Ahhhhhh help!!!
OK, I need advice desperatly on this one....
I have and AMAZING boyfriend who is thoughtful, generous, kind, HOT, loving, never pressures me, HOT (teehee! ^.^), always supporting, NEVER gets angry at me even when i'm an idiot and he's my best friend... BUT (why is there always a but?) he's really.... eh... not 'clingy'... but he's always there... I see him everyday, and even when he's working all day, he texts me all the time..
I know i sound like i'm complaining but i'm not! Really i love him soooo much... and i've talked to him a couple times about it and said we should cut back on seeing eachother a bit.
But its not working....
Bless his ickle heart.......
.......BUT A GIRL NEEDS HER DAMN SPACE!!! -_-
-_-
helpsh?
fankoo. =]
<3
(and again i know i sound like a bitch....... but i need me-time too...)
I have and AMAZING boyfriend who is thoughtful, generous, kind, HOT, loving, never pressures me, HOT (teehee! ^.^), always supporting, NEVER gets angry at me even when i'm an idiot and he's my best friend... BUT (why is there always a but?) he's really.... eh... not 'clingy'... but he's always there... I see him everyday, and even when he's working all day, he texts me all the time..
I know i sound like i'm complaining but i'm not! Really i love him soooo much... and i've talked to him a couple times about it and said we should cut back on seeing eachother a bit.
But its not working....
Bless his ickle heart.......
.......BUT A GIRL NEEDS HER DAMN SPACE!!! -_-
-_-
helpsh?
fankoo. =]
<3
(and again i know i sound like a bitch....... but i need me-time too...)
maybe he just loves yu alot .
and just wants to be with yu every minute of everyday , i kno it can get annoying maybe just explain to him that yu want some time to be by yurself or with yur friends or whatever .
but like some guys are just like uber insucure and they think if they leave yu out by yurself for like one minute yur going to be all over some other guy .
NOT SAYING THATS WHATS HAPPENING WITH YU .. cause well i dont kno .
but just try explaining it in a way that makes sense to him , like tell him yu love him and make that one of the key points ; then maybe he will spend a little more time doing his own thing and yu can do yur own . (:
elle., July 23rd, 2007 at 05:51:44pm
More talking helps as the above say
but also help him understand
just break to him gently but make sure he gets the message
:]
say somethinglike
" i know you'll always here when i need you and i love yew very much but sometimes i need my space to think"....
ir something like tht
im not very gewd with words
oh yeah before i forget
BUTTONS ROCK!
lol
Dry_Ice2309, July 21st, 2007 at 07:18:03pm
yess just talk to him again.. and explainthat when he is working that he doesn need ot text you.. you will be fine on your own =]
and make sure your understanding on his half too
My Chemical Emotions, July 21st, 2007 at 03:40:42am
Even the closest relationships need a little distance.
Just talk to him and explain to him how you feel the best you can. I'm sure he'll understand. =)
threeam., July 21st, 2007 at 01:50:34am
talk to him about it
be like "i need some space. i feel like you ALWAYS there when i turn around :]"
TheHobostacheSheriff, July 21st, 2007 at 01:37:51am