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Posts: 1973 | September 5th, 2006 at 03:19am Sheepo@_@:xXx_I want my cookie_xXx:i've wanted to cut myself... but i've never done it... but im tempted to because i don't know if i can vent any other way anymore... Try running instead. Just run...and run some more when it hurts. Its the same isnt it? Im not trying to poke fun at this serious matter. But maybe taking up something could help. Like breaking things or running or weight lifting. idk. It helps me, alot. o_o
Yep. 
I do not encourage breaking things though....you break stuff and people will think you have a problem just like if you cut. Which you do...I would see cutting or breaking things as something a 7 or 8 year old would do, immature ways to 'solve' problems.
You do need help if you do those things, but not a councelor...the kind of help you need if you cut is help finding something better to do when you're depressed.
Suicide, is the most selfish and immature solution to your problems.
If you're 'depressed', seeing a councelor is a good idea, assuming you will actually talk to them and try to make yourself happier.
Personally, I wouldn't take the drugs though, some depression pills are just as bad for you as heroine. Doing THINGS to make yourself feel better is a good thing.
Outdoor excercise = one of the best things you can do.
Drawing is also good, you just need to not judge what you draw.
Writing stuff is also a good way.
Alright i'm done. |
Melissa.
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Posts: 1260 | September 5th, 2006 at 06:17am Here's something quick, and I'll post something else later.
Cutting: One of my friends cut themselves a few times last year. I asked her why she did and she said it was to releve the hurt and pain that she had inside her. Hurting your self is'nt a way to make yourself feel better. It'll make you feel worse.
I'm done now. |
Siva
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Posts: 3708 | September 5th, 2006 at 03:09pm sometimes i dont get why people cut themselves.If you are in pain and depressed i dont get how cutting yourself makes you feel a little bit better, maybe it does i dont know. |
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Posts: 22225 | September 5th, 2006 at 04:17pm Siva:sometimes i dont get why people cut themselves.If you are in pain and depressed i dont get how cutting yourself makes you feel a little bit better, maybe it does i dont know. I never quite understood it, myself. But I have a few friends that cut. I talked to one about it and she said that it's like a release. Feeling the physical pain helps to keep her mind off of emotional pain. It's a really bad way to go about dealing with problems, though. It's obviously not healthy at all. And it's not gonna make your emotional pain go away. It will just make you hurt in two ways at once. |
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  | September 6th, 2006 at 08:41am I reckon cutting is for the weak but they need love and help. Except those attention seekers that go around and tell everyone they cut and have 2 tiny scratches on their arm. They need to be ignored  |
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Posts: 170 | September 7th, 2006 at 04:52pm Shannon [Loves 30STM]:I cut myself, and I've tried to commit suicide a lot of times... I don't think that it's bad.  The cutting helps me get through my hard times and I know not to cut too deep, so, it's not really harmful. I personally dont' think that it's wrong for someone to commit suicide, it's you life... you live it for you and not for anyone else, if someone thinks that they should die, then that's what they think. I don't understand why everyone makes such a big deal of it, when people cut themselves. 
Same. I also couldn't agree more. |
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Posts: 145 | September 8th, 2006 at 06:10pm fancy pants:Siva:sometimes i dont get why people cut themselves.If you are in pain and depressed i dont get how cutting yourself makes you feel a little bit better, maybe it does i dont know. I never quite understood it, myself. But I have a few friends that cut. I talked to one about it and she said that it's like a release. Feeling the physical pain helps to keep her mind off of emotional pain. It's a really bad way to go about dealing with problems, though. It's obviously not healthy at all. And it's not gonna make your emotional pain go away. It will just make you hurt in two ways at once.
yeah and then it makes the emotional problems worse because you'll overreact with them if you cut. |
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Posts: 145 | September 8th, 2006 at 06:11pm When Hayley Comes Around:I reckon cutting is for the weak but they need love and help. Except those attention seekers that go around and tell everyone they cut and have 2 tiny scratches on their arm. They need to be ignored
..and if they do it for attention, they obviously have problems with wanting attention so bad which is aother problem itself.
"ignoring an attention seeker, is like ignoring a hungry baby crying." |
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Posts: 3645 | September 8th, 2006 at 06:45pm Pluto's Bitch. Nicole.:Shannon [Loves 30STM]:I cut myself, and I've tried to commit suicide a lot of times... I don't think that it's bad. The cutting helps me get through my hard times and I know not to cut too deep, so, it's not really harmful. I personally dont' think that it's wrong for someone to commit suicide, it's you life... you live it for you and not for anyone else, if someone thinks that they should die, then that's what they think. I don't understand why everyone makes such a big deal of it, when people cut themselves.
Same. I also couldn't agree more.
I'm gonna talk about heroin! (This isn't random.)
Some people take heroin to take their mind off things and they don't think it's wrong at all.
But I can see why some make a big deal out of it because it's harmful.
Same with cutting. |
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| September 8th, 2006 at 08:55pm Zé Number Dance.:Shannon [Loves 30STM]:I cut myself, and I've tried to commit suicide a lot of times... I don't think that it's bad. The cutting helps me get through my hard times and I know not to cut too deep, so, it's not really harmful. I personally dont' think that it's wrong for someone to commit suicide, it's you life... you live it for you and not for anyone else, if someone thinks that they should die, then that's what they think. I don't understand why everyone makes such a big deal of it, when people cut themselves.
Same. I also couldn't agree more. Some people make a big deal about it because those some people have probably lost someone due to suicide. If you hate your life and wanna die, like you said its your life but what about people who had people that loved them? Some view them as selfish for religious views and because they were only thinking of themselves. I mean, and Im gonna use what happened in my life to explain. My brother was having a tough time in life and he just believed it was very hard to keep on living, he had lost faith in everything and he wanted to kill himself. He got drunk one night and wanted to go flip over his truck. My mother kept trying to talk him out of it but he wouldnt listen. When she said "Think of everyone you'd hurt!" He didnt care. Then she brought "Think of your sister and how alone you'd leave her!" He got out of the truck. ._. [i miss him.] Anyway, I know not everyone has someone who loves them and they're totally alone but why dont they get help? Someone to talk to? Because they're afraid or to lazy? I dont rightly know but i dont agree with people killing each other or themselves thats all i know. |
wish_i_was_adie
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| September 16th, 2006 at 12:34pm The thing is, when you cut yourself, it might take your mind off the emotional pain for a while but then you have to see your scars every single day. Wouldn't that remind you of both the emotional AND the physical pain you endured? Trust me, I've known more than my share of emotional pain, but EVERY TIME you look at the scars, you'll be reminded, and that adds to the emotional pain you may already carry with you. |
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Posts: 6232 | September 20th, 2006 at 04:30pm Robot:Sheepo@_@:xXx_I want my cookie_xXx:i've wanted to cut myself... but i've never done it... but im tempted to because i don't know if i can vent any other way anymore... Try running instead. Just run...and run some more when it hurts. Its the same isnt it? Im not trying to poke fun at this serious matter. But maybe taking up something could help. Like breaking things or running or weight lifting. idk. It helps me, alot. o_o
Yep.
I do not encourage breaking things though....you break stuff and people will think you have a problem just like if you cut. Which you do...I would see cutting or breaking things as something a 7 or 8 year old would do, immature ways to 'solve' problems.
You do need help if you do those things, but not a councelor...the kind of help you need if you cut is help finding something better to do when you're depressed.
Suicide, is the most selfish and immature solution to your problems.
If you're 'depressed', seeing a councelor is a good idea, assuming you will actually talk to them and try to make yourself happier.
Personally, I wouldn't take the drugs though, some depression pills are just as bad for you as heroine. Doing THINGS to make yourself feel better is a good thing.
Outdoor excercise = one of the best things you can do.
Please dont join us because now i cant stop and u do not want to do it
Drawing is also good, you just need to not judge what you draw.
Writing stuff is also a good way.
Alright i'm done. |
no wai, Mikey Wai!
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Posts: 6232 | September 20th, 2006 at 04:33pm hey i could really use someone to talk about these topics to. PLease IM me if u wanna talk or feel the same way. slimebug77 |
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| September 20th, 2006 at 08:17pm I can't stop cutting myself. It's too hard. Every night, I think about cutting too deep. I don't nescessarily want to die, but the pain is just so satisfying. I recently started therapy for my treatment, and HATE IT! I've been cutting more and more as the next session comes nearer and nearer.
At the moment, I'm in soccer, and we have to wear short sleeves, so I cut my forearm. But before the soccer season, I cut my wrists.
I've told only my closest friends, but somehow (I know how. That bitch, Cahli told everyone) everyone knows now. All the descrimination hurts so much. I'm called "the emo freak" and "the retarded fake-cutter" constantly. i'm not "emo" and I don't fake it. http://360.yahoo.com/my_profile-BnVGZfM_frAZoXj9Bo4r3XTCvhFgPxzlVFzuUWJrYTM-?cq=1 --there are some pics there. If there's another cutter here, I'd really like to talk! Pm me!
Anna |
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| September 20th, 2006 at 08:21pm Melissa.:Here's something quick, and I'll post something else later.
Cutting: One of my friends cut themselves a few times last year. I asked her why she did and she said it was to releve the hurt and pain that she had inside her. Hurting your self is'nt a way to make yourself feel better. It'll make you feel worse.
I'm done now.
The physical pain kinda lets you forget the emotional pain for a while. Just seeing the scars makes me feel 10x better. |
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| September 20th, 2006 at 08:46pm The Saviour Of The Broken:Shannon [Loves 30STM]:I cut myself, and I've tried to commit suicide a lot of times... I don't think that it's bad. The cutting helps me get through my hard times and I know not to cut too deep, so, it's not really harmful. I personally dont' think that it's wrong for someone to commit suicide, it's you life... you live it for you and not for anyone else, if someone thinks that they should die, then that's what they think. I don't understand why everyone makes such a big deal of it, when people cut themselves.
Same. I also couldn't agree more.
I second that, too. |
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| September 20th, 2006 at 08:50pm I've also noticed that if you put a band-aid on your cuts, they heal a lot faster. they leave a bigger scar, too. |
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Posts: 31155 | September 20th, 2006 at 08:54pm HIDEtheSCARSwithAsmile:I can't stop cutting myself. It's too hard. Every night, I think about cutting too deep. I don't nescessarily want to die, but the pain is just so satisfying. I recently started therapy for my treatment, and HATE IT! I've been cutting more and more as the next session comes nearer and nearer.
At the moment, I'm in soccer, and we have to wear short sleeves, so I cut my forearm. But before the soccer season, I cut my wrists.
I've told only my closest friends, but somehow (I know how. That bitch, Cahli told everyone) everyone knows now. All the descrimination hurts so much. I'm called "the emo freak" and "the retarded fake-cutter" constantly. i'm not "emo" and I don't fake it. http://360.yahoo.com/my_profile-BnVGZfM_frAZoXj9Bo4r3XTCvhFgPxzlVFzuUWJrYTM-?cq=1 --there are some pics there. If there's another cutter here, I'd really like to talk! Pm me!
Anna ... Most people don't flaunt it like you. Like for example in your Sig.. or your info on your yahoo thing. It kinda puzzled me. If you don't want all this attention for it maybe you could stop like throwing that around.
But it's good I guess that your open about you do. |
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| September 20th, 2006 at 09:14pm Shannon [Loves 30STM]:I cut myself, and I've tried to commit suicide a lot of times... I don't think that it's bad. The cutting helps me get through my hard times and I know not to cut too deep, so, it's not really harmful. I personally dont' think that it's wrong for someone to commit suicide, it's you life... you live it for you and not for anyone else, if someone thinks that they should die, then that's what they think. I don't understand why everyone makes such a big deal of it, when people cut themselves.
I know people who's been self-harming for more than a decade, and yet, they hit a vein, when they thought it was impossible. It's happened to me too after almsot a year of cutting myself. you're never save from cutting too deep, or getting an infection, no matter how much confident you are of your...ummm..."skills", let's say, to cut yourself. |
BeautifulxxDISASTER
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Posts: 2 | September 20th, 2006 at 09:22pm I agree with lots of you, & if you really wanna commit suicide, then go right ahead. Its your life, nobody can tell you not to. well, they can, but its your life. do whatever the fuck you want.. |
