and who I want to surround myself with. So I am taking these two guys in my life and looking at their lives and seeing if either of them are right for me. I am not in a relationship with either, nor do I plan on being in one anytime soon seeing as how they live in the town that I only live in during the summer. I guess maybe you don't understand the point of the blog. You have not given advice, you have told me I'm immature and not ready for a relationship. Yet I am not in one nor am I planning on being in one for awhile. Your "advice" does not make sense and I really don't think you are actually reading the blog. Maybe you should try to get the picture before trying to give "advice".
suburban.zombie, October 22nd, 2009 at 09:29:23am
Oh, and thank you for the agreement, Love :)
TO BE DELETED, October 22nd, 2009 at 05:00:45am
reject08, this is what I was trying to tell you.
We are offering you advice and you are are doing the cyber equivelant of sticking your fingers in your ears and going 'lalalalalala'.
Either do not post these blogs, or accept ALL advice, good or bad. Otherwise it makes your blogs just a tad redundant.
TO BE DELETED, October 22nd, 2009 at 04:57:14am
slappy- I'm not sure I understand why you said "I'm only a senior in high school". Are you implying that you don't need to know how to spell college or something else? (not trying to be mean, just wondering)
Lydia- My definition of what a blog can be is an expression of emotions. Do you not feel that way when you like a person? How is that immature? I'm pretty sure I can ask just about anyone who has a crush on someone to describe their feelings and they would say similar things. You quoted me but didn't tell me what that quote had to do with immaturity. As for the advice part, some people are taking this situation out of context. I guess my main point was not asking if I was leading my life the wrong way, it was advice on which guy seemed like the better pick and if anyone had that kind of connection so quickly as I did with Kyle. I have not got one bit of advice, only attacks on my "immaturity". Which everyone on here does not understand because you all do not know if I am immature or mature because you have read a few blogs. And obviously you are all taking this wayyyy too seriously. Like I said, I am looking at two guys who I like and analyzing my options. Both live 3 hours away, its not like I'm dating them any time soon, I won't move back until May.
Love- I don't see why I should "mentally" stay away from guys. I don't even understand what you mean by that. Stop talking to them? Stop having crushes? What have I done wrong here and what danger am I in? Look around at all these girls on here who obsess about way stupider things than this. I am making a mature decision on what kind of guy I want in my life, not even necessarily these guys. Once again, they live three hours away in the city I only live in during the summer. So I am pretty sure I'm pretty distant mentally and physically. But please elaborate what danger I am putting myself in by thinking.
suburban.zombie, October 21st, 2009 at 06:56:44pm
Woo, sorry I'm only a senior in highschool.
I did read it.
Good for you.
I'm not going to say any more, cause you're just going to obsess over reading every mistake I make and try to pull it out even longer.
-that's what she said-
captain america, October 21st, 2009 at 04:33:31pm
I mean mentally, not physically.
Love, October 21st, 2009 at 02:07:09pm
I don't see looking at people and analyzing if they are datable or not is immature or whatever you are trying to say.
Its not particually what you do that is immature (example: Dating Boys) Its how you go about it.
Its like
I know. He makes me smile constantly. I think about him all the time, I dream about him. We text everyday, all day. And we adore each other,Oh and its killing me to not be in Sandusky. Where Kyle lives.I am heartbroken that we are so far away.Its easy to adore each other from afar.
But then again
I like Justin loads too.He's wondeful
Alsoooo whats with the
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I'm ready for the "you are too boy crazy" and "you aren't ready for a relationship" comments. My preconceived response is YOU DON'T KNOW ME. So please don't judge =]
Well if you going to ask for advice, you cant really use the exscuse YOU DONT KNOW ME. That pretty much counteracts ALL advice given. Good or bad.
Meerkat, October 21st, 2009 at 12:50:27pm
Well I guess that is your guys opinions but you really don't know. I don't see where you are coming from. I don't see looking at people and analyzing if they are datable or not is immature or whatever you are trying to say. I also don't get what you mean by staying away from guys when I haven't been in a serious relationship for a year, I haven't had a boyfriend since June, and I haven't done anything physical with a guy since the very beginning of July. I think I'm doing a pretty good job here of staying away from guys, I believe that makes it almost 4 months since I've been with a guy in any way, shape, or form. Maybe other people don't try to make educated decisions regarding their lives. I have took a step far back and am analyzing options. Once again, I haven't dated anyone since June.
suburban.zombie, October 21st, 2009 at 07:39:08am
sorry but you don't act like you're 19 years old. i think you should get away from guys for a while. I agree to what The Squirrel Meister seid in all her comments.
Love, October 21st, 2009 at 05:07:37am
I am 19. And IN college. You are spelling it wrong. Sorry. Pet peeve of mine...
Anyways, like I said, read the blog, it is not about being in love. At all.
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"Ok before you think I'm crazy, only as a friend. Maybe. Lol. No seriously. I might LIKE him as more than a friend...which intensifies the friend-love. But I am not IN love with him."
suburban.zombie, October 21st, 2009 at 04:38:04am