Toyboys etc.

...No offence to the people concerned.....but 15.....

..........technically paedophilia.....I'm sure you know my opinion of that

H-F-P-R
Dead by Xmas

Nine_Inch_Nails:

My opinion? Well...like you said..they DO love each other, and in that respect I wish them luck. That's my heart reaction.
My head reaction tells me otherwise though, it's saying G.C.S.E year, you REALLY shouldn't be having a baby this year! I mean, she hasn't got a job or anything, and he's not in a good job.
But..it's their life.

i think thats a really good point for you to make, cause it's right but you've said things that might be going against your friend. and thats always a good thing to be able to do.

auh-buh-cuh-s:

Nine_Inch_Nails:

My opinion? Well...like you said..they DO love each other, and in that respect I wish them luck. That's my heart reaction.
My head reaction tells me otherwise though, it's saying G.C.S.E year, you REALLY shouldn't be having a baby this year! I mean, she hasn't got a job or anything, and he's not in a good job.
But..it's their life.

i think thats a really good point for you to make, cause it's right but you've said things that might be going against your friend. and thats always a good thing to be able to do.

Thanks!
Don't worry, I've told her too. She's like "I know, but I love Garry" etc etc.

Nine_Inch_Nails:

Thanks!
Don't worry, I've told her too. She's like "I know, but I love Garry" etc etc.

but its still, in my eyes, not a sensible thing to do. im not a fan of teenage pregnancy.

I think it can be quite weird...but love doesn't have an age limit.

Joe Robot:

I think it can be quite weird...but love doesn't have an age limit.

couldn't have said it any better

Snow White:

I don't think age has anything to do with love. If you fall in love with someone, age doesn't matter anymore. As long as both the partners are happy with each other, I don't care about how old they are. I admit that it sounds pretty weird to me when a 20-year old woman falls in love with an 80-year old man, but I don't think it's morally wrong.

I agree

it's their lives
they should do what makes THEM happy not what woukd make the rest of the world happy

It really depends on the people. Some big age gap relationships are like people who just a younger piece of stuff but some are because they genuinely want to be together.

It doesn't bother me. I mean, right now, yeah, it seems gross, but so does the thought of homosexuality to some people. Who knows, tomorrow I may meet and eventually fall in love with someone more than twice my age. Unlikely, but I'm pretty open-minded about this kinda thing. Each to their own, I suppose.

I'm too damn cynical to believe such a love exists.
But go right ahead. If you're smart, and you know what's really best for ya, nothing should stop you.

i dont really have an oppinion on this. as long as everyone's happy i think it's ok

It's mostly for money...but if it's for love i guess it's ok

It's a bit...creepy, but...if they're in love...

I think when your a teenager, it matter more because you aren't as physically, emotionally, or mentally mature as someone about 10 years older than you. However, I do think that once your a bit older it doesn't really matter.

ok when i was in 6th grade i fucked this guy who was in his 20's that in my opinion was wrong but i was a little stripper then

as long as both of them are over 18, it doesn;t bother me. Like Hilary and Joel. i think thats a little wrong, she was like 17 when they started dating. he was like...what? 28? it was gross.

Hippy-Faggot-Punk-Rocker:

...No offence to the people concerned.....but 15.....

..........technically paedophilia.....I'm sure you know my opinion of that

H-F-P-R
Dead by Xmas

No, it's not paedophilia. She's old enough to decide whether or not she wants to be with him and obviously she does.

Paedophilia is when 40 odd year old men go round having sex with 3 month year old babies, and yes, it does happen. Now that is wrong.


Back to the issue though, I believe that it depends on the age gap. My parents have an 8 year old gap between them and they're very happily married.
If it's for money, that's completely wrong.

Know Your Rights:

Hippy-Faggot-Punk-Rocker:

...No offence to the people concerned.....but 15.....

..........technically paedophilia.....I'm sure you know my opinion of that

H-F-P-R
Dead by Xmas

No, it's not paedophilia.

She's right.

Unless there have been changes to the law recently, Paedophilia can be classified as when a minor (ie, Under the age of 16) has sexual relations with an adult above a certain age gap. I can't remeber what this gap is exactly, but it was around 5 years I think.

The term pedophile is often also used to describe any person who has perpetrated sexual crimes against children. We are talking about a 15 year old, still legally classified as a child.

Of course this girl sounds mature enough so I have no fears over her welfare and she appears to be in no danger.

it depends on if it's really love or not.

i dont think age is anything to judge people on, whether they see someone whos a few months older/younger than them or if the age gap is something like 10years, after all, age is only a number. & your only as old as you feel